Mercnbeth
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Joined: 6/18/2004 From: Palos Verdes Estates Status: offline
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POINT of INFORMATION I just want to interject something here for consideration. It's a subject that beth and I are at odds. Very few, if any, of us are independently wealthy and can afford to live the way we do without some kind of compromise to our personal desires in appearance. One of the reasons beth and I look forward to Folsom Street Fair so much is that for at least that day - we can strut our stuff and, in my case, not have to wear my daily business "costume". Until I get my remote BDSM B&B open I expect I'll have to continue to live this double life. This boy needs to go through an exercise I call - "Project Out". It calls for consideration of consequences to actions or decisions. Five, ten, or even twenty years what will he be doing? Where will he work? There are just so many body piercers needed. Not everybody has the artistic talent to be a tattoo artist. The entertainment industry may be generally more accepting, but the average income of someone in the industry who has obtained a SAG card is less then the average McDonald's worker. The porn side industry has a waiting line of people wanting to "break into the business". When I see young person needing to "express" themselves with a Kelly green mohawk, a face full of piercing, or other body modifications that can't be hidden by standard clothing I wonder if they have given consideration to their future. I hire and unfortunately have to fire people too sometimes. Appearance counts. Not just for me, but for my clients. Bill Gates wouldn't get an entry level programmers job with me if he showed up looking like this boy. Sure, MY loss, maybe even MY prejudice; but pragmatically I can not afford the image hiring this person would project onto my business. Even in a business where he would not have to work in the public eye, I would have to make sure he was on vacation when my investors or bankers visited, or my big clients stopped by to chat. Maybe not so much here in SoCal, but in most parts of the United States it's a fact. Even in SoCal, I'm sure my conservative Banker, would raise an eyebrow and call for an audit, "just to be sure" about my decision making abilities. The school is impotent to do anything about this. As long as we make school attendance mandatory Civil Libertarians are right in defending this boys right to dress as he prefers. If school and education was a privilege earned by adhering to rules of dress and general decorum the mandatory uniform policy can be a part of the "earned" privilege. Do the young people adopting this look know, understand and appreciate these facts of life? Yes! I think youth is MUCH smarter then most in the older generation give them credit. Their parents allow the "look". At some point school is over and the parents tell them they need to get a job and get out of the house. They could go out every day in full regalia of green hair, and 3 pounds of metal in their face and fill out applications till the cows come home and not find one. Smart move huh? But they "tried". Should the world be this way? The answer really is immaterial. It IS this way. Quoting from a humor post I made today; "The fact that no one understands you doesn't mean you're an artist."
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Merc & beth "The words printed here are concepts. You must go through the experiences." - Saint Augustine
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