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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 11/10/2005 11:54:08 AM

Cloudz

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ORIGINAL: azure97531

My question for an experienced Domme is can orgasm control of a man, be so complete as to train him in the art of fellatio? To me, that would be the ultimate test of true control for a truly heterosexual male. Completion of this task would confirm true ownership.

If this is accomplished, my next question is, how does this now change the nature of the relationship of the Domme and her sub? It would seem to me that necessarily a change would occur,, with this transforming event. Would not the Domme completely and totally own this sub? What would be the next step?

Curiously curious.

Fellatio is certainly an art a desperate man will learn. It can go much further than that, a favorite of mine (and many others) is to train/allow him to consume his own fluids.

What would be the next step? That would depend on what one desire's. Once you control the penis...the mind will absolutely follow.

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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 11/10/2005 11:56:07 AM

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I am looking for a chastity belt for my Sub he is very well endowed and enormous bollocks is there such a device that can accomodate him?

There are sites where you can have one custom made, perhaps this is an avenue to explore?

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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 11/10/2005 1:49:04 PM

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Cloudz

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I have never had a sub that I DIDN'T use orgasam control on

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he he..........i just love it, that "I" have taken that away from EVERY female in this world.
it's one thing no female can control.......roflmao

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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 11/10/2005 3:43:52 PM

LadyAngelika

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Get a man sexually arroused and you can get him to do almost anything.

It is true with some men but not all of them. There are actually men that do not let the "other head" control them however aroused they may be. I live with one of those kind - there is no chance anyone could manipulate him through sex.

Kasia,

I prefer men like that as well. If I feel I can get away with anything, it's not fun anymore. I like a guy who has a backbone and some self respect. My boy says he'll do anything for me. I also know he has hard limits. It is up to me to use my judgement in the interest of our relationship and not go there. The consequences could be devastating. I wish more people realised that just because they have the power to do something, that doesn't mean that they should just do it.

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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 11/10/2005 3:46:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: Cloudz

Yes, as you have heard for the last two pages...orgasam denial is very effective. I think they actually think of sex 100 times more once they are no longer the decsion maker. I have never had a sub that I DIDN'T use orgasam control on. It seems a natural progression to me. Makes the heart grow fonder and the mind oh so much more attentive.

`Cloudz

I agree with you that orgasm denial builds desire. I use it exactly for that. I never deny orgasms as punishment or to be selfish. I do it to enhance sensuality and passion and to increase the bond between us.

But then again, I'm not my boy's "mommy". I'm his partner, his lover.

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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 11/10/2005 8:12:29 PM

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I prefer men like that as well. If I feel I can get away with anything, it's not fun anymore. I like a guy who has a backbone and some self respect.

Exactly. And I dont feel I can really trust a man whose perception can be altered whenever he gets hard on. It may happen on the street and with some other female - or any situation I had no control over.

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I wish more people realised that just because they have the power to do something, that doesn't mean that they should just do it.

I can only say my opinion - I would loose selfrespect if I used just any means to get what I want. I suppose its called principles. I can manipulate, I am good at it, I can use sex or friendship or emotions or any weak spot, I can easily find those spots and play on them. But somehow I find anything but honest and direct approach unworthy of me.

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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 11/10/2005 8:46:26 PM

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I prefer men like that as well. If I feel I can get away with anything, it's not fun anymore. I like a guy who has a backbone and some self respect.

Exactly. And I dont feel I can really trust a man whose perception can be altered whenever he gets hard on. It may happen on the street and with some other female - or any situation I had no control over.

You know Kasia, I never had anyone put it that way before. I read your words and I'm like... EXACTLY!

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I wish more people realised that just because they have the power to do something, that doesn't mean that they should just do it.

I can only say my opinion - I would loose selfrespect if I used just any means to get what I want. I suppose its called principles. I can manipulate, I am good at it, I can use sex or friendship or emotions or any weak spot, I can easily find those spots and play on them. But somehow I find anything but honest and direct approach unworthy of me.

Same here. I like your style and personal ethics :)

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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 11/10/2005 9:45:31 PM

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Personally, I can be manipulated and controlled through orgasm control and denial, but only if I trust the Domme enough to allow myself 'turn off' the part of my mind that prevents my being manipulated. Not coincidentally, with the few Dommes I have trusted this much, I have also been eager to relenquish control of my orgasms. Teasing, denial & chastity are very powerful fetishes I think many males have, and I know I have it bad. I'm just begining to explore being locked in chastity by a Mistress, and it has been a very intense and rewarding experience so far.

To answer the original question, I don't think that a woman can fundementally control a man with chastity. However, if the man is submissive and has the slightest interest in orgasm control, he will probably very maleable [sic, pun intended].

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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 11/11/2005 9:56:52 AM

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Yes! Yes!! Yes!!! Yes!!!! YES!!!!

Chastity devices are SENSATIONAL!!! Why do you think cheerleaders wear sexy little uniforms? Beer companies use buxom beauties to hock their product? Sex sells, baby. Men are driven by their sexual appetite. When a woman harnesses that vehicle, she controls where he goes.

By denying a man the ability to achieve orgasm without permission, he associates the woman that gave him that much needed release with pleasure. By locking a cock away in a chastity device, the woman controls when and how the man cums. Teasing him with the potential and only rewarding when he does something to please her, reinforces the idea that pleasing her gets him pleasure.

It is important to note that men NEED to cum for their own prostate health; however, it does not HAVE to be in the form of an orgasm (unless they have not had sperm released for over 2 weeks.... then the explosion is needed to remove any possible beginnings of infection). Wet dreams are a direct result of a man's body releasing excess cum that needs to be expelled. This will not give a major release (kind of like loosening the cap on a pressure cooker... takes the pressure off). Milking is another way to extricate the built up cum without benefit of an orgasm. The sub will see the cum dribbling out of his cock without the feels of pleasures of relief.

Some women go so far as to not allow a man to ever touch his own cock again. When he is out of chastity, he is bound to where the only stimulation is from her.......... forcing him to associate her with fantasies and stop fantasizing about the hottest Hollywood star or playboy penup. Because he cannot receive pleasure from them....... only his key holder can bring him to relief.

YES YES YES!!!!!! Chastity is a WONDERFUL TOOL!!!!

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