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RE: double standard? - 5/21/2004 11:50:21 AM

Sinergy

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MistressDREAD, you stated the following in one of your posts:

quote:

You respect Ones earned name of Master/Mistress
or Lord/Lady and the experiance thats behind it All

Therein lies the problem with your comments, imho. There is no codified or unified BDSM standards board which oversees BDSM training standards and certifications.
I meet somebody with a blue name tag (signifying Dominant) at a munch I have no idea whether the person has knows how to spell Dominant, has any experience, wants to get experience, or found the name tag in the dumpster out back.

A person calling themselves a [insert team affiliation here] is worth the paper the comment is printed on. Please explain how I can determine if the person who logs in and posts as LORD_GOD_MASTER_ULTIMATE_SIR has actually earned his titles?

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RE: double standard? - 5/21/2004 3:20:39 PM

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I disagree indigo
Alternate Living is My life
I live it
Work it
Shop it
Sleep it
Live it 24/7 and so do those
whom are with Me in My home
and thrive in a vanilla world
with My BDSM Living and ways
and its the vanilla in My opinion
whom live in the vacuum. Im
on the outside lookin in. There is
no part of My Living that is not
Alternate and has been so since
I was born. And yes I have
always stood out in societys
croud as the Nonconformist. JMO

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RE: double standard? - 5/21/2004 4:03:47 PM

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but there is a
unified BDSM
standard and
this is where
integrity and
Honor step in
and are upheld.
If you do not
have it within
the BDSM groups
your a part of then
I would say they
are not true to
whats long been
established
BDSM ways.
perverseangelic
I respect Dominants
limits on their
posessions
when I find out
they have
them. This will
be the last
time I address
your words
as Ive put you
on the dont
touch dont talk
dont debate ban
from collarme.
welcome to My
respect Doms
list.

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RE: double standard? - 5/21/2004 4:14:55 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD
Alternate Living is My life
I live it
Work it
Shop it
Sleep it
Live it 24/7 and so do those
whom are with Me in My home
and thrive in a vanilla world
with My BDSM Living and ways
and its the vanilla in My opinion
whom live in the vacuum. Im
on the outside lookin in. There is
no part of My Living that is not
Alternate and has been so since
I was born. And yes I have
always stood out in societys
croud as the Nonconformist. JMO

And do you not shop in 'vanilla' grocery stores, 'vanilla' clothing stores, 'vanilla' car dealerships? Do you or your slaves not work in 'vanilla' workplaces? Do you not eat in 'vanilla' owned and frequented establishments? Surely you don't impose your alternate living on those who own and operate such establishments or who frequent them....

As an added note, I think anyone who shits themselves off from the rest of the world in favor of one single minded way of life is missing out on a good portion of life.

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RE: double standard? - 5/21/2004 8:22:36 PM

Sinergy

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quote:

but there is a
unified BDSM
standard

Please indicate the qualifications that make up those who made up the unified BDSM standard.

Additionally, what structure makes up the governing body of the organization which has codified and published these standards.

Regards,

Sinergy

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RE: double standard? - 5/21/2004 9:06:53 PM

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actually most things that I do are with those whom are also lifestyle when posible as I support My Lifestyle Dealership and Lifestyle Grocer and Lifestyle Construction Lifestyle Clothing and tools and toys and when We do go to sumthing that is vanilla it is not as a vanilla but as a Lifestyler and I could say the same thing that vanilla temp to impose their lifes in My Grocer My Car Dealership My Construction Company My PLACES that I frequent that are Lifestyle so I guess You can say that We do impose Our Lifestyle on Society vanillas because We do not hide what We are. We dress and act in a way that gives no doubt as to what We practice and beleive and do so at all times. There are Many Lifestyles that are lived and Ours is only One of Many and TOLERANCE is the the only thing that any one of Us are suppose to practice when one is fronted to Us and those whom hide what they are or beleive are simply weak and scared of facing what I have My intire life, successfully I might add. FYI if you had any semblance of ME AND of who I was would know that I do not live just One lifestyle but the one that I do NOT live is Vanilla.I see noone shitting them selfs off from the world and most definatly not Me and Mine. Life is sumthing I have NOT missed out on LOL. JMO

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