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RE: Serving multiple masters - 3/28/2005 3:13:56 PM   
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RiotGirl-
I totally agree with you. I'm totally fascinated and am dying to know more, more, more about Planet Ravenna........
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RE: Serving multiple masters - 3/29/2005 12:06:32 AM   
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Wow, RiotGirl and Berlin, thanks so much for the vote of confidence! And i am so flattered by your interest in my not-so-very-strange life; thanks so much for asking, your "nosiness" is very welcome. (Just wait till i have a question or two for you, darlings, my nosiness is second to none!) Michelangelo says he'll have to start organizing luxury cruises to Planet Ravenna, with himself as the head tour guide. i pointed out that it's actually a very small (though picturesque) planet, and it's pretty full already, what with two big shots running the place and a hardworking population of exactly one slave girl, so the tourist accommodations might get a little cramped. And my rulers do like to be able to stretch out at will in Planet Ravenna's pleasure palaces...

Last i heard the big cruise idea was on hold, but yes, darlings, i will try to give you the tour guide's eye view. Maybe tomorrrow? It's bedtime now on my little planet...

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RE: Serving multiple masters - 3/31/2005 8:21:45 AM   
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Thank you to everyone who expressed an interest in hearing more about my life! And thanks for being patient (life, you know). Herewith a snapshot of life on Planet Ravenna, not the whole travelogue and no boring slide show; my master Michelangelo keeps reminding me, when i start to ramble here, that no one asked to read my fucking memoirs. (The title of the book i keep threatening to write, My Fucking Memoirs, which would be a memoir mostly about, well, fucking...)

There is no typical day on Planet Ravenna. She’s a small planet and she orbits two very different suns. And sometimes both suns are shining on her at the same time, which makes her very warm and happy. She only hopes that night never falls… Life is very different under each of my suns/owners because they are very different (and very similar), and it’s different again when i’m with both of them. And different now in major ways from when they owned me individually before. i’d better save that for the memoirs, it’s a couple of chapters at least! So i’ll start with some of the questions you asked.

Yes, i am very bi. Most of my early sexual experiences were with other girls, until i was almost sixteen. i went through a switch phase in high school, when i was topping my girlfriends and bottoming for my boyfriends (or trying to, sheesh, can you say clueless horny teenagers? And no, i didn’t know any of those switch-top-bottom words yet). i love women’s bodies and hearts, but i always knew i would belong to a man someday. Men are whom i was meant to serve. My only semi-official Domme was Third Owner’s girlfriend, who had full use of me while he owned me and was a complete ice-cold sadist, just like Third. (*Shivering!*) An amazing experience i neither regret nor would have missed but am not volunteering to repeat. And i think horses would fly before my owners would share me with a Domme, but hey, in my experience horses do fly sometimes…

Protocol, rules, punishment, fetishes… Hmmm. My life is not very regimented except when and how they say it is, and then it really is. Their fundamental rule is that my freedom was taken away in order to maximize their freedom to use me as they please, so they’re skeptical of anything that infringes their freedom, except briefly for their enjoyment or curiosity or my punishment. They’re not much interested in keeping me on schedules, except for my gym time (at least 3 hours a day in two or three chunks, other plans permitting), especially since i don’t have to hold down another job, i’m at their disposal 24/7, and my daily life is totally dependent on who i’m with and what he’s up to at the moment. (When we’re all together it tends to be all-bets-off playtime.)

There’s no typical day, but here’s a recent one, a quiet day: i awoke at seven, chained to the bed right where Michelangelo left me, with his cock sliding home between my legs. i wasn’t quite wet enough, so he had to push a little harder to get inside me, which we both always like a lot. After he used me, he took my clit in hand for an orgasm while i was still chained up, an unexpected treat in the morning, since we had no early schedule to keep. A run, an hour in the gym, my daily enema, a shower, a little more fooling around under the spray, lounging around with breakfast and the papers, then dressed for a late lunch with a client who needs a favor. Michelangelo is phasing out his practice, but the client is a friend, he remembers me from years before when i was my master’s assistant, he thinks we’re a cute couple (we are), and the favor is doable. Then some shopping separately, he picks me up for more gym time in the afternoon, dinner at home (he cooked, he’s much better than i am in the kitchen, so i do the laundry). After dinner he had reading to do while i played on the computer and talked to family on the phone, especially my 15-year-old niece who’s a complete doll, then a long slow lovely playtime in front of the fireplace, pretty vanilla (plus some spanking) but pretty intense. Some more reading, to each other this time, then early to bed for a change, and no chains tonight. But then way past midnight he woke me up with hardly a word, leashed me, dragged me out to the cold back deck naked and shivering, fastened me kneeling and handcuffed, and used my mouth deeply over and over – guess there was something missing from our quiet day after all, and now we’ve found it...

Michelangelo loves chaining me to the bed at night, sometimes 2 or 3 nights a week, but it’s not predictable, at least not by me; it’s entirely at his pleasure. Caging a slave is actually pretty labor-intensive for her owners, therefore it’s rare on my planet, but when they get into it they really get into it, up to 24 hours at a time. And they’re not very fetishy at all, i have lots more fetishes than they have (another whole chapter). For example, they love me in heels and hose and garter belts and corsets, but they also take me lots of places where Nikes and shorts or hiking boots or cowboy boots and jeans or bare feet just work a lot better. Having to drag me everywhere in fetish spike heels and a tight-laced waspie would really limit their freedom, so it’s a non-starter. Protocol: i was trained by Michelangelo years ago to operate in various “conditions,” each one a combination of mental, emotional, psychological, spiritual and physical states, and each condition has its own protocol. For example, in public and in everyday circumstances when i’m in what Michelangelo calls "Condition A," or what Marco refers to as “Girlfriend Who Never Says No” mode, i am at liberty to act on my own initiative in acting on their orders or fulfilling their desires or pursuing their goals, and i am quite free to call them both by their names or by my pet names for them or to make up new names; i call them both “darling” a lot, and I often call Michelangelo “Boss” or “Chief” or “Commander” or “Mr. Big” or “Enchilada Grande” or whatever our catchphrase of the hour might be. Sir and Master creep in occasionally, but never where it would raise eyebrows, unless i can pass it off as a joke. But in some conditions permission to speak is required, Sir or Master is required, and often i am incapable of speaking at all or of only babbling (i’m sure you’ve all been there). Other conditions have other rules. (Also another chapter, or actually a whole book… email me if you want to know more.)

Who’s in charge: Whoever has me in his keeping at the moment is in complete command of me, reward or punishment alike; when they’re together they work it out before I get my orders. They’re usually on the same wavelength, or else they argue, their second favorite thing to do; and if it’s a big issue they work it out long distance, which they do all the time anyway. For example, Michelangelo and i spent a long weekend recently with an old friend of his and his new slave, who was supposed to be a big surprise to us both (but we suspected). My owners had worked out all the probabilities beforehand by phone/email, so they were on the same page together no matter what happened. And they had secretly planned my new nose piercing (My septum! Wow! More later…) for later on when we three would all be together, but the opportunity suddenly presented itself that weekend, so Marco got a phone call before Michelangelo pulled the trigger, i got a big surprise (and a few moments of pain and a lot of tears and a beautiful new hole), and then Marco got the pictures by email minutes later…

i’ve never had a general safeword. i rely on my guys being able to read me like a book and i trust them with my life, but sometimes when we’re trying something new and/or scary or with new people iI’m given a temporary safeword. (i had one for our weekend with the friend and his new slave; didn’t use it.) i don’t remember ever using one, but Michelangelo says i have; i must have been really out of it. And we have evolved a little secret language over the years, so in public or at parties we can privately communicate useful messages like I’m bored, let’s split or this place is awful or these people are freaking me out or i'm wet and horny, please take me home or I’m game, you wanna? or meet me on the balcony in five with your skirt up! We have a word for immediate danger which would work as a safeword if i ever needed it.

Contracts: i don’t have a “slave contract,” as such, which is actually a little surprising, considering that owning me again created a blizzard of paperwork for them: trust funds, wills, power of attorney, beneficiaries, contingencies, directives, etc., not to mention putting me back on the payroll; for legal, tax and insurance purposes i am one of Michelangelo’s employees again, his “personal assistant.” But my real slave contract is verbal. My complete surrender was demanded and given and that was that, and if a question comes up i know who to ask. Oh, there is a bill of sale for the transaction, actually two of them, one at Marco’s place and one at Michelangelo’s, and they have my older ones in their collections too.

Michelangelo points out here that owning a slave inevitably limits the owner’s freedom as well as the slave’s, even as it gives the owner the freedom to enjoy his slave’s body, heart and will in his service. He says it’s a lot like owning a horse. The horse owner can easily start to feel the horse actually owns him; the tradeoff is he gets to ride the horse. In my case, they try very hard to limit the limitations that owning me places on them while maximizing their freedoms. (And owning me is much better than owning a horse; for one thing i shovel out my own stall, horses don’t do that, and often i get to clean out the horses’ stalls too…)

Okay, last snapshot, casting the movie! For our lovely spunky heroine, i’d really want to go Old Hollywood and bring Katharine Hepburn back from the dead to play me, but her beautiful down-turned mouth is all wrong for mine, we’ll have to get Audrey Hepburn’s mouth and chin, and we’ll need Cher’s curly black hair from Moonstruck, it’s a lot like mine when it’s allowed to go berserk. Cher is still around, but her hair in that movie was so huge it probably has its own agent. If it’s a porno film, Devinn Lane to play me (Google her, she’s gorgeous), if it’s modern Hollywood, maybe Kate Beckinsale or Jennifer Connelly? Call their agents! For the guys, well, it’s hard to beat Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid, but with a young Charlton Heston as Butch and maybe Jude Law as Sundance (though he’s not big enough), so the budget to film Planet Ravenna will require not only interplanetary travel for locations, but a time machine. And then the sequels can be Beneath Planet Ravenna and Return to Planet Ravenna of the Apes or Apes Gone Wild at Spring Break on Planet Ravenna or something.

Okay, even my snapshots run long. Sorry. But thanks for asking, reading and caring, this site is such a special place full of such amazing people, it’s wonderful to be here. And so Planet Ravenna sets in the west as we ride off into the sunset with Butch and Sundance…

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RE: Serving multiple masters - 3/31/2005 8:26:00 AM   
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This girl is currently serving a Master and His Mistress, she reports and answers to the Master but serves both.
She recently met another Master who is part of her current Master's 'house' or 'family' .
this girl doen't know exactly where this will lead but am anticipating some interesting sessions.
with her at the bottom.
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RE: Serving multiple masters - 3/31/2005 10:46:53 AM   
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While i am not in the precise type of relationshp as you are, ravenna, i am in a similar one: i am Owned and married to my Master, but Master shares me with a Mistress, and they co-orchestrate scenes with me. There are sessions with both Master and Mistress together, double-teaming, and there are sessions individually. Sometimes both are present but only participates; sometimes both participate. Mistress lives about an hour away, and sometimes She will call Master and have me sent to her for a day.

While i do not consider myself "co-owned", as Master has final say in all, it is a unique situation, and i feel pretty special to serve two such beautiful People. The lack of jealousy or any sense of competition between Them is a remarkable turn on. Each will inspect marks left by the other. Yet each has their own speed, intensity and style of domination. i am very, VERY lucky (and grateful!)

~ anna

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RE: Serving multiple masters - 4/1/2005 10:27:02 AM   
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WOW!!
Thankyou so much for sharing, ravenna. Amazing story. I love hearing about life in your world. Simply lovely.....
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RE: Serving multiple masters - 4/3/2005 4:10:12 PM   
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Thought that i would share my relationship since it's a bit different as well. i serve a Master and Mistress - who are married to each other. i am Their only submissive, and am collared to Them. Each are into different styles of play so to put it one way - as a submissive i get the best of both worlds.

Being a single submissive however, to a married Couple, can be trying at times. The only advice i can give, is take it one day at a time and in 'small steps'. Be honest, open and most importantly - communicate about everything. No secrets with one or the other. It really does help... :)


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RE: Serving multiple masters - 4/3/2005 10:51:29 PM   
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Thanks fir replying Ravena = ) i also love hearing about it. You write so well too = ) thanks and keep sharing!

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RE: Serving multiple masters - 4/4/2005 11:43:40 PM   
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Our house only has one dominant, hoever we have been looking for another dominant who can be brother to my Master as well as bring his family into our nuclear family. It have been a long haul. Although he has friends across the US there are so many men who just think that is's all about sex and not family so Master tends to send them away quickly. I am not saying that we couldn't have sex however we are not there to be used and discarded.

How many have you all had an LTR with another dominant in residence?

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RE: Serving multiple masters - 4/11/2005 9:32:28 PM   
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Each will inspect marks left by the other. -- ARoseAndAnEye

Ooh, that gave me chills! My owners do that too. Sometimes i think they're writing messages for each other on my body in a secret language that only they can read. One of them will look at the welts or bruises the other made on me and brush his fingers over them as if he were reading Braille, and just laugh. If i ask what's so funny about my poor whipped ass he'll say, "Just reading your diary, darling, that's a very striking entry for last night," or else he'll tell me exactly which instrument, how many strokes, forehand or backhand, soft or hard... They do seem to use me to communicate with each other in ways no one else can. i've been accusing them jokingly for years of being secretly gay and just using my body to make love to each other and using my ass to give each other a whipping: "There, that flogging i just gave the slave's ass? Well, that's what I'd like to do to you, if only I dared, you great big masterful hunk of man, you!" Well, this just makes them laugh too...

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RE: Serving multiple masters - 4/11/2005 10:19:08 PM   
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Wow, this was very interesting for me to read, considering i just found the place. The reason i say this is because i consider myself owned by 2 Masters. I am collared RL to my LD Master. He has been my Master and boyfriend for over 5 years now. I don't see Him very frequently, but absolutely love the time i get to spend with Him.

Recently, as in January, i met another Dom online who has collared me online and we are considering a relationship RL. At this point in time, I consider myself owned by Him as well, even though the realtionship hasn't move to RL yet.

Have i mentioned i'm poly? One of the questions that has come up with my online Master is that if it moves forward how will Him owning me conflict with Master owning me. We haven't figured this out yet. It really won't be much of a problem until we move into RL. But it definately makes lots of sense to me. i am so crazy over both these Men and how they make me feel. i would be crushed if i were forced to give either Master up.

Anyway, thanks for sharing your story, ravenna!

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RE: Serving multiple masters - 4/11/2005 10:52:57 PM   
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Hi, tianna! Thanks for jumping aboard. But what you said raises some huge questions for me: Do they both know about each other? And how does your Master of five years feel about sharing you with a stranger? Does the new guy want to take you over completely? What if they decide they can't stand each other, or each wants the other one out of your life? Wow, i sense opportunities for, ahem, drama here! And also maybe some extreme excitement for the lucky slave girl caught in the middle of all this drama. Do please tell us more, if you can...

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RE: Serving multiple masters - 4/11/2005 11:09:14 PM   
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quote:

Do they both know about each other?

Yes, since i am poly, i believe in honesty and communication. they do both know about each other and my current situation. i will call RL Master MasterS and online Master MasterK. makes it easier on me.

Master S has given me free range to play with whomever i decide so long as it is safe, sane, consentual and won't hurt me perminately. i also tell Him about any plans i have before i do anything. So He is always in the loop. At first He was jealous of Master K. This is typical in any relationship. But He has weathered the storm many times and i have also been jealous because He has a live-in submissive and gf. We live several states away from each other.

Master K has told me that if things continue toward RL and even toward a permanant relationship ie: marriage and/or kids there would be a point where He wouldn't want me to have any other relationships. But He and i have only just begun to talk about it. It really has no bearing on our relationship as it stands right now. The reason i say this is because it hasn't move to RL yet. We haven't yet met either. (crossing my fingers and hoping it happens soon)

As for your third question;
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What if they decide they can't stand each other, or each wants the other one out of your life?

This would obviously cause problems. But to be honest, i find it hard for the both of them to not get along in some form. They are both in the same industry (computers) and have many things in common. (somehow i always seem to find the technogeek Doms *lol*, i suppose that's because i'm a geek myself) Obviously, if things continue on the current course, there will come a time where i will want the both of them to meet. They don't live too far apart from each other (about an 5 hour drive one way) in different states, but i would have to fly out to wherever we decided to meet. Master S had the joy of meeting my ex-husband, who was very jealous of Him. (i didn't find that he was jealous til after the divorce) But we had worked through it. my highest hope would be that they would get along and be able to talk to each other.

in my world, Master K would give me to Master S to use as He desires. meaning, i would go from being in Master K's complete control to Master S's. Then back again once i would return. But it is a long time in coming as far as i am aware, so it is only a dream for me right now.

hope this helps clear somethings up.

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RE: Serving multiple masters - 4/13/2005 12:10:45 AM   
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Thanks, tianna, that helps a lot. i'm so glad you've found two wonderful masters, i'm just sorry they're both long distance! It's so gut-wrenching to have to leave either one of my owners, i can't imagine being away from both of them. Thanks for sharing your situation, and you have my admiration for hanging in there, i hope it all comes together for you...

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RE: Serving multiple masters - 4/24/2005 8:29:40 AM   
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I have mentioned in a previous post.

It is Writen, if You serve 2 Masters
at once, You shall shurley hate one of them~

How difficult it is to Be content with one~

I am single and have met 3 different people Who had everything I
could have ever imagined. I just wished I could havve combined them
into one!

But my Faith says one and one alone~

Sincerely, ant

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RE: Serving multiple masters - 4/25/2005 8:19:13 PM   
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quote:

It is Writen, if You serve 2 Masters
at once, You shall shurley hate one of them~

How difficult it is to Be content with one~
quote:



perhaps that's why i'm not of the same faith as you.


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RE: Serving multiple masters - 4/26/2005 12:47:46 AM   
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I am a Dominant with a Dominant male partner and together we collared a female slave.. We felt it gave the slave a feeling of greater belonging and security to be owned by both but I would have to say that right at the start We set groundrules to avoid any conflict of instructions..
That it could become a problem at any time was evident to all at the outset and would apply in any poly situation especially where there is more than One Dominant regardless of wether the dynamics is Male/male, male/ female or female/ female.
Yes I would have to say that a female serving multiple Masters is not something that I have seen except in respect to Gor and even then there is usually only one who "owns " the collar but I see no reason why it is not possible and successfully so when all are consenting and . as We did , establish ground rules from the start

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RE: Serving multiple masters - 4/26/2005 12:53:21 AM   
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heythis forum calls Me vanilla.. OK where does it let you tell them different? ..
a very NON vanilla newbie at posting on forums

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RE: Serving multiple masters - 4/26/2005 6:07:04 PM   
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Tianna,
Is there any other faith??

Scientists believe in the big bang Theory,
But each time they say they have found it,
They go back to square one.

I use to be a buddhist. Opps I didn't say that~

I just wish people would get to know that if You have Hell like my friend says,
Then You have Heaven also!~~

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