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ORIGINAL: Zensee

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ORIGINAL: Arpig

Well said John.
I find it a little odd that if I am a Dom then somehow I am not entitled to be foolish...Hell I enjoy being foolish, its fun...but I guess that being Dom is supposed to trump being fun...oh well, I guess I will have to just claim to be a wannabe, since I am NOT going to give up either.

I believe the point is that mnottertail is being agonisingly coy, dissembling and passive agressive - not that Doms can't have a fun side. It would help if people would consider the entire context of a statement instead of cherry picking snippets of phrases for the purpose of taking issue. That's pretty silly too.

And I second the motion for the hand gun debate to go find it's own thread.

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ORIGINAL: JohnWarren

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ORIGINAL: wytchywoman
silly when some one who claims to be a dom posts nonsense witthout substance.

Could you explain to me why to you a person's orientation has anything to do with this?

Is it OK for a submissive to "post nonsense witthout substance?" Does a switch need to post some substance but not as much as a dom?

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ORIGINAL: wytchywoman

Based on all that I have seen in my limited time here, you're quite odd, Ron. Now I also read where you said to not take you seriously, but honestly...you think we don't?
Where you see the places I tell you not to take me seriously, you can make your own choice of doing so or not. Where no such caveat exists, you can do so or not.

You are providing all of us with a classic case of dissembling in the name of "humor", when if fact, you really mean everything you post. You just don't want to own it, so you pass it off as a "joke".
That is a stretch in your imagination. "classic" nothing.
I own everything I post here. 1831+ of 'em no bunch of names, no changing my profile every day, picture on my profile, many people here know my name...........

That is called "passive/aggressive" and that's what I will call you until you can prove to me you aren't.
I don't give the glimmer of a fuck what you call me, and I ain't gonna prove nothing to nobody.... however, you are several symptoms short of passive/agressive and oh so clinically inexperienced to make that diagnosis doc.....
I just find it silly when some one who claims to be a dom (insert your name here) posts nonsense witthout substance.

I mean...be honest. The other post you made saying "fuck me...I am going to name names" is a classic example of passive/agressive behavior no matter how you try to hide it under the second hand guise of "humor".
There was absolutely no humor in that post and it is intimately connected to this one........
Who in their right mind would come here and ask advice about matters of life, death and major change? I mean; you might post an opinion.

I laud anothers concern for their friends. Many times that has led to pure tragedy, because it ain't real help, see?

However; as I understand the scenario a guy hires a special valet to help him park the caddillac in the garage and throughout the entire performance, his gun is laying wadded up in his clothes in innate but very menacing fashion, and horrors of horrors she glimpses it at he dresses........and..........nothing....

I think that covers the salient points, does it not? Then the posting flurry comes and statistics are provided that no statistics prove that homes are safer than not with guns in 'em. This whole thing being a culmination of some other cross-postings to which I replied as well, but they got pulled and mods are involved and emails are flying around and everybody is bitching at everybody else and we are now at the point that the talking heads come in and hip everyone to the personality flaws that are so apparent in the others, and generally castigating us ne'er do wells.

Well, back to my 1831+ posts. There were many more, and some that I had worked hours on and sent giving sound advice that were pulled by Mods, sometimes whole threads........(if I told you why they would pull this, suffice it to say I accepted their judgements without rancor.)

So for you; this is one of those posts you don't wanna take seriously, but also for you take all my other posts seriously.

Anybody else......I am jus' me.

Ron

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you're quite odd, Ron.

wytchywoman

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

You know Ron, I certainly don't think that you need to explain yourself, your posting style or your opinions to anyone.
If they don't like what you write then they have every opportunity to block you.
I enjoy your posts.
And you're one of the few here that know my real name.


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I agree with you Aileen....we will always have those who don't like what we say..."Block"
There loss. Ron, brings a lot of good information and humor to the board.
Good post!

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crystalamber? did they steal from you?

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ORIGINAL: swtnsparkling

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crystalamber? did they steal from you?

Does that matter?
Like crystal amber said: she chalked it up to experience and moved on. Why waste time and look even more foolish by trying to tell everyone your story here. Unless the Facts from both sides are known doesn't much matter what some one says most times it just looks like bashing.

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ORIGINAL: crystalamber

I met someone one on one from this site, and it wasn't an ideal situation for me. Why should I bash them because I feel like a fool? I chalked it up to experience, and moved on.

crystal amber

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That is called "passive/aggressive" and that's what I will call you until you can prove to me you aren't. And I don't think you can at this point.

Good call wytchy. To abuse Churchill "Rarely on the forums of chat have so many words said so little about so much".

In regards to the OP, if the lynch mob will allow - ArtistInTN respectfully enquired as to whether and how one might report a member of CM who seems to have been involved in fraud (theft of services, as it is called in Canada).

While many of you may find tattling distasteful (a hold-over reaction from grade school perhaps) I would agree with PenelopePitstop that the OP showed courage and concern as well as discretion to bring the question here. That she has stuck around despite the abuse, to clarify and support her position, shows that far from being a "jilted lover type" she has an abiding desire to both understand how this community works and to provide it with a valuable service.

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ORIGINAL: Zensee

Most of the elaboration on the boards seems to come from people making sweeping presumptions that are in no way supported by and at times almost contradictory to the initial post. People comment on coments about comments, and the original topic gets totally lost.

Just a general observation and pet peve.