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ORIGINAL: Sensualips

I care for you and want to work through this. I am openly and honestly communicating to you I want X and can not tolerate Y.

I also care about you. I can tolerate Y, but I can not do X. What I really want is Z.

I have thought about this and I am open to Z, but I must have X.

I will do X, but I will be unfulfilled and resentful. Maybe I could get past that. Because I love you.

But I love you too. And I want you to be happy. But I also need X...I just can't be content and healthy without X.

X gives me chest pains and makes me want to vomit.

Ummm.

Hmmm.

Well hell, now what do we do.

Hey, I have an idea. Let's have this same conversation every day for two months. For variety we can cry sometimes, and scream others, and communicate the same needs in every imaginable way. How about it?