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FelinePersuasion -> RE: what is it with girls having masters double their age? (12/9/2005 10:47:41 PM)
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To the original OP
you aren't even old enough to go to any clubs, at least you wouldn't be in Sacramento. Or drink or gamble or anything you have to be over 21 to do. I'm only 23 myself but I wouldn't want a dom who wasn't old enough to take me to bdsm clubs, Or treat me to a trip to a casino. Or even come to a bar with me to listen to local talent night./
And you come across very rude and imature with your comment about beer belly doms who can't even walk up a flight of stairs. If I had ever had any interest in a guy your age that rudeness would have crossed you off any interest I had. Rudeness and nasty comments like that are not traits I want in any man.
I am not bear bellied or old and I can't walk up stairs to well because I broke both my ankles falling when I was a teen and as a young girl, There's a lot of stuff I can't do properly and I'm not old or beer bellied.
And most of the older men don't have that cock sure holier than tho I look good cause I am young and you're an old fart attitude. Looks fade bodies get flabbier as we age but good manners are timeless.
I'm not saying all older people have better manners but their a lot less rude than young people sometimes.
For instance I have never heard someone 30 say to someone 20 ew you're older than dirt you sicko, and I have heard young people in their early 20's disparage older people as being sicko's and dirty old men or woman for being older.
I also want someone older than me because they're more experinced usualy and are at a place in their life* usualy not always* to provide the time and care a submisive needs. Also with in limits I am attracted to older men. Most but certaintly not all respect women have their shit together know what they're doing and the age diffrence can facilitate into fantasy play of older man takes younger girl under their wing
What do you bring to the table. Do you have the resources to learn to use dangerous toys properly. Do you know that bdsm can be life threatening done wrongly. Do you know that a bull whip breaks the sound barrier and can break skin and bones.
Have you bothered to learn anything about toys and how to do them safely.
are you finacially stable enough to outfit a dungion, to get the equipment that specialty needs require to do. Are you secure enough in your own person to be humble and not think you're better than someone else just cause they're old.
Do you have the time to dedicate to a sub or slave. Are you experinced enough to know not to hit a person in their kidnies with a whip.
Do you know your anatomy, do you know you can break a tail bone so not to hit the bones.
Have you taken the time to learn CPR or basic first aid in case something you were doing has gone wrong.
Would you know what to do if you tied a sub up and she fainted? Or fell and sprained something, or knocked their head and went lights out.
Are you in charge of your life enough to insist on saftey measures, like safe sex and not playing alone with a partner you don't know. Subs can claim you raped them when you didn't it's happend before. Do you respect yourself enough to demand to know that partners Are drug and disease free. Do you have any credibility that you're safe sane and consentual and a good person in good standing with a local lifestyle comunity.
Can you afford to be seen at lifestyle events or do you have to hide from every one. Are you gainfully employed or have some other legal source of income
Ect ect ecyt
Maybe they aren't really rejecting young doms like you.
Maybe they're rejecting you.
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