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jamesthehumanrug -> RE: Poly ONLY works "if" ---> read on (11/20/2005 2:07:39 PM)
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greetings, my dear,
widower dom,
permission ,to speak:
,if i may;
you are right;minus the possibility ,of herums, and, indian cultures ;
monogamy, or even serial-monogamy is the rule; it's a development, of evolution.(biological aspects,of human behavior -boston university, prof.,ms. m.landau,) ,to guard ,against ,inbreeding, and, ensure fittest ,of the species.
i learned ,in abnormal-psych. grad. shool,that,
again you are right
no 3-somes work ;and, the youngest ,if any is always killed, by the oldest ,if any...
plus: 2 females ;even ,if gay ,or, in a "specialized-friendship"(damian,and,pithius,) will never technically be able ,to get along ,without arguments due to ,too similar politics which causes arguments(dissonence,in same strong belief systems:ie: causes protests ,by one ,or the ,0ther,against each ,other,of the same government....)
"viva la differance" ,in this case means
:there are less arguments ,or some positive value, to straight,
or more agreements are possible, if the 2 are: male vs. female,for, instance:
male ,and ,females are ,so different, because, of raised gender differences
( don't worry:there's a 'cure' ;use circular play-toys, thru,out life) ,and ,together are ,in 2 -completely different -gender-based political fields , that
they are,inevitably brought ,up ,in 2 different worlds,
and, therefore:can get along better,than same-sex;
whereas,
one guy don't care ,about ,that little thing ,and, the female is ,out ,of her mind ,about such a thing, as the toilet-seat,up ,and, falling, in, the toilet ,at nite ,by surprize(....,to the male is ,of no concern,to the female is major point,of major concern)....
,altho: "similarity attracts",
if one is dominant the ,other has ,to be ,just , as dominant
,with the polar-opposite trait ,to attract ,and, keep the attention ,of the ,other,so they matched ,together
(ie:really really top, w/really really bottom)
one anology is:
elvis is a huge dominant personality,
and, wants a similar dominant female, that "sticks ,out"
equally dominant, amoung females,
but, still ,maifests, as top/ bottom compliments ,in bed.
so really : "opposites" will usually ,not attract...,
if you can ,over come all this....
,and, find the body; the mind ,and ,the spirit ,of a threesome ,
in a poly- relationship ;it's rare ,(possible,not probable ),and, in theory: will workout....who's who is the question,to figure ,out....
finally ;
according ,to the A.P.A. (AMERICAN PSYCHOLOGICAL ,AND, PSYCHIATRIC ASSOCIATIONS ) "bi "is the most well -ballanced preference, of, both gay ,and ,straight; considering....
,so -sorry ,to take all your time ,goddess ,
only ,to say:
you are absolutely right.
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