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LeatherBehr77 -> RE: Poly ONLY works "if" ---> read on (11/28/2005 10:16:00 AM)
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ORIGINAL: jamesthehumanrug
greetings, my dear,
widower dom,
permission ,to speak:
,if i may;
you are right;minus the possibility ,of herums, and, indian cultures ;
monogamy, or even serial-monogamy is the rule; it's a development, of evolution.(biological aspects,of human behavior -boston university, prof.,ms. m.landau,) ,to guard ,against ,inbreeding, and, ensure fittest ,of the species.
i learned ,in abnormal-psych. grad. shool,that,
again you are right
no 3-somes work ;and, the youngest ,if any is always killed, by the oldest ,if any...
plus: 2 females ;even ,if gay ,or, in a "specialized-friendship"(damian,and,pithius,) will never technically be able ,to get along ,without arguments due to ,too similar politics which causes arguments(dissonence,in same strong belief systems:ie: causes protests ,by one ,or the ,0ther,against each ,other,of the same government....)
"viva la differance" ,in this case means
:there are less arguments ,or some positive value, to straight,
or more agreements are possible, if the 2 are: male vs. female,for, instance:
male ,and ,females are ,so different, because, of raised gender differences
( don't worry:there's a 'cure' ;use circular play-toys, thru,out life) ,and ,together are ,in 2 -completely different -gender-based political fields , that
they are,inevitably brought ,up ,in 2 different worlds,
and, therefore:can get along better,than same-sex;
whereas,
one guy don't care ,about ,that little thing ,and, the female is ,out ,of her mind ,about such a thing, as the toilet-seat,up ,and, falling, in, the toilet ,at nite ,by surprize(....,to the male is ,of no concern,to the female is major point,of major concern)....
,altho: "similarity attracts",
if one is dominant the ,other has ,to be ,just , as dominant
,with the polar-opposite trait ,to attract ,and, keep the attention ,of the ,other,so they matched ,together
(ie:really really top, w/really really bottom)
one anology is:
elvis is a huge dominant personality,
and, wants a similar dominant female, that "sticks ,out"
equally dominant, amoung females,
but, still ,maifests, as top/ bottom compliments ,in bed.
so really : "opposites" will usually ,not attract...,
if you can ,over come all this....
,and, find the body; the mind ,and ,the spirit ,of a threesome ,
in a poly- relationship ;it's rare ,(possible,not probable ),and, in theory: will workout....who's who is the question,to figure ,out....
finally ;
according ,to the A.P.A. (AMERICAN PSYCHOLOGICAL ,AND, PSYCHIATRIC ASSOCIATIONS ) "bi "is the most well -ballanced preference, of, both gay ,and ,straight; considering....
,so -sorry ,to take all your time ,goddess ,
only ,to say:
you are absolutely right.
Hmm, i find this post most disturbing as that this is about the furthest thing from the truth, and delving into any anthropological studies of primative cultures would prove what you have stated as inaccurate. Many ancient cultures indulged in polyamoury....one of the more influential of them being the Ancient Roman culture, as well as Classic Greek culture.
However, opinions are opinions, and well if i can have mine, so too can you have yours.
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