OsideGirl
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ORIGINAL: slavedesires [ This is what irks me about your thoughts on this..... I pose it with a question.... do you not know, understand, comprehend that it is not soley done by a woman? The man/Dom has more input into the this search than you think he has....He is not some mindless weak and pathetic man who guides, directs, pushes and demands His girl write what she writes, read allthe replies, tell the girl who to write and what to write. Your irk assumes the Dom has absolutely NO control. Oh dear, how so wrong you are!! Who knows the Dom better than the girl who has already placed her entire being in the hands of that Dom but thegirl who desires a friend, companion, confidant who will serve right along side of her? Like Master, I ALSO desire a girl.... it is not just a Dom who might desire. You will sell yourself short if you do not allow a freindship to develope between you and the first girl. If there is no freindship and you refuse to allow the other girl to be a part of your life, will the Dom want you? I didn't say the Dom had no control and I didn't say it was done solely by a woman. I said that MY OPINION was that it shows that he can't be bothered with the process because he has someone else doing it. And no.....I don't believe that all subs are the best judge of their Doms. Several years ago, I was approached by a sub who was sent forth by her Dominant to find another sub. She went on and on about how wonderful he was. I told her the same thingI stated above, that unless he contacted me there would be no conversations about it. A month and a half later, I received an email from the same submissive. Her Dominant had beaten her, fisted her bare handed with a ring on and put her in the hospital. She required 52 stitches and a couple of nights in ICU. When she got out of the hospital, she pretty much went into hiding. It took an amazing amount of convincing to get her to testify against him. Turns out that "Dom" was a serial rapist. He went on to rape 6 women in 8 months. It was his third strike. The women he raped had done everything right. They met for coffee in a public place. Their mistake was walking over to his car to see the puppy he claimed to have. You may feel that you know your Dom better than anyone, but can you honestly say that about every sub with a profile on here looking for a sister sub?
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Bobbi
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