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guys who pretend to be girls - 10/24/2004 8:14:58 PM   
yellovv


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Status: offline 		what is wrong with these people? i was just talking to what i believe to be a female sub, and once i sent her (him) a pic, she (he) signs off right away. i know that doesn't say it is a male, but it's as close to a fact as you can get.

i'm just asking because even though i am a top and i live in this culture, i'm normal.

please, discuss

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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/24/2004 8:17:21 PM   
proudsub


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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/24/2004 8:18:09 PM   
yellovv


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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/24/2004 8:23:25 PM   
stef


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quote:

ORIGINAL: yellovv

what is wrong with these people? i was just talking to what i believe to be a female sub, and once i sent her (him) a pic, she (he) signs off right away. i know that doesn't say it is a male, but it's as close to a fact as you can get.

If you're Inspector Clouseau, maybe.

Perhaps they just didn't like what they saw in the photo. Who knows why they signed off?

quote:

i'm just asking because even though i am a top and i live in this culture, i'm normal.

Normal? For what definition of 'normal'?

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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/24/2004 8:25:43 PM   
LadyAngelika


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quote:

ORIGINAL: yellovv
please, discuss


Yes Sir! Inspector Clouseau Sir!

quote:

ORIGINAL: yellovv
what is wrong with these people? i was just talking to what i believe to be a female sub, and once i sent her (him) a pic, she (he) signs off right away. i know that doesn't say it is a male, but it's as close to a fact as you can get.


Well a little hottie named Damon Albarn (Blur) signs:

Girls who are boys
Who like boys to be girls
Who do boys like they’re girls
Who do girls like they’re boys
Always should be someone you really love

quote:

ORIGINAL: yellovv
i'm just asking because even though i am a top and i live in this culture, i'm normal.


Really? Please discuss!!

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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/24/2004 8:26:15 PM   
EStrict


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Status: offline 		::laughing:: well, if you are *normal* you are definitely in the minority.

Though it is not my fetish, being a born female, those I know who claim to be females while being males genitically do so because that is their fetish. For that matter, though I am not sure of all of the rules, I do know that you *must* live fully as a woman for a length of time before you are allowed to have a sex change operation. Because in *their* minds they ARE female, some have problems with the fact that those who seeking genetic females don't accept them as females not matter how much it is true *to them*.

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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/24/2004 8:30:01 PM   
yellovv


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Status: offline 		normal as in "not a pervert, crep, wierdo"...but yes, normal is subjective

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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/24/2004 8:30:38 PM   
LadyAngelika


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Status: offline 		Sandy,

Your post made such sense. But do you realise that Inspector Clouseau here came to the conclusion that this individual was a male posing as a female based on the fact that they did not return a pic to him and logged off.

........... Huh?

- LA

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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/24/2004 8:31:18 PM   
yellovv


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quote:



Really? Please discuss!!

- LA




haha, very funny

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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/24/2004 8:34:59 PM   
stef


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quote:

ORIGINAL: yellovv

normal as in "not a pervert, crep, wierdo"...but yes, normal is subjective

Judging by your profile and the interests you have listed, I think you would easily be classified as a pervert by the majority of the populace, as would the rest of us here.

Welcome to the club!

~stef

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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/24/2004 8:36:15 PM   
LadyAngelika


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quote:

ORIGINAL: yellovv

normal as in "not a pervert, crep, wierdo"...but yes, normal is subjective


But you write in your profile that "I derive joy from true masochists, sincere perverts, couples and anyone who wishes to explore every facet of BDSM in its entirety."

So you aren't a pervert, but you like perverts? Or is it just the sincere ones? I'm so confused.

please, discuss

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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/24/2004 8:37:06 PM   
yellovv


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sfgrrl

quote:

ORIGINAL: yellovv

normal as in "not a pervert, crep, wierdo"...but yes, normal is subjective

Judging by your profile and the interests you have listed, I think you would easily be classified as a pervert by the majority of the populace, as would the rest of us here.

Welcome to the club!

~stef


you know what, your right...i am a hypercite, but if the person i was talking to was a man, then he should have told me inadvance...the person knew i was a male dom, not a female dom, female switch, sub, or whatever

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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/24/2004 8:38:16 PM   
afmvdp


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Status: offline 		wow...so being transgendered makes them a "pervert, crep, wierdo"...interesting. Wonder what Joe American Conservative would say about you enjoying watersports and enemas. hmmm...

people never cease to amaze me.

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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/24/2004 8:38:48 PM   
yellovv


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika


quote:

ORIGINAL: yellovv

normal as in "not a pervert, crep, wierdo"...but yes, normal is subjective


But you write in your profile that "I derive joy from true masochists, sincere perverts, couples and anyone who wishes to explore every facet of BDSM in its entirety."

So you aren't a pervert, but you like perverts? Or is it just the sincere ones? I'm so confused.

please, discuss

- LA



hmmmm, how did you two ever turn this topic against me

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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/24/2004 8:39:27 PM   
LadyAngelika


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quote:

ORIGINAL: yellovv
you know what, your right...i am a hypercite, but if the person i was talking to was a man, then he should have told me inadvance...the person knew i was a male dom, not a female dom, female switch, sub, or whatever


yellovv --

The only thing you know about the person you were exchanging with is that they did not want to reciprocate a photo. The reason why, you can speculate all you want but to come to the conclusion you have demonstrates a huge lack of logical reasoning.

- LA

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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/24/2004 8:40:29 PM   
LadyBeckett


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Status: offline 		I love to discuss, but to discuss I must know what I am discussing. stef and I discuss boys that are girls and girls that are girls and sometimes girls that are boys and boys that are boys. Angelika and I, right now in fact, are discussing a boy that is a boy that sometimes likes to be a girl. Are you discussing girls that are girls or girls that are boys? Or do you know? I say we discuss this.

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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/24/2004 8:41:36 PM   
yellovv


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Status: offline 		no i don't believe so. i may have rushed to judgement, but in fairness, if she did not want to send the photo then that would be fine. in common curtiousy you tell them that you are not interested and not just leave without reason...does that not look bad on her behalf?

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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/24/2004 8:41:55 PM   
stef


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quote:

ORIGINAL: yellovv

you know what, your right...i am a hypercite, but if the person i was talking to was a man, then he should have told me inadvance...the person knew i was a male dom, not a female dom, female switch, sub, or whatever

You're right, *IF* that person was a man, they should disclose that fact. However, the fact that they disconnected after getting your photo is hardly proof of that.

~stef

< Message edited by sfgrrl -- 10/24/2004 8:43:05 PM >

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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/24/2004 8:45:09 PM   
yellovv


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quote:


You're right, *IF* that person was a man, they should disclose that fact. However, the fact that they disconnected after getting your photo is hardly proof of that.

~stef


true. but i am human male and my kind will rush to judgment on a drop of a dime and we also assume a lot as well. also go with the worst (or negative outcome) and you'll never be shocked or surprised at the end

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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/24/2004 8:45:15 PM   
LadyBeckett


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quote:

ORIGINAL: yellovv

no i don't believe so. i may have rushed to judgement, but in fairness, if she did not want to send the photo then that would be fine. in common curtiousy you tell them that you are not interested and not just leave without reason...does that not look bad on her behalf?


Perhaps she got booted? Power failure? Did you frighten the poor thing?


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