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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/31/2004 6:45:35 AM

Sinergy

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Well a little hottie named Damon Albarn (Blur) signs:

Girls who are boys
Who like boys to be girls
Who do boys like they’re girls
Who do girls like they’re boys
Always should be someone you really love

"And Im glad Im a man and so is Lola, L O L A Lola" - The Kinks.

The fact that this person's kink is not to your liking doesnt mean their kink is wrong.

Just me, could be wrong, but there you go.

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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/31/2004 6:48:20 AM

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yea, but that's how all men are most of the time

All men? Every XY on the planet shares this same characteristic?

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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/31/2004 6:54:54 AM

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Occationally, when someone is harassing me, or simply talking in a way I'd prefer not to be addressed, I will simply drop the chat. I'll admit, this is -not- polite of me, however sometimes you're not left a polite out in a conversation.

Im not sure I would agree it is not polite of you.

I have a friend who did his master's thesis on personality changes in cyberspace, who came to the conclusion that the consequenceless anonymity of cyberspace tended to cause some to become imbued with a sense of power, aggression, and other characteristics which a polite society would frown on in real life.

For me, everybody deserves to be respected, and if you are being mistreated or assaulted (real life or cyberspace) you have the right to disengage from the conversation and I personally would find no fault with it.

Just me, could be wrong, but there you go.

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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/31/2004 7:05:33 AM

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Ah virtual genderbending. I did a study on this in my undergrad when I was 25. I went into a gay male chat room as a 25 year old gay man, a adult oriented chat room as a 21 year old girl, a BDSM chatroom as a 35 year old male Dom and a chat room for 40 and single as a new divorcée. I wanted to see what kind of reaction I would solicit from each.

I did this a bunch of years ago to research a story I was writing.

Rather eye-opening to me was the disrespectful and self-important way that most men who contacted my female on-line personae did so. The oddest part to me was how blase and insensitive most of the men who contacted "her" were towards her lifestyle issues.

Was told I should make the story into a novel, but real-life has a way of dragging me away from the keyboard. Probably will when I am no longer working 7 days a week.

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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/31/2004 3:22:35 PM

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wow, i'm surprised that this thread is still alive!?....btw, happy halloween! (not new years, but who cares

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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/31/2004 3:28:31 PM

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LOL
YELOOVVVVVV
HELLOOOOO
WHAT PART OF

ALTERNATE LIFESTYLE
DONT YOU UNDERSTAND?

stop looking at the gender of things online Yelovv because here online there is no such thing as gender, race, creed, color, age, disability ect ect ect. Just enjoy the mind ride. We all online here are simply 1s and 0s

i understand the life style, but i don't understand why some people aren't upfront with things...i look at gender and i distinquish between a man and a women and a transexual or transgender because that's how i can tell the core differences between people.

i can see how you compare gender with nationality, race, age, etc, but i believe that is a significant difference with gender because i was searching for a female sub, nothing else. if that person just wanted to chat, things would have been different, and this thread would have never started. the other people presented herself to me as a female sub and that's what i believed in the beginning.

i can take it as well as dish it, but there are times when i don't want to feel like a fool, and that case was me feeling like a fool for believing that indivdual.

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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/31/2004 7:05:48 PM

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if that person just wanted to chat, things would have been different, and this thread would have never started.

This thread started because you needed to vent.

There are a number of people who didn't want to chat with me. Sometimes I did vent. I personally never used a message board for it but we all have our ways of doing things. I'm not questioning your motivation nor your approach. I'm simply stating the facts. In fact, probably everyone who is on this message board has experienced rejection. We all deal with it in our own ways.

The person who you were chatting with who I will presume is a woman as she identified as (as there is absolutely no evidence that she was not who she claimed to be) felt the need to end the chat. Either that or the chat ended and it was out of either of your control. You need to just accept that and move on. Do yourself that favour.

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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 10/31/2004 7:22:01 PM

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Wow. . .and I thought that "Betrayed Trust" thread was bad. . . .
(Holds tongue)

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RE: guys who pretend to be girls - 11/14/2004 11:14:41 AM

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true. but i am human male and my kind will rush to judgment on a drop of a dime and we also assume a lot as well. also go with the worst (or negative outcome) and you'll never be shocked or surprised at the end
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Please, be careful with all inclusive phrasing. It so worries me when individuals lump everyone into a set category, just to make themselves feel. Oh, I don't know.. what is the word I am looking for... anyone?

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