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when are you.... - 2/17/2006 11:00:16 AM   
LadyElizabeth


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Status: offline 		When are you most aware of being submissive/owned?

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RE: when are you.... - 2/17/2006 11:02:18 AM   
Elegant


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Status: offline 		When I do something wrong, or incorrect or not pleasing to him.

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RE: when are you.... - 2/17/2006 11:03:45 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		When I receive affirmation of a job well done.
When my feelings are validated.
When I please and know that I am pleasing.

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RE: when are you.... - 2/17/2006 11:14:57 AM   
BitaTruble


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quote:

When are you most aware of being submissive/owned?


When I bare my soul in my journal knowing he's going to read it and that he required it.

Celeste

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RE: when are you.... - 2/17/2006 11:18:27 AM   
IrishMist


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RE: when are you.... - 2/17/2006 11:20:45 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		When I was owned I felt it most when I went through my daily mental priorities.

Now, I feel it most in the ordinary moments and a flash of an idea or desire will go through me.

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RE: when are you.... - 2/17/2006 12:21:49 PM   
subtoFemDommes


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Status: offline 		When She takes what She wants, anywhere, anytime, and i know that no matter what, She will protect me ... and i submit, obey, surrender, honored that She trusts me enough to let loose with Her desires. When She revels in my pleas, and i know nothing will happen (or stop!) unless She wants it to. When She tells me everyday that i please Her.

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RE: when are you.... - 2/17/2006 12:33:08 PM   
Littlepita


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Status: offline 		When I do something wrong

When he calls me His good girl



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RE: when are you.... - 2/17/2006 12:37:24 PM   
pupofMoGa


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Status: offline 		It is an interesting question that i have to answer in two parts. When i do something wrong or out of place and Mistress scolds me, i feel so weak and helpless. This is when i feel the most submissive. When my Mistress is fucking me in the ass with Her dildo and calling me Her puppy bitch, i feel the most owned by Her. (This is a lesson in self-humiliation.... my Mistress will love this)

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< Message edited by pupofMoGa -- 2/17/2006 12:38:32 PM >

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RE: when are you.... - 2/17/2006 1:32:32 PM   
slavejali


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Status: offline 		When Master says "no" or redirects my actions.
When he uses me for his own pleasure entirely.

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RE: when are you.... - 2/19/2006 2:30:57 AM   
BeachMystress


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When do I feel owned? When my cat stands on my face.. meows in my ear till I wake up.. and demands I get up and feed his fuzzy butt NOW!


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RE: when are you.... - 2/19/2006 3:25:33 AM   
swtnsparkling


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Status: offline 		When I am in service. I haven't been in a D/s relationship for over a year. I am a submissive but some days I question myself since its been a long time since I felt it deeply

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RE: when are you.... - 2/19/2006 4:03:35 AM   
slave4Darby3d


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Status: offline 		most aware...when Master is using me as an object for his sole amusement or pleasure.

constantly aware...when I move my hands, feet or head...because of my stainless steel collar and cuffs.

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RE: when are you.... - 2/19/2006 5:42:16 AM   
typesgirl


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Status: offline 		When Master asks me to lay on my stomach next to Him at the end of the day, his hand poised over my ass and asked "What did you learn today, little one?"

and

When I wake up in the morning and see the panties He's chosen for me hanging on the bedroom doorknob.

typesgirl

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RE: when are you.... - 2/19/2006 6:25:17 AM   
RiotGirl


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Status: offline 		i feel truely "owned" when he tells me no and i feel it the deepest when i am bound and he is directing pain my way.

i usually do not feel submissive, especially of late in the past couple of months. But when he gives me that look, it usually has me wanting to bury my face in his feet and not meeting his eyes.. i suppose its a humbling feeling.

Erg.. feeling submissive.. what is that? When i'm serving him and doing everything possible in my power to please him? Making sure everything is aboslutely perfect for him when he gets home? i usually feel anxious as i dont think i'm going to have everything i want done (and at times the things he has instructed me to do) by the time when he gets home. Or the times when i am desperate to serve him in some way? i usually feel need then. Curled up at his feet.. i feel cozy

Maybe its the feeling after a long session of being punshed as he tends to like to save things up. They get really intense and last for ages. i usually feel like i couldnt disobey if wanted too or tried at the end it.

Or it could possibly feel when i'm caged. Though it happens once in a blue moon and once my mind runs through all thats in my mind it tends to start focus completely on him and basis of our relationship. Not that i dont think about the basis of our relationship, i just rarely "feel" it. i feel it in there me thinks. But i dunno.. my memory fades and it been a yellow moon for months upon months. LOL

So what excatly is the "feeling of submission"?? (And i know the most logical answer would be when i obey or when he makes a directive or gives an order.. but erg.. i dont.. i am accomplishing "tasks" and anxiety comes to mind in trying to do things in a way that would please him. Either that or they're mundane things and i am focused on the task. )

So whats this feeling Ms i feel it all the time? LOL

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RE: when are you.... - 2/19/2006 7:27:20 AM   
Tapestry


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyElizabeth

When are you most aware of being submissive/owned?

When He reminds me that He makes the rules.
When He reminds me that i'm His little girl.
When He tells me to look at Him while i'm sucking His cock.

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RE: when are you.... - 2/19/2006 7:32:55 AM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		Several answers came to mind:

In those moments of severe humiliation.

When my head is under his feet

When my will surrenders to his.

When expected to do that which i fear i can't.

Always

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RE: when are you.... - 2/19/2006 7:44:19 AM   
iheartperverts


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Joined: 1/30/2006
Status: offline 		when he has my face held firmly in his hands forcing eye contact

when he's using me as a footstool

when I'm doing mundane domestic tasks for him like fixing him a drink or cleaning.

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RE: when are you.... - 2/19/2006 10:01:35 AM   
truesub4u


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quote:

ORIGINAL: IrishMist

Everyday, every hour, every minute.


Could not of said this any better...

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RE: when are you.... - 2/19/2006 10:09:44 AM   
DragonNphoenix


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyElizabeth

When are you most aware of being submissive/owned?



Like others have said.. there are several answers that come to mind to the question.

At the end of the day when He puts on my sleeping collar.

When I have done something wrong and get the punishment for it.

When I get dressed and ask for approval.


1st Girl Phoenix

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