jamesthehumanrug
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greetings raney
dear stephani
dont expect punishment ;you have to ask for it ,and take full- responsibility for your own behavior
i take it as a handicap status
,so ,to give you an example,
if an animal has no legs; you can't beat his legs,
he's handicapped,
you can't beat a dog, and ,punish it, for things he did:
like not run or walk;
he's, not responsible,
since the leggs are technicallyt absent ,and he's not capable.
so you cant take anyone,handicapped , as someone who isnt ,with a handicap,
, you have to make special adaptions, and, considerations
if you want to be punished, then ask, for it ,outright.
dont exspect anyone ,esp. someone who, understands your plight ,to dish out the punishment;like your ,not handicapped ,or
like your legs are still there, and,you could have done different,
when you have'nt a leg ,to stand on!....
if you, both start ,out handicapped :
then say- it's ,not ,because ,i'm "handicapped;"
it's cause: i ,just did'nt do it! ,
so hit me ,now ,or ,forever hold your piece.
we all know:
there are" benefits,to the sick-role "
and,
any slave can pull the : well....
i was, too depressed ;can't help it ;sorry,
but,go ahead just hit me bit;and,get it over with;it was bound,to happen....
the guilt and responsibility has to always be on the bottom,side,
not on the top,
or punishment is delivered at the tops 'expense
and will be too few and far between.
in other words dont handicap the tops functioning by not taking full responsibility, if it is bipolar reasons, then you have ,to show the difference and, say ,
now you cant touch me; it is my handicap.
you'll see the difference; guarenteed.
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