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strap-on play - 9/15/2005 11:15:48 AM

statechamp62

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How do I talk to my Domme about strap-on play and other anal activities. David

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RE: strap-on play - 9/15/2005 11:21:42 AM

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Ask her ?

or does that sound a little too dumb, maybe Ive misread the topic..

slightly more serious note, it depends on what relationship you have with Her, i guess.

being a kinda novice in all this my opinion counts for very little, but personally Id bring it up in conversations and see where it leads.

My motto is.. " if you dont ask , you dont get "

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RE: strap-on play - 9/15/2005 1:03:49 PM

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Bimoul, your opinion counts as much as anyone's!

<of course, if at some point you make an ass of yourself, we will never let you forget! :) >

OP, strap on and anal play are a big male fantasy. If you are interested, TALK to the person you are with!! Dominants are not mind readers.

There are some fantastic resources for strap on play, I highly recommend the video "Bend Over Boyfriend" which you can get from goodvibes.com.

Ms Francine

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RE: strap-on play - 9/15/2005 2:53:23 PM

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State Champ:

If she is your Domina, that means you are in a relationship or play situation with her, correct? You are not talking about an on line chat, correct?

If it's the former, then, what prevents you from asking her questions, letting her know what interests you, or if you are hesitant, add the topic in your journal?

If it's the latter, do so with trepidation.

Humanity might/would enjoy aiming their noses to heaven and telling the world, I am prescient!! LOL, however, none of us are.

You need to speak up, no one knows what you want. Only you know what is spinning around in your thoughts. I think any Domina would be pleased if her precious submissive puppy told her about his dreams, his desires, his perversions -- made suggestions.

Go for it, open your month, with honest candor.

Cheers

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RE: strap-on play - 9/15/2005 3:34:40 PM

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i would say Ma`am (or Mistress or Lady or Honybun or whatever you call her.) i am interested in strap on play, is this somthing you might like to do, for if it is i am all for it. Then give her chocolate.

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RE: strap-on play - 9/15/2005 3:50:46 PM

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Offer her strap on dildo, she'll know what to do with it

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...no, well, I thought that maybe, when she caresses you, you could invite her (verbally or manually) to caress you around the anus. Or is that a stupid idea ?

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RE: strap-on play - 9/16/2005 12:36:58 PM

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Offer her strap on dildo, she'll know what to do with it .

...no, well, I thought that maybe, when she caresses you, you could invite her (verbally or manually) to caress you around the anus. Or is that a stupid idea ?

Hmmm....I think discussing it outright might be a better idea. If a sub I barely knew showed up and handed me a strap on, he'd be out the door faster than he came in it

I for one consider any such play very intimate....and unless it's an established relationship that has developed a high level of intimacy...it's not going to happen.

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RE: strap-on play - 9/16/2005 12:45:13 PM

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Offer her strap on dildo, she'll know what to do with it .

Very bad idea, so don't do that, and I know Frenchpet is just joking, he would personally not do that unless he already knew the lady liked that type of play and would apreciate such a gift.
My advice is talk with her about it by simply saying you are curious about it and were wondering how she felt about the idea. I started out thinking the idea was too weird, but now I think its super hot/love it. She may just need to mull over the idea and play with it in her head to find her comfort zone. M

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