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small dommes - 8/22/2005 1:09:13 PM

tinymistress18

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Hi, I'm pretty new to this scene and i'm very naturally dominant. My boyfriend is submissive as well so it all works out fine. the only problem is size. I am 5'1" and 110 pounds and he is 6'6" and 190 pounds. We try, but the size difference makes it a little awkward to do lots of stuff and he often unintentionally overpowers me. Any advice for a confused novice?

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RE: small dommes - 8/22/2005 1:49:47 PM

Lordandmaster

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He won't be 6'6" if he's wearing a humbler.

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RE: small dommes - 8/22/2005 1:50:18 PM

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i think its great ima big male submissives here im well over 6 '8 tall and you never gusee i was submissive

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RE: small dommes - 8/22/2005 2:12:37 PM

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Hi Tinymistress18,

You might try overpowering him mentally/emotionally first.

Think about starting scenes by asking him to go to the playspace and make himself ready for you. Nudity carries some vulnerability. Likewise a blinfold limits his ability to act/react. Maybe have him secure his hands behind his own back. While he is following your instructions, sit and relax. Making the sub wait on the Domme to start things in her own good time will help set the mood and let you settle into your roles.

Nuke }:-

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RE: small dommes - 8/22/2005 2:35:30 PM

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You only mention height. so maybe? get him on his knees,...as someone says, using the humbler, but any method is fine. get Yourself up on a pedestal...higher...a stool, chair, platform, bed, couch,.,

but this is just a small part. Dominance comes from within, as does submission. so guessing he is willing to submit...this issue is gone. try a set of stairway steps...You higher and him at the bottom.
whatever it takes m'Lady.

it is all how You and he do it to make it work for YOU two.

wolfie

good luck to You Ma'am.

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RE: small dommes - 8/22/2005 4:06:47 PM

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tips for short dommes?

There's a previous thread on the subject.

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