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signs of ownership - 1/25/2006 9:24:05 PM   
foxglove716


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Status: offline 		Do any of you have physical declarations of ownership aside from a collar? I was thinking of getting a silver I.D bracelet, the kind kids used to wear a long time ago, that reads "if lost return to Dan" since I have a tendancy to get lost often.

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RE: signs of ownership - 1/25/2006 9:34:55 PM   
DragonNphoenix


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Status: offline 		I have 3 tattoos... does that count? We are also looking at branding me.

I am also getting a dog tag with my slave number on it. I will wear it on an anklet.

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RE: signs of ownership - 1/25/2006 9:40:54 PM   
Wildfleurs


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ORIGINAL: foxglove716

Do any of you have physical declarations of ownership aside from a collar? I was thinking of getting a silver I.D bracelet, the kind kids used to wear a long time ago, that reads "if lost return to Dan" since I have a tendancy to get lost often.


My labia piercing which was for him - we joke that when he dies I'm allowed to have him made into a diamond which will hang as a pendant off of one of my labia rings

The brand of the initial of his last name.

He's talked about a tatto as well as more labia (and maybe nipple) piercings in the future.

C~

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RE: signs of ownership - 1/26/2006 4:19:58 AM   
typesgirl


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Status: offline 		The dragonfly on my back is for Him. I call Him Dragonfly so it's his mark of ownership that I volunteered to put on me.
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RE: signs of ownership - 1/26/2006 5:55:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		A lot of people use their hair as a symbol.

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RE: signs of ownership - 1/26/2006 7:24:56 AM   
DragonNphoenix


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

A lot of people use their hair as a symbol.


Oh so true... I am lucky on that level. Dragon likes long hair. But it is kept a certain color for him.

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RE: signs of ownership - 1/26/2006 8:08:39 AM   
Elegant


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ORIGINAL: foxglove716

Do any of you have physical declarations of ownership aside from a collar? I was thinking of getting a silver I.D bracelet, the kind kids used to wear a long time ago, that reads "if lost return to Dan" since I have a tendancy to get lost often.



Funny about the ID tag....soon after Master Archer and I met he moved...and I got lost going to his new home...and suddenly I could not remember his phone number either.

A few days later he had me start wearing a heart locket with a message inside 'if found call ###-####'

I now have a tattoo he had put on me (no, not his phone number) and I want a cutting scarification sometime but that is his decision.

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RE: signs of ownership - 1/26/2006 8:39:18 AM   
Mercnbeth


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Do any of you have physical declarations of ownership aside from a collar?


2 silver bracelets and 2 silver anklets representative of this slave's cuffs when it is socially inappropriate or impractical to wear the leather ones, however Master is considering having chains and locks tattoo'd on this slave's ankles.

a tattoo of an oriental symbol for "slave" on the lower back.

the if-lost-return-to tag idea is great!

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RE: signs of ownership - 1/26/2006 9:08:26 AM   
subiekitty


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Status: offline 		Master does want to permently mark me when i am far enough in training. Personaly i crave a brand, though its more likely Master will decide for a tattoo, however though i will be proud to bear it.

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RE: signs of ownership - 1/26/2006 9:11:50 AM   
perfection20005


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Status: offline 		I have a tattoo on my left breast and all of my piercings are for Him.

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RE: signs of ownership - 1/26/2006 9:20:27 AM   
MHOO314


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ORIGINAL: foxglove716

Do any of you have physical declarations of ownership aside from a collar? .



Yes! It is My intent to have something for the boy--but cannot say yet as the actual thing will be a surprise---I strongly feel that this is even more important when there is an LDR involved--actuual physical things that mean belonging make the pain of distance a tad easier--


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RE: signs of ownership - 1/26/2006 9:32:50 AM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		No, I don't.

Beyond the collar, it just isn't something that feels necessary to him, or something that I fetishize enough to beg for.

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RE: signs of ownership - 1/26/2006 2:20:15 PM   
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Do any of you have physical declarations of ownership aside from a collar?

This sissy is very surprised that none of the other TVs or self-identifying sissies on this board have posted to say that keeping their body completely depilated from the eyebrows down, or wearing bra and panties (and possibly stockings) under their male clothes, are all signs of their submission to another (if NOT 24/7 ownership).

sissy Has sometimes fantasized about having a message such as, "This worthless sissy is the property of Mistress ____, if found, please call xxx-xxx-xxxx once You have finished using him" branded on his ass. But then he remembers that he has to go to the doctor's office at least once a year for an annual check-up and reality tends to set in at this point to kill that fantasy!

Sooo, sissy is curious here ... how do those other subs / slaves that have reported on this thread explain away their permanent tattoos, brandings and/or scarifications of ownership to their medical practitioners? Did having such markings determine who you chose as a doctor in the first place? Do you envisage any problems in this area when you are in your "golden years" and having doctors and nurses pawing your body is more of a regular occurrence than it is/was in your salad days of invincible youth ?

sissy maid lola


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RE: signs of ownership - 1/26/2006 2:24:00 PM   
Petruchio


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Do any of you have physical declarations of ownership aside from a collar? I was thinking of getting a silver I.D bracelet, the kind kids used to wear a long time ago, that reads "if lost return to Dan" since I have a tendancy to get lost often.


(laughing) I LIKE that idea.

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RE: signs of ownership - 1/26/2006 3:04:42 PM   
BitaTruble


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how do those other subs / slaves that have reported on this thread explain away their permanent tattoos, brandings and/or scarifications of ownership to their medical practitioners? Did having such markings determine who you chose as a doctor in the first place? Do you envisage any problems in this area when you are in your "golden years" and having doctors and nurses pawing your body is more of a regular occurrence than it is/was in your salad days of invincible youth ?


I have a tattoo of a chain around my ankle. The two ends are held together with a large scripted initial of Master's first name. I am also to be branded, which is something that both terrify's me and delights me and it's taken several years to earn the honor.

As for dealing with medical personnel ... you just have to go with the flow. I had the same ob/gyn from the time I was 15 until I was 36 and I came out to him once I started showing up at appointments with bruises. Once, right before a yearly, Himself had carved the words "Property of Master Michael' into my back. The lettering was still quite distinct when I went to my doctor. He stared at it for a long time, then came around in front of me and asked me if I knew it was there. lol I told him I knew and had consented to it. He just warned me to be careful and that I should probably reconsider allowing someone to do that to me. I can be a bit of a wiseass, and told him that I could reconsider, but that as it was very difficult to carve onto my own back, I probably would just go ahead and let someone else do it.

My doctor shakes his head a lot.

These days, Himself can probably hit me with a 2 x 4, and I won't bruise, so it's not as much of an issue as it was in the past. Once I reach those golden years, those young nurses and doctors will just have to cluck and swallow because this old granny will have the evidence of a life well lived. When I'm 80, I seriously doubt I'll give a damn about what anyone thinks. lol

Celeste



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RE: signs of ownership - 1/26/2006 4:25:59 PM   
MistressOfGa


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314


quote:

ORIGINAL: foxglove716

Do any of you have physical declarations of ownership aside from a collar? .



Yes! It is My intent to have something for the boy--but cannot say yet as the actual thing will be a surprise---I strongly feel that this is even more important when there is an LDR involved--actuual physical things that mean belonging make the pain of distance a tad easier--



I couldnt agree more. I have a LDR with my pup and it is very hard sometimes during the week when he is not here. I am not sure who it is tougher on, him or me. I would like him to have a mark put on him, although I really do like the dog-tag idea <s>
I did buy him a "night collar" that he wears when he is sleeping, since his regular collar tends to choke him during the night. I like to see him on cam in the mornings and see that he is wearing it :)



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RE: signs of ownership - 1/26/2006 8:15:46 PM   
Tapestry


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ORIGINAL: sissymaidlola
Sooo, sissy is curious here ... how do those other subs / slaves that have reported on this thread explain away their permanent tattoos, brandings and/or scarifications of ownership to their medical practitioners? Did having such markings determine who you chose as a doctor in the first place? Do you envisage any problems in this area when you are in your "golden years" and having doctors and nurses pawing your body is more of a regular occurrence than it is/was in your salad days of invincible youth ?

Well, I haven't responded on this thread earlier, so I hope it's ok to answer this question! When I had a check-up with the ob-gyn and he asked about the bruises all over my breasts, I just calmly told him they were from some mutually consensual activity. He was fine with that.

As to signs of ownership in addition to my collars, yes, Master has 3 new tattoos planned for me, and i can't wait. There are already 2 tats on my body from years ago, and i long to have His marks on me as well. What an honor.


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RE: signs of ownership - 1/26/2006 11:40:38 PM   
Wildfleurs


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ORIGINAL: sissymaidlola



Sooo, sissy is curious here ... how do those other subs / slaves that have reported on this thread explain away their permanent tattoos, brandings and/or scarifications of ownership to their medical practitioners? Did having such markings determine who you chose as a doctor in the first place? Do you envisage any problems in this area when you are in your "golden years" and having doctors and nurses pawing your body is more of a regular occurrence than it is/was in your salad days of invincible youth ?



Since I have diabetes I talked to my endocrinologist (however its spelled) about both body mods beforehand and he felt that as long as my blood sugars were under control and I heal similar to any non-diabetic I would be fine, and since they were/are he gave me the green light. I phrased it as body modifications/piercings, there really wasn't a need to be more specific and he didn't ask me for details. Once I went to my ob gyn and my normal doctor was out sick so I had a different person who commented that the labia piercings looked pretty and also looked like they must have hurt. I thanked her for the compliment (it wasn't remotely sexual, she was saying it the same way someone would compliment you on your earrings) and told her that they did hurt when they were done. My normal ob gyn doctor has never commented on my piercings. Since I am sitting on my ass for the ob gyn they've never notice the brand.

C~

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RE: signs of ownership - 1/27/2006 8:03:00 PM   
la90066


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ORIGINAL: foxglove716

Do any of you have physical declarations of ownership aside from a collar?



Silly... That would be the permanent SMILE on her face?!!

Now if I could just find her? Someone give the "ho" a MAP to me, will ya?!!
hee hee hee...


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RE: signs of ownership - 1/27/2006 8:13:18 PM   
kyraofMists


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Do any of you have physical declarations of ownership aside from a collar? I was thinking of getting a silver I.D bracelet, the kind kids used to wear a long time ago, that reads "if lost return to Dan" since I have a tendancy to get lost often.


A silver charm of a cat on a silver necklace and his mark, crossed swords, cut into my right thigh. Then there are all the other marks from great sex and play.

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