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not sure how to do this..any thoughts help - 3/8/2006 5:53:52 PM

SweetEscravo

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Okay, my dom and I have been together for almost two years now, and have been 24/7 for some time. However, nothing has ever really been made official...it is more like we just decided to and did. On our anniversary, I really want to do somehting kind of formal for him...to make it really official and everything you know? If you were going to try to do this, whether you want to call it begging a collar or however you think of it, how would you want to do it? Any ideas or thoughts will help. Thanks.

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RE: not sure how to do this..any thoughts help - 3/8/2006 6:22:59 PM

MasterFireMaam

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Spend a few days or weeks putting together a scrapbook that is your petition for a formal collar. Include lots of little thing, plus the actual well-written document that actuall asks for the collar. Explain why you want it, why you feel worthy of it and what it would mean to you.

I've seen petitions as short as one page and as long a 80. Be creative.

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RE: not sure how to do this..any thoughts help - 3/8/2006 10:18:14 PM

DragonNphoenix

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I totally agree with the petition. Make sure that you are clear about what your needs and desires are. Spend some time on this. Give yourself a good chance to get what you are thinking down on paper... dont rush the process.

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