i always was taught if You where a Domme or Domm Your name should start with a capital letter i was told it showed Athourity

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if a snake bites before it is charmed there is no profit
for the charmer

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ORIGINAL: knees2you

i always was taught if You where a Domme or Domm Your name should start with a capital letter i was told it showed Athourity

sincerely, knees2You

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if a snake bites before it is charmed there is no profit
for the charmer

sub4hire, ummm yes we are lower, maybe not in intelligence, but in other forms that's why were subbies. if you loved a Domm or Domme, and they wanted capital letters for there name and small for You are you going to say NO~~ sub4hire i do respect your words though

sincerely, knees2You

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if a snake bites before it is charmed there is no profit
for the charmer.

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ORIGINAL: knees2you

sub4hire, ummm yes we are lower, maybe not in intelligence, but in other forms that's why were subbies. if you loved a Domm or Domme, and they wanted capital letters for there name and small for You are you going to say NO~~ sub4hire i do respect your words though

sincerely, knees2You


Actually yes, I would refuse. Nobody is going to rid me of my self-esteem. That's the problem with people in general. It isn’t a lifestyle trait it’s a human one. If someone doesn’t have control of himself or herself they put others down trying to make them feel as bad as they do.
It is a rare breed of person to distinguish the difference.
I have to ask you though, how do you think we are lower? I happen to love my Dominant. Yes, I capitalize his name. Why? Because he has earned the respect required. That doesn’t mean everyone in the world who wakes up, finds a chat room and declares, "hey this fetish is for me” I’m going to respect.
Just as if my Dominant were posting here he would capitalize my name. It has to do with respect not the fact some nobody ordered you to do it.
We all start out as nobodies and work our way to being some bodies.

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"The dumbest people I know are those who know it all."

Malcolm Forbes

(in reply to knees2you)

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i always was taught if You where a Domme or Domm Your name should start with a capital letter i was told it showed Athourity

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ORIGINAL: knees2you
i always was taught if You where a Domme or Domm Your name should start with a capital letter i was told it showed Athourity

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ORIGINAL: SarcasticBitch

I prefer that submissives use capital letters where appropriate. You know strange places like the beginning of sentences, when using a proper noun such as I. I'm a bit odd though :)

Trinity

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ORIGINAL: inyouagain


HoPe tHaT hElPs, dId i UsE Em' aLl?

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ORIGINAL: knees2you

i always was taught if You where a Domme or Domm Your name should start with a capital letter i was told it showed Athourity

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ORIGINAL: ShadeDiva


"So let me see if I have what you are telling me straight, cuz Im just trying to learn here ... you are a 24/7 old guard r/t only person that expects every single submissive you ever meet to lowercase their name and uppercase ALL dominants names at ALL times or it equates complete and total intentional disrepect which would then merit instant and severe punishment for intentional insuborindation, yes?"

"Ahh I see. Um so tell me, how do you determine when a submissive says master or mistress or sir or maam or their names with a capped letter or a lowercase in real life? Is there some special pronouncation that allows you to determine if they are speaking with a capped letter or lowercase letter in the appropriate place?"

"No? Ah I see, so when a submissive addresses you in real life, you have NO way of determining if they are speaking your name or title with uppercase letters?"

"I didn't think so. Well, um, then, just how in the world can you possibly immediately punish them severely if they are actually speaking your name or title with lowercase letters? Arent they then getting away completely with their deliberate and intentional insubordination?"

"No? Well however could you possibly determine they are being respectful or showing respect in REAAAL LIFE - if you can't tell when they are speaking a title or name with the appropriate and *required at ALL times* lowercased or uppercased letters?

"Oh, their *conduct*? Their behavior? Interesting. So why can't simple behavior or conduct show respect online? Why is it reduced to mere letters if you are real life only, can't you determine if someone is addressing you with respect by the rest of their words online like you do in real life where you can't *see* uppercased or lowercased letters?"

That's usually when I'd get banned from the channel or room for being disrespectful. LOL.

Yanno respect is shown in how you conduct yourself over the passage of time, and in NO other way. Any symbol of respect that is asked or demanded - is exactly that - just a symbol. It doesn't mean you really do respect them at all. I've seen submissives say the required words in the required spelling and be completely disrespectful in context while being able to literally claim they had written their words in a respectful manner - when in fact it was so far from respectful it was almost funny. Symbols mean *nothing* unless the intent is there, and if the intent is there, symbols aren't really needed at *all*.




~ShadeDiva