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my retraction - 2/10/2005 10:10:07 AM

mercxi

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I am sorry if i had upset some of the dommes with my past few discussions, i had been a bad submissive, and i am deeply sorry. I have just been under alot of stress and just instagated many things. But thats not an excuse just an explaination, so i hope that the dommes can please forgive me

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RE: my retraction - 2/10/2005 11:05:09 AM

onceburned

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mercxi, I think your sincerity is praiseworthy. But I also think that you are guilty of no more than being new and excited. Welcome to the world of D/s and welcome to Collarme. If you stick around you will learn a lot. Don't be afraid to ask questions and be open to new ideas .

It all takes a bit of practice but I think you will discover that a bit of humility will really help along your journey. Sit tight, because you will be in for a ride!

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RE: my retraction - 2/10/2005 5:13:52 PM

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to add to the advice....

it's not usually what you say but HOW you say it. Most often the art of communication gets lost in translation due to emotional triggers. Either by the initiator of the conversation or the recipient of that communication. Sometimes both.

I'd advise not to be so quick to judge. Read and participate respectfully and you should be fine as well as learn a plethora of things you may have never thought of.

This place is a great culmination of many collective years of knowledge as well as those witha willingness to sahe that knowledge and themselves in the process.

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