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RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves - 7/1/2004 6:45:27 PM

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A brain is so much harder to find.

No- that's easy.

Just make the cutjust above the tips of the ears, and pop the skull off.

there's a Brain!

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RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves - 7/2/2004 9:36:10 AM

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although i am pretty new to the BD/SM lifestyle and have no real life experence, i would have to say that looks does matter to me a lot if i am to be owned and serve the rest of my life. but at the same time about the age thing, it just all depends, as i like some older women as well. i prefer ages 30-40 but im not real picky about age. "Women are like wine, They get better with age". Then there is the factor that older Women have been around longer and have a better chance of more experence. id much rather be with an experenced Women, then a vergin. but everyone to their own.

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RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves - 7/2/2004 1:24:54 PM

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Of course.. Looks are xxxtremely important to men whether sub or not... but not necessarily age! I am a 53 YO who has served as many as a dozen Dommes over the years (spanning the full range of ages) and each was a wonderful experience.
i have been serving my present glorious Mistress for over a year and a half (She's mid Forties) and yes, She is the most beautiful, gorgeous, sexy woman that i have ever served (or even know for that matter!)
Here to fore i have had no more than three sessions with any one Domme.... i have lost count with my Mistress, but it must be approaching 20! (i hope She keeps me!). But beware! LOOKS ALONE ARE NEVER ENOUGH! If it were not for HER (Who SHE is.. How we interact.. etc.) Then the "Looks" would quickly wear thin.
i hope this helps... and to those who are not/can not be "glamour girls" and to those who are no longer "young"... do not depair! Life goes on and there is somebody (usually more than one) out there for everybody! Give and Ye shall get!

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RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves - 7/2/2004 7:44:44 PM

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I have two views on this subject. As an older mature man I would find it very humilating to be dominated by a younger women. But that's not a bad thing. However, an older Domme may know how to push buttons better than a younger one. Also, she maybe more caring and safe.
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RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves - 7/3/2004 5:50:15 AM

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I'm more of a bottom than a sub, but yes, looks are important to me. The more attractive the woman, the more I would allow her to have her way with me. Age doesn't matter as much, although there is more humiliation with a young woman.

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RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves - 7/6/2004 1:51:04 PM

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To be quite honest, looks are only important when I see a woman walking down the street. The importance balances out shortly after she begins to speak, or as soon as one sees her interact with people, or things. A good looking woman might make me take a moment longer to notice such things. Beyond that, I have been able to find the beauty in everyone that I have ever encountered. I know that sounds silly, but try it. The next person that you look at, try and find the one thing about that person that makes them beautiful or irresistable. Trust me that it is there. If you don't see it, then try again, please.

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RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves - 7/6/2004 11:37:34 PM

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I echo the sentiments of inyouagain. Conceitta clearly has constructed an artifical persona in order to prey upon sub males for personal gain. She presents males with a fantasy and uses cunning, manipulation, and artifice to ensnare males into her web. She understands that her web is fleeting. Sub males tribute and then disappear. Hence, the need for continual promotion and banner ads. A few who tribute over time have obsessive compulsive disorders and/or other mental health problems. There is very little loyalty to a "Money Domme" because subs and slaves have little respect for, and trust of, "Money Dommes."

Conceitta and others like her suffer from low self-esteem and seek gratification and self-worth through manipulating others. There is very little interest in the persons "money Dommes" are using as long as they cough up the dough. Many of these women have no interest in BDSM other than employing it for wealth enhancement. Most "money Dommes" hold the carrot of real time before an online slave because they know it attracts tributes, even though real time is a virtual impossibility absent the sub being a true cash cow. Their true fetish is obtaining money for nothing. They are nothing more than rag tag group of self-proclaimed con artists. They may proclaim to be proud women, but deep down they know that they are virtual con artists.

Money Dommes lie among the lowest rungs of BDSM. At least Pro Dommes work for their money. They aren't quite as manipulative, and I'm sure sub males are more satisfied with the services Pro Dommes provide. Isn't it curious though how most Pro Dommes do not have lifestyle partners. It's a job. Why be married to your work?

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RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves - 7/7/2004 1:12:18 AM

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Interesting.

I think almost *all* the pro dommes I know have personal BDSM relationships.

They don't seem to mind at all being *married to their work* lol.

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RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves - 7/7/2004 5:19:42 AM

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I feel this post was an obvious attempt for attention. Maybe someone's idea of completing a college term paper on sexuality?
Either way........ my 2 cents.
I am a 43 year old submissive female. Two grown children, probably both older than "Mistress Concetta", I am sexy, healthy and intelligent. I have wisdom that comes with age, patience that comes with age.
I have recently spent some time talking with my daughter's friends..... that "twenty-something generation" could use some wisdom, insight and patience. Trust me

Anyway.... Master thinks I am hot ( or so he says all the time

)which works for me. Thinking back to his prior relationships before we met, he never seemed to be interested in the " Barbie" or " Air Head" types.... something said for intelligence.
peace,
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