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RE: How do you tell your play partner to spank harder? - 5/3/2005 4:25:53 PM

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You could change your nic to "spankmeharder" and show it to him.

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RE: How do you tell your play partner to spank harder? - 5/7/2005 12:48:25 AM

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Harder i understood. the only confusion i ever had was "deeper".

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RE: How do you tell your play partner to spank harder? - 5/7/2005 12:52:36 AM

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If its difficult to speak about this face to face maybe try finding or writing a story that fits your idea of how hard, how many strokes, the tempo and so forth and have him read it. Either tell him its your own writing or make it plain that this type of thing really "moves you" and hope he gets the hint. Good luck.

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RE: How do you tell your play partner to spank harder? - 5/7/2005 7:56:47 AM

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Hello all. Thanks to everyone for responding. I did talk with my partner and I'm glad I did. He left bruises! And, more importantly, as he is new to topping, had a great time doing it.

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RE: How do you tell your play partner to spank harder? - 5/7/2005 5:06:40 PM

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Glad to see it all worked out well for you!!

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RE: How do you tell your play partner to spank harder? - 5/10/2005 1:49:01 AM

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Communication is a wonderful thing. Congrats on getting the nerve to talk with him. Not only have you brought your relationship to a new level, you've helped him learn a bit more about limits and what he can do with some subs.

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