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RE: Long distance punishment ideas. - 4/16/2005 12:34:45 PM   
perverseangelic


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Punishment? 99.9% on this board will totally judge this, but i dont give a S*** for He knew it would work for me.... He set me up with a Dom or two to fuck me and slap my ass and basicly humiliate me into realizing 1. He could do what He wanted and how He wanted it 2. i was His and He was willing to be creative in discipline 3. He knew He could trust me and my words that i followed through in actions
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2. instead of orgasm control, make her suck cock every other day for a month (works only if she needs her pussy used and cant get it...no toys either) after she finds a guy who is willing to do this for you ... this too will be horribly frowned upon on CM forums



Honestly, I think this is probably a really -good- punishment. (I mean, assuming, of course, safer sex precautions and all that). It gets around some of the long-distance-ness by having a physical presnce.

Too, as you said, I know I'd find it pretty darn horrid to be passed off to someone else to be punished. Like I wasn't even worthy of my partner's attention. -That- would be highly effective for me.

Slavedesires- the responses here were only "negative" because it seemed that there was little consideration for the effectiveness of the punishment in reducing the chance of the behavior occuring again. It wasn't negative, as I see it, because of the solicitation on a public board.

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RE: Long distance punishment ideas. - 4/16/2005 1:36:48 PM   
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All funny suggestions except sucking someone elses cock. To many chances someone has an STD they don't know about even tho they get checked and to hard to proove someone is legitamtly STD free. and as contentious about hygein as you and they should be.


Ignoring someone is a base by base thing. Yo u respond well to it I won't She might not care either way ect ect ect:)

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RE: Long distance punishment ideas. - 4/17/2005 9:45:11 AM   
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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

People already gave you tons of advice, the communication side of which you mostly thumbed your nose at.

Why not give your submissive over to the newsgroup and let us collectively handle the relationship?

Akasha


I don't know what you have been smoking AAkasha but that wasn't ideas. I didn't start this thread for advice i didn't need. I started it to get punishment ideas. And for the idea of me turning my slave over to you and everyone else. You can just go fock yourself about that cause you don't deserve her.

DomNeo.

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RE: Long distance punishment ideas. - 4/17/2005 10:06:18 AM   
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Have her write somthing, an atemnt at a nuovela, a text on somthing she or you are interested in, erotic novela, anything, let us say 200 pages by a set date or somthing. That is punishment to fit the crime, it is somthing you can control being done, and is somthing that can smart as she will be sitting ans writing and not doing the things she want to do. Now one inportant things here, it do not matter if she is a good author or not, just that she make her best effort at it.


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RE: Long distance punishment ideas. - 5/4/2005 2:02:38 PM   
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The worst punishment I was ever given was no chocolate for two weeks. It sounds trival, but I would rather be given a physical punishment or any other horrid chore than to loose something I enjoy so much and rarely get from my Master.

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RE: Long distance punishment ideas. - 5/4/2005 2:48:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DomNeo

Ok so in some ways orgasm denial is not as bad as all that typing and writing but how does this punishment sound? bringing herself close to orgasm 6 times a day while writing a journal entry and an essay each day for 14 days on diff topics. The bringing herself close and not getting to relieve herself she will regret what she did and will learn her lesson very well. I know i dont have to watch her on cam cause i trust her and i know my trust is not misplaced in her.


Greetings Neo.

I apologise for not picking up on this comment of yours before.

From your words and how you have explained a few things, I am under the impression that a) at the moment in time, you are extremely busy and this is causing yourself and your sub/slave problems and B) she has mentioned how low she felt, which caused and effect etc? (sorry if I am making it short and sweet, but not wishing to take up too much room)

I wanted to offer you the thought that your 'orgasm denial' punishment, may be causing more harm than punishment, without you realising.

If the sub.slave is feeling in someway down, depressed, lonely being apart from you for so long and she has no other person to relate this to, then orgasm denial in the way you have ordered may be placing strain even further.

Women are hormonal creatures - and insisting that you bring her close to orgasm, without release, means that their are chemicals built up in her system that have nowhere to go. This emotional and chemical response to not being allowed release whilst causing her to want to release will just add to a very depressed state. She needs release somehow - whether thats through orgasm or exercise or somehow... or the chemical imbalance will effect her more.

Just offering an idea, which you may not have contemplated.

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RE: Long distance punishment ideas. - 5/16/2005 9:36:38 PM   
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this slave has a long distance relationship... not an online relationship...just one in which my Master is not with me everyday... when i have done something wrong the worse thing for me is for him not to pay any attention to me...
This approach works with My sub/wife in r/l too. As for those I "play with" on line, if they aren't interested, neither am I, and ah er, Friend, it damn sure don't take Me weeks to get the picture. I agree with the Lady who said, "be here or be gone." Forgetting for half a month, indeed! The word is DISMISSED!

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