LadyAngelika
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Joined: 7/4/2004 From: Montréal - Canada Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: kiki blue I don't use honorifics lightly. If someone uses Master/Mistress/Sir/whatever in their nick, then they're gonna be called the big that follows it. Those terms to me are ones that should be given when I respect someone in the scene highly, or that I'm involved with. And like others have said, I use the same manners and courtesy I'd use in non kink environments at munches and parties. Agreed. And another thing that bugs me on the flip side, is when Dom/mes feel that they can give subs diminutives just because they are subs. It is different when personal relationships develop and affectionate names are adopted. But to go around calling all subs *sluts* or *little ones* (shudders) just because you are a dominant is just plain creepy. - LA
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