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RE: Safe word - With a ball gag?? - 11/23/2005 6:46:59 PM

Nightguy

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We always ended on a song! Literally.

Whenever my wife was gagged and felt the need to warn me about something, she would just hum loudly any tune that came into her head.
It worked well for us because it wasnt something she was likely to do normally, it couldn't be mistaken for anything else, and it allowed more extensive hand bondage.

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RE: Safe word - With a ball gag?? - 11/26/2005 10:51:02 AM

Rowena

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Am I to assume this safe word thing is a way of stopping what is being done to you. I have never been permitted to have any say in what is done to me and have never had one of these safewords. My mistress decides what will happen and stop or stop others when she considers its right time and that goes for whether I am gagged or not.
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RE: Safe word - With a ball gag?? - 11/26/2005 11:04:07 AM

starshineowned

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quote:

Am I to assume this safe word thing is a way of stopping what is being done to you. I have never been permitted to have any say in what is done to me and have never had one of these safewords. My mistress decides what will happen and stop or stop others when she considers its right time and that goes for whether I am gagged or not.

In most case's no..it is not a way of "stopping" the entirity of the event as for most same rules apply, only the Owner has that choice, not the slave. What it does do is interrupt the event to alert the Owner that something needs adjustment or something needs to be looked at or listened to...from that point on the Owner decides ..stop or continue..the slave is merely relaying information..nothing more.

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RE: Safe word - With a ball gag?? - 11/26/2005 11:05:10 AM

Wolf1020

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Haven't read the entire thing but there are things you can do instead. Just like a safe word though you want it to be something during play wouldn't be said only now something that wouldn't be done. Certain kind's of moans or something IMO aren't a good idea as they are too easily confused with moans she might make normally. So presuming she is tied and cant get her hands together a finger snap might work. Though I for one could never snap my fingers. Perhaps some sort of hand signal? But unlike something auditory a visual signal can be missed and something like opening and closing of a hand can happen without it being a signal unless maybe she gives you the finger lol. Personally if she can't snap her fingers in the position she is in I would say figure out a noise she wouldn't normally make, like a snort.

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RE: Safe word - With a ball gag?? - 11/26/2005 12:09:00 PM

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