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RE: From the Married Dom's Perspective - 3/14/2005 1:48:04 AM   
darkangel


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ORIGINAL: domtimothy46176

I don't get the folks who expect us to universally approve of their affairs. Why in the world would someone who knows anything about D/s think that everyone who identifies as dominant and submissive would look at the unilateral abridgment of a commitment, without at least the tacit approval of the second party, in a positive light? It simply boggles my mind.
Timothy


...And what exactly is D/s?


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The Married Master - Bad Idea? - 3/14/2005 7:27:54 AM   
January


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I haven't got an ounce of sympathy for Fragile anymore. And she's only been on the boards for a week!

Her question here was:
quote:

The Married Master - Bad Idea?


People respond to her question, giving her the attention she craves. Nobody is obligated to be supportive. They are not required to "know" her to answer. So anyway, not everybody on the boards likes the way she lives. She then gets up in arms. (Notice the HEAVY editing of her own posts AFTER people have replied. NOT cool at all).

This Fragile creature then pouts and threatens to leave. I join Timothy in saying "good riddance". Don't ask questions about controversial topics if you can't handle critisism. Unless, of course, trolling is the goal.

By the way, a therapist who counsels someone with Master/slave problems should be, at the minimum, aware of SSC. (I'm not saying everyone holds to SSC, but it's a good general starting point for a kink aware counselor.) Near as I could tell, the therapist was clueless in this regard, which makes him less than perfect for helping a kink.

But I suspect the therapist was actually Fragile's construct. He is a device created to show us how somebody of "authority" can look down on members of the board who dare to respond negatively to her.

January





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