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RE: Oral sex on a Sub - 2/13/2005 11:19:17 PM   
BeachMystress


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ORIGINAL: malepleases4ever


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ORIGINAL: cuumsluut

seems to me being able to give someone an organism is a fairly dominant thing


I love it when my mistress gives me single celled organisms. And you should see how she uses the flagellum!
*groans* .. ohhhh baaaaad

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RE: Oral sex on a Sub - 2/14/2005 12:21:22 AM   
subgreg


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If it pleases you, do it. Just because the sub enjoys it does not make you any less dominant.

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RE: Oral sex on a Sub - 2/14/2005 5:17:02 AM   
LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: MizSuz
Can you think of any time you have MORE control than when you have a man's cock in your mouth?!?!


Yeah. Having that boy's cock in my mouth and telling him not to move or it will all be over <weg>

- LA

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RE: Oral sex on a Sub - 2/14/2005 7:14:19 AM   
Redb


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I dont know where i got this idea that it was submissive FROM ???
I think my subs are going to get a shock over the next few sessions...

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RE: Oral sex on a Sub - 2/14/2005 9:04:16 AM   
BeachMystress


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ORIGINAL: subgreg


Just because the sub enjoys it does not make you any less dominant.


This actually brings up a good point. I know Domme who deny themselves some of their favorite activities because the sub enjoys them. I find this to be mind boggling. So what if the sub enjoys it. To me it is a bonus if my sub enjoys the activity. Just because he doesn't like it doesn't mean I'm going to stop, but I'll not stop because he does like it either.

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RE: Oral sex on a Sub - 2/14/2005 9:15:42 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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Can you think of any time you have MORE control than when you have a man's cock in your mouth?!?!


Yeah. Having that boy's cock in my mouth and telling him not to move or it will all be over <weg>



HAHAHA Again we think alike, you just took it to the next natural and logical step!


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RE: Oral sex on a Sub - 2/14/2005 9:24:19 AM   
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Or not. I'm a huge fan of taking a sub right up to that plateau - aaand tah-tah, baby.



HAAAA!

"No soup for you!" hahahahaa

Or how about "no, you didn't get to cum, but I will permit you to go home, jack off and then write me a nice email about it. See? I care."


hahahahahaha

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RE: Oral sex on a Sub - 2/14/2005 9:27:22 AM   
MizSuz


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This actually brings up a good point. I know Domme who deny themselves some of their favorite activities because the sub enjoys them. I find this to be mind boggling. So what if the sub enjoys it. To me it is a bonus if my sub enjoys the activity. Just because he doesn't like it doesn't mean I'm going to stop, but I'll not stop because he does like it either.



This kind of harkens back to the notion that the control mechanism in female domination is tease and denial. I can see how, in some situations, allowing the submissive a certain kind of pleasure could lessen the 'ties that bind.' It just depends on how the sub is hardwired.



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RE: Oral sex on a Sub - 2/14/2005 1:16:25 PM   
BeachMystress


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While I intellectually understand why someone might do such a thing, I don't understand it emotionally. I'd find some other way to tease the male. I don't have the philosophy in place of self denial to make him do what I want. There are so many routes to training them, that, as I said, I don't emotionally understand denying yourself.


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RE: Oral sex on a Sub - 2/14/2005 5:42:32 PM   
NATI


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HAAAA!

"No soup for you!" hahahahaa

Or how about "no, you didn't get to cum, but I will permit you to go home, jack off and then write me a nice email about it. See? I care."


hahahahahaha


...aaaah...I'll go with b. though he will STILL have to ask me very nicely if he may see to relieving those blue balls o' his *L*

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RE: Oral sex on a Sub - 2/14/2005 10:29:12 PM   
oddlycurious


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In the other case, I was told that if I lost it, she would kiss me with it. that was even worse. In both cases, I felt particularly dominated, yet I did get a bj.

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RE: Oral sex on a Sub - 2/15/2005 3:10:19 AM   
Redb


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Thanks Oddlycurious, i really like those ideas.

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RE: Oral sex on a Sub - 2/15/2005 4:56:59 AM   
LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: MizSuz
quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika
quote:

ORIGINAL: MizSuz
Can you think of any time you have MORE control than when you have a man's cock in your mouth?!?!

Yeah. Having that boy's cock in my mouth and telling him not to move or it will all be over <weg>

HAHAHA Again we think alike, you just took it to the next natural and logical step!


Exactly. We are both stark raving MAD!

- LA

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RE: Oral sex on a Sub - 2/15/2005 1:53:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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ORIGINAL: MizSuz
Can you think of any time you have MORE control than when you have a man's cock in your mouth?!?!


Yeah. Having that boy's cock in my mouth and telling him not to move or it will all be over <weg>

- LA


I have a thing about cum in My mouth and cannot stand it but I love giving blow jobs. The solution for Me is to warn the submissive that if he cums in My mouth he will never get another blow job.....he does have permission though to withdraw without warning in the case of emergencies...and then of course I try My darndest to make him cum. The poor babies learn self control very fast.


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RE: Oral sex on a Sub - 2/16/2005 4:52:21 AM   
SweetDommes


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Doms do it to their lady subs--what's wrong with a Domme doing it to her male sub?




Not having read all of the posts, of course, this is the statement that strikes me.

Yes, I am a Domme, yes, I have blown our boys - I enjoy it, so why the hell not? And who is to say that I'm not a Domme just because I do, when every single Dom that I have ever met/talked to/listened to has done it with his femsubs at length and is still considered Dominant? This is one of the many double standards of life that I just don't understand *wanders off, shaking her head*

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RE: Oral sex on a Sub - 2/16/2005 9:11:25 AM   
NATI


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RE: Oral sex on a Sub - 2/16/2005 9:28:51 AM   
RosaB


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Status: offline 		<I have a thing about cum in My mouth and cannot stand it but I love giving blow jobs.> GL


I'm with GentleLady on this one. I myself have a thing about body fluids entering my mouth period.

I have to say, I'm thrilled to see that so many others are comfortable with giving bJs. If I love the feel of a nice stiff one in my mouth and being in control and making my guy feel so utterly out of control. I find it extremely erotic and fulfilling to take my pleasure in anyway I so choose to do so being it giving a bj or riding into the sunset. .

< Message edited by RosaB -- 2/16/2005 9:30:11 AM >

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RE: Oral sex on a Sub - 2/17/2005 7:16:10 PM   
BeachMystress


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I always warn a man, vanilla or submissive, that cumming in my mouth without my express approval is a BAD IDEA. I further tell them that my way of expressing my sorrow at their shabby treatment is to BITE.. and bite hard. I don't have much of a problem with guys trying the "oops, I'm sorry, it snuck up on me" route.

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RE: Oral sex on a Sub - 2/18/2005 12:46:50 AM   
FelinePersuasion


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told me I wasn't a "real Domme." My Dominance doesn't come from others granting it to me. It comes
give your sub is still dominante to me. If he chooses to give you something so precious as an orgasim or a lil pussy action should you be female is HIS WILL and it doesn't make any one any less dominant to use their will on someone, be it to make them serve YOU , or you blow them.

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RE: Oral sex on a Sub - 2/18/2005 4:22:56 AM   
LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: SweetDommes
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ORIGINAL: Whipenrod

Doms do it to their lady subs--what's wrong with a Domme doing it to her male sub?




Not having read all of the posts, of course, this is the statement that strikes me.

Yes, I am a Domme, yes, I have blown our boys - I enjoy it, so why the hell not? And who is to say that I'm not a Domme just because I do, when every single Dom that I have ever met/talked to/listened to has done it with his femsubs at length and is still considered Dominant? This is one of the many double standards of life that I just don't understand *wanders off, shaking her head*


This is a moment where having read the 1.5 pages of short posts before yours might not have had you wandering off shaking your head.

Your opinion seems to be the consensus here ;)

- LA

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