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RE: common curtesy - 4/28/2004 8:40:37 AM

liljoy

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ahh yes but i can disagree with You without resorting to insulting You or calling names. From what i've seen on the board You can do the same. A kind of rule i have for myself is if someone says something that really upsets me. I ask questions to gain clarification because so often things typed can be taken other than was intended. Once things have been cleared up i can then say boy i'm glad i understand what you meant now or ok that really bothers me because....
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ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD

I see tw0 things I do not agree in your statement quietsins
One I am NOT on a VANILLA BOARD with miss manners nor have I ever layed claim to b anything but Honorable in My Beliefs and I am a Sadist so where do you think that a Sadist would find curtisy within towards a Society that has allready deemed Them insane?
Second this statment is false:
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miscommunications are a common theme between people in relationships because they arent practicing common curtesy.

I am not here on the boards having a relationship with anyone nor am I scening with anyone but putting to print My Opinions and thoughts and Teachings from Life experiance and I do not expect anyone to nessisarly agree with Me nor even for that matter read what I have to say.I do NOT candy coat MY feelings nor words and if anyone does not like what I see and feel and speak They can lump it!

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RE: common curtesy - 4/28/2004 9:28:12 AM

Sinergy

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Greetings,

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Familarity breeds contempt.

I heard that Familiarity breeds attempt...

I work in user support dealing with customers all day long. I am required in my professional life to deal with everybody with common courtesy and respect, whether or not I am given reason to do otherwise.

I studied with a 9th degree black belt for 17 years. In all that time I never once saw him treat any other human being with anything but respect and courtesy, and I for one modelled that behavior as well.

One of my jobs (I work 2 at the moment and I am looking for a third) involves state dependant teaching of self-defense. The states I am professionally required to put the person in to are anger and fear. I do this rather well. So attempting to pick fights and create conflict when I am not at work seems way too much like taking my work home with me.

Lastly, I have worked in and around cyberspace since the 1980s, am a published writer, and the quote "think twice, post once" seems to apply to most message boards. Text based posts do not carry with them the 70-90% non-verbal cues which normal conversation does, and they are very easy to take wrong / misread. Flaming a person for what they think tends, in my mind, to reflect very poorly on the person doing the flaming.

Sinergy

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