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RE: When Bliss Turns to Bust: Financial Realities At t... - 2/6/2005 10:09:47 AM

BlkTallFullfig

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ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD
many with in OUR Lifestyle that get off on Humiliation.
I see You seem to need a lesson in Alternate Lifestyles. And further more
calling their self a gold-nigger is their right if that is what they desire to call their self.
Blk and could in all realiziation be a simple typo and then again maybe not.....JMPO........~smiles wickedly~ [/size][/color][/font]

Dear MistressDread,
I swear I'm open to all and anything between consenting adults; anyone should be able to call himself/herself anything, no matter how prejorative, In Private...

However, within a public forum, one has to be somewhat respectful/cognizant of rules of acceptable behavior... "Nigger" is not among the prejorative terms used for whitefolk generally speaking, and I don't intend to let it go unnoticed, any more than if I publically inserted "white trash" in my descritpion of self, and hoped no one noticed. M

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RE: When Bliss Turns to Bust: Financial Realities At t... - 2/6/2005 10:30:03 AM

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just to make it clear - it was a mistype at all

but - i prefer black - thats a fact - smile -

petra

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RE: When Bliss Turns to Bust: Financial Realities At t... - 2/6/2005 11:18:07 AM

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no matter how prejorative, In Private...

hmm Blk you surley now are showing your chains. The US constitution gives ALL the right to speak any way they feel in public providing it is not a threat, or words against the president in any negitive fashion. ~sighs~
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"Nigger" is not among the prejorative terms used for whitefolk generally speaking,
Now You are REALLY getting My quip BLK. ANYONE can at ANYTIME use ANY word they so choose. I dont care WHAT color anyone is. I dont call anyone by a color as you have and your biased and predudice attitudes are quite clear and demeaning and show your true colors. You go a head and worry about Blk folks and White folks and anyone whom uses such terms I see as the real niggers... Now where are those of My race...... Human. Hrump!
Both You and Lily need to stop tempting to take peoples rights away from them if you dont Own em.

Thankyou for the clairification petra. I would of liked you either way...LOL

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RE: When Bliss Turns to Bust: Financial Realities At t... - 2/6/2005 11:31:32 AM

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Dear MistressDread,

i agree with Your words fully. and at least i do consider myself as i like to be - thats what i am - who i am....

as a german often i hear i am a "Nazi" - yes we still deal with that.

honestly it do not bother me at all.

why should?

... at least in that lifestyle for a lot slut, whore, bitch is a part of their daily expression and how many people are aroused by them? .. a lot of

take a look in the outside and tell a woman she is a bitch - oh, oh - problems coming up.

so at least - the definition of words is defined by the humans the use

and therefor thats an old problem we have in our civilisation....

to communicate and understand it means there is a code and a decode dependent on the sender and recipient....

hug to all

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RE: When Bliss Turns to Bust: Financial Realities At t... - 2/6/2005 11:39:22 AM

BlkTallFullfig

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ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD
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no matter how prejorative, In Private...

hmm Blk you surley now are showing your chains. The US constitution gives ALL the right to speak any way they feel in public providing it is not a threat. ~sighs~
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"Nigger" is not among the prejorative terms used for whitefolk generally speaking,
Now You are REALLY getting My quip BLK. ANYONE can at ANYTIME use ANY word they so choose.
You go a head and worry about Blk folks and White folks and anyone whom uses such terms I see as the real niggers...

I did not remove anyone's right to say whatever he/she chooses (see no gags or protests to remove her from public), I simply verbalized my opinion on what the person said, and am familiar with common sense, decent manners/respect, and wish everyone else was too.

I don't have a single problem with being called black, as it is not prejoratively used to describe people with my pigment.
As for what you think of me, I'd like to say I care enough for it to cause me to lose sleep, but I'm not that good a liar....
I don't know what they call your race, but I hope most in "your" race know how to be respectful (maybe even occasionally kind), so I won't judge them by your words/behavior... M

P.S. Sorry everyone else for the thread Hijack... this is my final response to Ghetto snowflake and Dread...

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RE: When Bliss Turns to Bust: Financial Realities At t... - 2/6/2005 11:57:41 AM

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Now where are those of My race...... Human. Hrump!
Both You and Lily need to stop tempting to take peoples rights away from them if you dont Own em.

You should know My race Blk cause I told Ya
Human is MY RACE.

and I dident say you DID take away petras
right to speak but tempted to. get a story
straight befor you bunk it up.

I agree with you wholly petra. Willkommen zu unseren geisteskrank brettern petra.

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RE: When Bliss Turns to Bust: Financial Realities At t... - 2/6/2005 12:23:47 PM

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I don't have a single problem
with being called black, as it is not
prejoratively used to describe people
with my pigment

Maybe not to you but in the rest of
the world using color to discribe people
is concidered a biased racist act period.

And further more petra did not use
the term nigger to preoratively discribe
anyone. And if she had used it to discribe
her self it would not have been directed
towards you or anyone of any race.
This is My point that you seem to miss totally.

Oh yea and for the record As a black behavioral scientist and retired practicing psychiatrist, my own functional definition of "Nigger is as follows:
Any and all use of the word, "Nigger. whether it is used by a White person or a Black person (or any shade of black or any other color if used in the vanilla world), no matter in what context or in what-so-ever tone of voice, translates into the following statement: "Consciously or subconsciously, I am helping to maintain the local, national, global system of Racism (Color Supremacy) and accept their superiority. HOWEVER this does not cross over into the Alternate Lifestyle which includes humiliation UNLESS purposely used by Racists or Color Supremacy that also walk with in this Alternate Lifestyle or desired by those whom feel that Racists are of the superior race. Simple. And Racists come in ALL COLORS.

~Its a thinnnnnnn lineeeeee betweeeeeen love and hate!~ ~smiles wickedly and throws a kiss towards Blk.~

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RE: When Bliss Turns to Bust: Financial Realities At t... - 2/6/2005 3:52:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD
Maybe not to you but in the rest of
the world using color to discribe people
is concidered a biased racist act period.

she had used it to discribe
her self it would not have been directed
towards you or anyone of any race.

Oh yea and for the record As a black behavioral scientist and retired practicing psychiatrist, my own functional definition of "Nigger is....
~Its a thinnnnnnn lineeeeee betweeeeeen love and hate!~ ~smiles wickedly and throws a kiss towards Blk.~

Now I have to take back my word that I would no longer respond to you on this matter...
I don't know what rest of the world you speak of, but in this and some other countries I've been to, no one gets into a fight because they're called black... And I wonder what you've decided we should do with the scientists that describe people as brown/yellow/white?? I'm not suggesting that describing someone according to color is avant garde, I'm simply saying it's common and acceptable.

Petra should know that if she is in any ghetto in the US, and calls out nigger, she'll get hurt (unlike the reaction she would get if she called someone "black"),
EVEN if she prefaces the word with "according to mistressdread's definition...," she'd probably still get her head extracted out of mistressdread's orifice, and served to her on a platter.

I can't tell you how nonsensical your posts are, when you say I'm racist for calling myself black, and petra is Not for calling Anyone a nigger (just because she may happen to like phucking one).

Thanks for telling me of your background in psychology, I used to think you were just high, LOL... My 1st psych professor was institutionalized before the end of the semester.
I absolutely don't hate you, most times I think you're funny... M

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RE: When Bliss Turns to Bust: Financial Realities At t... - 2/6/2005 3:58:08 PM

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Both You and Lily need to stop tempting to take peoples rights away from them if you dont Own em.

There are rules on this board. I'm not attempting anything. You certainly have barfed your insane crap all over these boards, and pretty much have insulted everyone. I just think people realize you are too insane to really pay any attention to.

The First Amendmant gives you the right of free speech. But with freedom comes responsiblity. If you choose to use offensive racial slurs (Prefering a particular race has nothing to do with the acceptance of racial slurs) then prepare for backlash.

Lily

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RE: When Bliss Turns to Bust: Financial Realities At t... - 2/6/2005 4:12:03 PM

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Dear MistressDread,

i agree with Your words fully. and at least i do consider myself as i like to be - thats what i am - who i am....

as a german often i hear i am a "Nazi" - yes we still deal with that.

honestly it do not bother me at all.

why should?

... at least in that lifestyle for a lot slut, whore, bitch is a part of their daily expression and how many people are aroused by them? .. a lot of

take a look in the outside and tell a woman she is a bitch - oh, oh - problems coming up.

so at least - the definition of words is defined by the humans the use

and therefor thats an old problem we have in our civilisation....

to communicate and understand it means there is a code and a decode dependent on the sender and recipient....

hug to all

petra

You know petra...you get more flies with honey, than you do with vinegar. You posted a concern, and then you argued about your responses and you were disrespectful and offesnive to the people who offered you help. While I respect your right to say what ever you want, the implication of the First Amendment does not allow you to do that without taking responsibility nor does it prevent you from receiving negative feedback when you have been socially and racially insensitive.

I've blocked both you and Dread.

Be well.

Lily

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RE: When Bliss Turns to Bust: Financial Realities At t... - 2/6/2005 5:58:57 PM

match2u

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Dear ProtagonistLily,

first of all i didn't wanna offend anyone by my post - as already mentioned before a mistype...

but so far i totally agree with MistressDread in telling i consider myself as Human

as long as we accept prejudices and a pic is popping up in our mind - as long they will exist.
so at least there is no difference in black, yellow, white,.. etc

its the mind and the prejudices, settled in the past who let me think there schould be.

is it not the freedom we claim also living that lifestyle in being what we are, far beyond the point if people understand - but at least to accept it?

why we should not include our mind as well?

me - i have a black kid....

my definition is far from that what a lot of people think about.....

... so please allow me the freedom to have my own definition

hug

petra

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