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RE: How do you weed thru fakes?? - 12/11/2004 11:27:51 PM

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Well after I meet more that aren't fake I'll let you know

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RE: How do you weed thru fakes?? - 12/12/2004 3:00:15 AM

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ORIGINAL: GoddessJules

Bottom line is this: "Fakes" are an integral part of BDSM. I mean look at the number of threads and discussions devoted to the subject. The illicit more discussions than caning, whipping, and CBT combined. If the fakes drop off the planet of the earth. . .there wouldn't be shit else to talk about on these boards! People *can't possibly* just be happy with their own situations. . .NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. . .we gotta all get together and see what Goddess Peggy Sue is doing and think of the many ways she is totally off base and agree to how fake she is. That bitch!!!!!

Jules

Hear hear! By much the same criteria, I too am a fake and a game player, labels which for the most part I proudly wear. Dosen't stop me from being opinionated about all those other fakes, though. It's just a damn shame how every clique in the world dosen't adhere to exactly the same rules and etiquette that I was taught when I was inducted into the scene. YER ALL FAKES, YA HEAR ME?!?

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RE: How do you weed thru fakes?? - 12/12/2004 9:46:00 AM

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First GoddessJules:
Bottom line is this: "Fakes" are an integral part of BDSM.

Then Suleiman:
It's just a damn shame how every clique in the world dosen't adhere to exactly the same rules and etiquette that I was taught when I was inducted into the scene.

I suspect that fakes are an integral part of any group. Another subculture I mix with is bicycle racing -- there they make fun of the "Fred's" (an acronym borrowed from railroading for "Fucking Rear End Device"), and it refers to the guys who have the latest bikes and garb so they look like imitation Lance Armstrongs, except that they barely ride enough to be in any shape to keep up with the group.

I'll bet if you listen to the old ladies in their sewing circles they'll be poking fun at the fakes who don't even know how to do a cross-stitch or whatever it is that sewing folks do.

Anyway, I think that one of the biggest things that differentiate the fakes from the real folks are that real folks can think for themselves and really don't give a damn if others want to brand them a fake for it.

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RE: How do you weed thru fakes?? - 1/12/2005 2:06:37 PM

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Oh LadyShoshin, you took the words right out of my mouth but this also applys to Dom's (wanna be's). many a time I have had to walk away because someone doesnt know what their talking about. But someday, I shall meet that man or woman and I shall be in complete heaven.
bright Blessings to A/all
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RE: How do you weed thru fakes?? - 1/12/2005 5:17:11 PM

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RE: How do you weed thru fakes?? - 1/18/2005 2:27:37 AM

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Gut feelings .........if something doesnt feel right, then more then likely it is not right.........They always show their true colors, and unfortunate it is Us who are true blue that get hurt. For them it is a game, and We refuse to play games with peoples hearts or lives.

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RE: How do you weed thru fakes?? - 1/18/2005 10:00:15 PM

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What have i learned beyond that about fakes?
Well most want me to buy a ticket within the first 2 weeks of discovering they exist, most do not have time or inclination to invest in getting to know me

For me that would be wanting to meet. Mass generalisation here but it does appear the longer something stays online, the less likely to succeed.
Therefore if I met someone online I would want to meet asap

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RE: How do you weed thru fakes?? - 1/18/2005 10:03:49 PM

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By many of the accounts given here as to what a "fake" is (and on other threads) I proudly wear the "fake crown." I don't have problems playing on the first meeting, I expect that anyone who contacts me make themselves available for my use, I take money money money from my boys, and I don't use safewords. Looks like a fake, walks like a fake, quacks like a fake. . . so I must be fake

I have often played on first meetings, mind you discussions with other female dominants who are local friends, it does appear to be more prevalent amongst females than males
(I see I am doing a the generic thing today

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RE: How do you weed thru fakes?? - 1/18/2005 11:30:00 PM

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http://www.collarme.com/photos/51373.jpg

photoshopped pictures?

wha-bam.

I'd fall over and never get up.

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RE: How do you weed thru fakes?? - 1/18/2005 11:35:58 PM

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I'd fall over and never get up

Midear Tempt-

Not to worry- I'd catch you <g>.

I might not let you get up....

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RE: How do you weed thru fakes?? - 1/19/2005 8:18:21 PM

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To be honest they weed themselves out more than I weed them out.

All I do really is give them time to weed themselves or some they are worth a closer look.

However, I am also not looking, though recently more so than before, since I might have found someone near me, and we have decided to see if it will work or not.

But as with all things - time shall tell.

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RE: How do you weed thru fakes?? - 1/22/2005 11:34:16 PM

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temptation, LOL!

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