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knees2you -> waiting on-line (4/11/2004 7:30:44 PM)
just wondering??[&:] how many subs have met a Domm or Domme on-line and have progressed with them[:D], to the point of knowing your likes and There likes and dislikes. But that each quick response from You, gets one in 15 or so minutes does it frustrate you waiting so long~[:o] If your both really interested, what have You done to really break the ice to see if there really is a future for the both of You[&:] sincerely, knees2You[;)] quote: if a snake bites before it is charmed there is no profit for the charmer~[&o]

sub4hire -> RE: waiting on-line (4/11/2004 8:12:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: knees2you just wondering??[&:] how many subs have met a Domm or Domme on-line and have progressed with them[:D], to the point of knowing your likes and There likes and dislikes. But that each quick response from You, gets one in 15 or so minutes does it frustrate you waiting so long~[:o] If your both really interested, what have You done to really break the ice to see if there really is a future for the both of You[&:] Knees, I met my current Dom online. Not on any type of personal or BDSM site though. I gave up seeking my "perfect" Dom. So I was hanging out in a California chat room. Just looking for new people to interact with near me. There he was. We started chatting. Found out he was in the lifestyle. So was I. The rest is history. Its going on 5 1/2 years of bliss. So it is possible. Oh, I met him near him. At a grocery store where I was very well protected. He did'nt know how to find me..etc..etc. Until after a few meetings. Probably 3000 hours of phone talk. We found out we were compatible in a vanilla relationship long before playing for the first time. sincerely, knees2You[;)] quote: if a snake bites before it is charmed there is no profit for the charmer~[&o]

proudsub -> RE: waiting on-line (4/11/2004 8:20:35 PM)
If a response takes that long i don't think he is giving you his full attention. He may be chatting with others, playing games online, talking to family members, or having to hide the chat due to others being too close. Why don't you ask him? When i had an online dom he demanded i give him my full attention and close other chats and games i was playing.

belongtoyou -> RE: waiting on-line (4/11/2004 9:03:52 PM)
knees2you; This has happened to me before, and i will ask "is this not a good time for you?" or "why don't we chat/talk later?" Communication is a wonderful thing.... Tell them what's bothering you and work it out! Cheers, ~rain~

MistressKiss -> RE: waiting on-line (4/11/2004 9:09:14 PM)
I agree....ask! It amazes me how many submissives are not allowed or not comfortable in asking their Dominant a simple question such as this. I would want to know if there is a real interest or are they hiding the conversation from a wife and kids... [image]local://upfiles/10574/3AC11623CC9142D2A1A63479D2D082B1.gif[/image]

knees2you -> RE: waiting on-line (4/12/2004 3:01:46 PM)
proudsub, She has a little daughter about 9. i have asked Her if there is a time that She and I can devote time on-line, but my time has to be Hers. I've asked about whether or not this is going anywhere, and She says be paitient. we are very compatible vanilla and Bdsm. She is trainning me, and I do my best to please Her.[:D] I suppose asking a little more questions, would not hurt, well not physicaly anyways~[:)] well thank You all for Your support and I'll let You know what happens[&:] sincerely knees2You[;)] quote: if a snake bites before it is charmed there is no profit for the charmer~[&o]

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