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Punishment - 11/9/2004 11:46:15 AM

aliljaded1

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what is the worst punishment you can think of for yourself ?
for me its being ignored. it sends me into a complete and utter depression.

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RE: Punishment - 11/9/2004 11:49:26 AM

sweetpleaser

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I agree with you there totally!! I hate it when someone is mad at me. I would much rather take an 8-hour beating than that!!

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RE: Punishment - 11/9/2004 11:55:13 AM

sub4hire

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No touching of any kind.

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RE: Punishment - 11/9/2004 12:01:08 PM

velvetvixen

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Hearing that I have disappointed Master

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RE: Punishment - 11/9/2004 12:05:22 PM

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having to sit in the corner.

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RE: Punishment - 11/9/2004 12:28:41 PM

stef

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The worst punishment would be dismissal.

Barring that, I think I'm far harder on myself when I know I've failed/displeased someone than they could ever be on me.

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RE: Punishment - 11/9/2004 12:47:06 PM

inadazey

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displeasing him... i think it hurts me more than it does him when i do something that really disappoints him. Did something like that once, and i just hated myself for having hurt him.

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RE: Punishment - 11/9/2004 12:47:07 PM

dixiedumpling

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I agree 100% that being ignored is the worst punishment. At least if they are yelling or spanking, they are paying attention to you. Anyone who ignores me has chosen the correct tool to bludgeon me.

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RE: Punishment - 11/9/2004 5:02:52 PM

newflowers

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Being ignored is probably the worst, though I hate being yelled at as well.

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RE: Punishment - 11/9/2004 6:03:38 PM

cariad

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the worst punishment Master gave this slave was for her to put gator clamps on her nipples, her nipple clamps on her cunnyand sit in the dark to think about what she had done and to reflect on her punishment. needless to say since that night, this slave hasn't done what she did to deserve punishment. this slave agrees though the hardest punishment given by Master was no messengers, no internet other than to do research for her novels, no calling or emailing Him until He contacted her.

this slave has had many a punishment for various things ranging from missing curfew to touching herself (one of Master's rules is NO touching her cunny without prior permission), to hiding her feelings.

this slave has since learned to open up and speak her mind respectfully where her feelings are concerned and even though she may not agree with set punishment at the time, she follows through with it even though W/we are 3000 miles apart and after it is over and done with she then approaches Master telling Him why she felt the punishment was not "just." Master hates the word fair so she has had to try and keep it out of her vocabulary when she feels something isn't fair.

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RE: Punishment - 11/9/2004 7:43:13 PM

SentForu

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Dipped in hot oil, bathed in cold water, tarred and feathered afterwards. Then, there's the possibility of pictures taken, or being forced out in public like that...

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RE: Punishment - 11/9/2004 9:20:54 PM

Suleiman

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I presume, of course, you mean some form of behavioral correction, rather than actual play-time, correct?

It used to be the threat of dismissal. Then that trump card got used once too often, and I learned to deal with it. Now? I have no idea. My wife and I have argued only once in the past ten years (although we disagree quite often). In all that time, there has never been a situation where punishment was required, nor would either of us require such a thing, as that is not in the nature of our relationship.

I suppose my own sense of right and wrong are far more capable of adjusting my attitude than any external punishment which might be inflicted upon me. My wife is much the same. Once we have expressed to one another that some behavior is hurtful to us, it does not happen again. Actually, in both cases, our reactions so far outweight the culpability involved, we both tend to avoid making unnessesary accusatory statements in a desperate bid to avoid hurting each other's feelings

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RE: Punishment - 11/10/2004 4:26:01 AM

subbiejenn

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I can't take being ignored...

Knowing i have been displeasing and then Him not talking to me, its torture! All you can do then is think about what you did. Every time you want to say something and He walks on by it's like a knife in your heart. I'd rather sit in the corner and not have to look at the disappointment in His face.

but it is effective! Once He decides it is time to talk i couldn't be happier to please Him and for sure wouldn't do what it was i did wrong in the first place again!

JMO
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RE: Punishment - 11/10/2004 5:44:51 AM

smilezz

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seeing 'THAT' look on His face when i have disappointed Him.

Thorns means the world to me...there is no One that compares to Him...no One that makes me feel the way He does....no One that i am totally/utterly/deeply in Love with...He is the Man that i serve... and to have disappointed Him in any way kills me. I will say that i have seen this Look before and i make sure that i never see it again....but i am human also, i make mistakes...it just keeps me in check.

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RE: Punishment - 11/10/2004 12:59:11 PM

slavewithnoname

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quote:

Hearing that I have disappointed Master

I'm with you on this one.... tell me I've displeased or disapointed and my guilt will punish way worse than anyone ever could... is the worst for me!
~slavegirl~

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RE: Punishment - 11/10/2004 1:03:40 PM

sub4hire

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quote:

Dipped in hot oil, bathed in cold water, tarred and feathered afterwards. Then, there's the possibility of pictures taken, or being forced out in public like that...

Myra,
You mean that WASN'T your halloween costume after all?

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RE: Punishment - 11/10/2004 7:00:15 PM

SentForu

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Gloria,
Nah, didn't dress up myself. Just imagine though, a little school girl's outfit, a stern looking older teacher, a HUGE paddle, and a dunce hat.......

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RE: Punishment - 11/11/2004 4:57:35 AM

softysub

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I have to agree, its the same thing for me when My Sir ignores me... i feel so uncomplete and i too would prefer a day long beating. Luckily it doesnt happen alot.

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RE: Punishment - 11/11/2004 6:31:06 AM

IndySubPrincess

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I would have to agree. I love to be spanked, that's not a punishment. Any other physical contact that is out of the ordinary or is not done consentually is out of the question.

No, for me, the most damning punishment is to be told, in any way, that I have disappointed someone I care about. A Daddy I knew just recently corrected me with a stern tone of voice and immediately I laid my head down next to him and cried. He didn't even know he'd affected me that much, until we talked about it a couple of days later.

So for me, it's just being told I'm a disappointment.

YoungLady/IndySubPrincess

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RE: Punishment - 11/11/2004 10:23:49 AM

CyberDiva

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i agree TOTALLY. i hate periods of silence as a discipline/punishment.

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