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MasterGold -> Disabled Master here (9/28/2004 11:18:50 PM)
Greetings, Got a question for people. Do subs and or slaves "" shy away from me because I am disabled? Or that I have on my profile that I do wish for them to be able to work? I ask this because this is what I am sencing, as I have emailed alot of subs and slaves yet alot do not reply.

ModeratorSix -> RE: Disabled Master here (9/28/2004 11:26:04 PM)
Hi Dan, I think that's unlikely. Other men who are not disabled have made similar remarks/complaints on these boards. Most of the women here get a lot of mail. There are probably as many reasons for not replying to it as there are women here. Your disability might be a factor with some of them, but again, your experience isn't out of line with what men without disabilities have reported. Continuing to participate here on the message boards might be a good way to distinguish yourself from those men who just lurk, read profiles, and send lots of mail. Best of fortune to you. Mod6

Suleiman -> RE: Disabled Master here (9/29/2004 12:23:39 AM)
Don't take it personally, dude. There's kind and unkind explanations for why a lot of guys don't get any responses, but the standard advice is that it takes a while to get a decent hookup. Usually you get guys complaining about lack of responses, and at the same time you get women complaining about too many offers. The consensus seems to be that theres a few hundred Horny Net Geeks trolling every lady on the site, making life difficult for everybody else. ~S

sexypet -> RE: Disabled Master here (9/29/2004 2:09:32 AM)
moderators: it would appear that MasterGold's profile is in violation of collarme's terms.... "No Contact Info: Phone, Email, Instant Messenger."

ModeratorSix -> RE: Disabled Master here (9/29/2004 6:13:16 AM)
I'm not sure what you mean by this, sexypet, or why you would care (or want to tattle about it publicly). If you're talking about his message board profile, providing contact info that would be made public is not required. If you're talking about a personals profile, the same is true. Collarme has to have some of that information to open an account for someone. That doesn't mean that everyone gets to see it. At any rate, if you have anything more to say about this, mail me or one of the other mods privately. The public message boards is not the appropriate place for this. Mod6

sub4hire -> RE: Disabled Master here (9/29/2004 8:30:40 AM)
quote: Got a question for people. Do subs and or slaves "" shy away from me because I am disabled? Or that I have on my profile that I do wish for them to be able to work? I ask this because this is what I am sencing, as I have emailed alot of subs and slaves yet alot do not reply. I agree with everyone else here. If I were looking right now. It would make no difference to me you are disabled at all. As long as I knew up front. There was a long discussion here about disabilities and the lifestyle a while back. Perhaps Proud will read this thread and help us out. In my profile I state I am looking for like minded friends. Yet, I still get a minimum of ten unsolicited e-mails a day. Some days many, many more. None usually telling me they are seeking friends. I have even gotten e-mail from people asking me to Dominate them. So, I think it is a wise thing to assume that many just don't read. Most are not here to be serious and they will spam anybody and everything. If only we could make sides up. Serious and not.

proudsub -> RE: Disabled Master here (9/29/2004 8:34:55 AM)
He asked the same question in his introduction and i gave him the link there but will repeat it: date a cripple to be

Kinkypupper -> RE: Disabled Master here (9/29/2004 9:53:52 AM)
I do not think at all that your disability has anything to do with it.. it is just incredably difficult for anyone to reply to any ad placed from a dom.. and that there are so many "wannabes" and horney farts who just want a quick piece of tail that the average subbie ad gets thousands of replys... so they probably do not even read most of them after a while un less something special catches their eyes.. now how or what one does to do that if you can find it PLEASE share :-)

Mercnbeth -> RE: Disabled Master here (9/29/2004 10:26:42 AM)
Dan, We know that Ohio is a long way off from California, but when we attended the Folsom Fair/Fringe, we encounter quite a few disabled and handicapped people. They ranged from being wheelchair bound to amputees. We met and enjoyed talking to someone who reminded us of you. He also had cerebral palsy and had been coming to Folsom for over 10 years. They were on both sides of the spectrum, submissives and dominants. Other then the rest of the community of people there helping them when they asked, they were treated no differently then any other participant. As others have pointed out, in general the position in the relationship pyramid of finding a partner for a D/s relationship is near the top - the thinnest part. Adding location, and a disability narrows the field even further. You need to do is accept that, or effect a change that would provide a broader base. I know you state quite emphatically that your are relocatable. But you might consider a preemptive move. You already are proactive in your search, but depending on how important this truly is, you may have to do more. You are in no different a situation then many/most of the people posting to this and other sites like this. Finding anyone is not an easy accomplishment. Merc & beth

MasterGold -> RE: Disabled Master here (9/29/2004 3:07:22 PM)
Greetings, BRB

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