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ORIGINAL: artglfr

Relax and enjoy the ride. Some Doms just enjoy pushing buttons and seeing how dedicated a sub really is.

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Merriam-Webster defines KINK as a clever, unusual way of doing something...and I'm okay with that!
~ Me ~

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ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful
So, is this testing theory just a little white lie we tell to comfort ourselves and others, or do people actually test people in that manner? Opinions?

Cin

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ORIGINAL: caitlyn

You live in a cold, emotionless climate LA?

It's odd ... we never ran into each other.

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ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cin

This brings up an interesting issue...I've often heard women say that when a new contact takes unexplained, significant breaks from contact (online or in real life) that it's a male thing, that he's likely just testing her.

(I'm not making this a gender thing, but I haven't actually ever heard a man claim this, so I've stated women...)

Now, personally, I have big doubts about this claim, and tend to feel that if a person (of any sex or orientation) does this, then there are other factors, the likeliest being they just aren't that committed to making anything happen in that relationship.

So, is this testing theory just a little white lie we tell to comfort ourselves and others, or do people actually test people in that manner? Opinions?

Cin