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artglfr -> RE: Why Make Us worry? (3/8/2006 1:57:15 PM)
Relax and enjoy the ride. Some Doms just enjoy pushing buttons and seeing how dedicated a sub really is. It doesn't sound like you were ignored all that long. Have fun and listen to LA .

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: Why Make Us worry? (3/8/2006 2:35:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: artglfr Relax and enjoy the ride. Some Doms just enjoy pushing buttons and seeing how dedicated a sub really is. This brings up an interesting issue...I've often heard women say that when a new contact takes unexplained, significant breaks from contact (online or in real life) that it's a male thing, that he's likely just testing her. (I'm not making this a gender thing, but I haven't actually ever heard a man claim this, so I've stated women...) Now, personally, I have big doubts about this claim, and tend to feel that if a person (of any sex or orientation) does this, then there are other factors, the likeliest being they just aren't that committed to making anything happen in that relationship. So, is this testing theory just a little white lie we tell to comfort ourselves and others, or do people actually test people in that manner? Opinions? Cin

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Why Make Us worry? (3/8/2006 3:17:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful So, is this testing theory just a little white lie we tell to comfort ourselves and others, or do people actually test people in that manner? Opinions? Cin You hear about it all the time. Subs get away with disobeying all the time in the name of "testing" or "pushing the limits" just so they can feel safe. I call it BS. Life brings more than enough tests on its own. Someone who purposefully tests the other person isn't comfortable with just getting to know the other person.

kyraofMists -> RE: Why Make Us worry? (3/8/2006 4:37:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: caitlyn You live in a cold, emotionless climate LA? It's odd ... we never ran into each other. [;)] Nice to know I have such good company. I've been called an unemotional bitch. I just smiled and said "Thank you" kyra

Crazytwice -> RE: Why Make Us worry? (3/8/2006 11:21:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cin This brings up an interesting issue...I've often heard women say that when a new contact takes unexplained, significant breaks from contact (online or in real life) that it's a male thing, that he's likely just testing her. (I'm not making this a gender thing, but I haven't actually ever heard a man claim this, so I've stated women...) Now, personally, I have big doubts about this claim, and tend to feel that if a person (of any sex or orientation) does this, then there are other factors, the likeliest being they just aren't that committed to making anything happen in that relationship. So, is this testing theory just a little white lie we tell to comfort ourselves and others, or do people actually test people in that manner? Opinions? Cin Nah, my opinion is " he's just not that into you."

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