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MadamSadist -> Polyandry (3/8/2006 9:30:35 AM)

I have noticed on most sights that many, many people know and understand polygamy or polyamorously life. HOwever, I am finding it extremely difficult to locate a male who believes in polyandry. I am happily married to a bi male. But we both know that our family is not complete and we need a male slave to finish our family. Anyone have any suggestions




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Polyandry (3/8/2006 9:46:11 AM)

Be honest, be yourself, see what happens. Read The Ethical Slut, get involved in your local poly community if you have one. Be patient.




thetammyjo -> RE: Polyandry (3/8/2006 11:00:32 AM)

You just to keep looking.

I have both Tom and Fox so it can work but then again they also are not involved sexually. If you want a slave who will be intimate in that way with both of you, then you both need to be involved in the search and the courting.

I second the advice about getting into a poly group but these are not the same thing as a kinky group so I'd also recommend finding some munches or BDSM groups too.




MsSpankhardSk -> RE: Polyandry (3/8/2006 1:48:15 PM)

In addition to The Ethical Slut, I suggest reading:
1) Loving More: The Polyfidelity Primer by Ryam Nearing (its out of print but some interlibrary loan did work for me
2) Group Marriage by Larry and Joan Constantine
3) Polyamory: The New Love Without Limits by Dr. Deborah Anapol

When looking for a second...consider life goals and more as well as the kinkiness. I found it hard to balance all at once, and changing from a dyad to a triad is truly harder than you think. If the man in your life is your sub- its important to let him have a say in who you pick. And yes, you'll be looking for a while.

Good luck!




HouseofBear -> RE: Polyandry (3/8/2006 2:44:42 PM)

It is not easy to find those who are interested in a poly relationship, and also meet your other interests as well. Have patience, the right one will come along, you may just have to "kiss a lot of frogs" until you get there.

Lady Ursa




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