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RubberWitch -> RE: RUN FORREST RUN!!!! (3/8/2006 1:16:23 AM)
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My personal limits for when to cut ties
Primary ss partner in a V.
Second really obvious lie (Sorry I've got to stay at Fury's one more night, the car won't start)
This would be the v heading towards a tick, and then you so out of the loop. Re-asses the situation.
Secondary ss partner in a V.
Second really obvious lie (Oh, Triz couldn't make it, she's got to stay home with a poorly cat)
This means you've become the mistress. And if you're not careful, also a target
Middle of the V
Second time either partner says/does anything to make you feel uncomfortable about the other (oh, can we not talk about her tonight / Yeah, I had to cut that bit of the picture off so it's fit the frame)
Any part of a full triangle
As soon as one person gets bored, or shouts about how they feel they're not getting enough attention. Thats not: complains, comments, whinges, asks, or any other form of variation short of screaming you down. Then, split the ties as needed.
Again, these are just my personal tastes, and I know I'll get flamed for being harsh, but I sort of see these as the bits where respect wears thin, and trust frays, and without those, whats left isn't worth it.
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