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for the boys - 3/4/2006 9:43:40 PM

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okay please don't laugh me out the door here. I've heard that submissive men tend to pee sitting down. Is this true?

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RE: for the boys - 3/4/2006 9:52:50 PM

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I pee standing up :)

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RE: for the boys - 3/4/2006 9:55:50 PM

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okay please don't laugh me out the door here. I've heard that submissive men tend to pee sitting down. Is this true?

IME they only pee standing down if they are into feminization or are told to do so. Otherwise, bathroom habits are unchanged for sub males vs other males.

Similar to subs who pee in litter boxes.

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RE: for the boys - 3/4/2006 10:05:56 PM

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okay please don't laugh me out the door here. I've heard that submissive men tend to pee sitting down. Is this true?

Not in my experience... "Sissys" are only a subset of male submissives. And contrary to some opinions you see represented on these forums, absolutely nothing about the male submissives I've been involved with to date has been "less masculine."

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RE: for the boys - 3/4/2006 10:10:06 PM

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okay please don't laugh me out the door here. I've heard that submissive men tend to pee sitting down. Is this true?

There are several male chastity devices which would require a male to sit during urination. I would think certain piercings would also require a male to sit.

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RE: for the boys - 3/4/2006 10:41:42 PM

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standing is usually my preferred method of peeing, unless i have to do the other, which is typical.

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RE: for the boys - 3/4/2006 10:41:45 PM

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Similar to subs who pee in litter boxes.

Christ! I am trying to eat here!

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RE: for the boys - 3/4/2006 10:43:22 PM

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Similar to subs who pee in litter boxes.

Christ! I am trying to eat here!

ROFLMAO

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RE: for the boys - 3/4/2006 10:45:04 PM

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the first time i ever saw a Mman sitting down to pee FREAKED ME OUT!!

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RE: for the boys - 3/4/2006 10:51:09 PM

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probably as much as a woman standing straight and peeing...LOL

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RE: for the boys - 3/4/2006 11:09:01 PM

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Similar to subs who pee in litter boxes.

Christ! I am trying to eat here!

It is not so uncommon. Don't let it disrupt your dinner

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RE: for the boys - 3/4/2006 11:21:28 PM

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IME they only pee standing down if they are into feminization or are told to do so. Otherwise, bathroom habits are unchanged for sub males vs other males.

Several penile piercings also necessitate the need to sit while urinating.

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RE: for the boys - 3/5/2006 12:04:39 AM

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ok maybe this is for another thread, but why would penile piercings necessitate the need for sitting down to pee? (there are so many days when i feel like i'm a 48 year old virgin) LOL

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RE: for the boys - 3/5/2006 12:10:11 AM

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ok maybe this is for another thread, but why would penile piercings necessitate the need for sitting down to pee? (there are so many days when i feel like i'm a 48 year old virgin) LOL

If the ring is sitting inside the tip of the uretha then goes back out, when you pee, part of the urine stream is interupted by the ring and if you're standing up at a urinal, the spray can go all over the place.. sitting down, no problem. ;)

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RE: for the boys - 3/5/2006 1:41:26 AM

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If the ring is sitting inside the tip of the uretha then goes back out, when you pee, part of the urine stream is interupted by the ring and if you're standing up at a urinal, the spray can go all over the place.. sitting down, no problem. ;)

Celeste

I don't think i would have ever stopped to think about it, but it makes sense. The things you learn... I don't think i will be sharing this new found tidbit at the next DAR (Daughter's of the American Revolution) meeting however...:)

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RE: for the boys - 3/5/2006 7:41:04 AM

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okay please don't laugh me out the door here. I've heard that submissive men tend to pee sitting down. Is this true?

Not in my experience... "Sissys" are only a subset of male submissives. And contrary to some opinions you see represented on these forums, absolutely nothing about the male submissives I've been involved with to date has been "less masculine."

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IMHEO, just because a man chooses to sit to pee does not take away from his masculinity and makes him a "sissy"--if that were the case, every man who needed to poo first , (which we all know cannot be accomplished standing) and who then needed to pee, (which happens due to pressure on the bladder after)---would be considered non-masculine or a sissy because he is still seated----dear gawd--who the hell cares if one stands or sits to pee--and since when did that become a pre-requisite for masculinity?

oh and btw, when a man sits to pee? he HITS the commode, wipes not shakes, and there are no telltale yellow drops all over the place---the cleanliness factor increases by about 50%.

think out of the box people, out of the box--

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RE: for the boys - 3/5/2006 8:13:50 AM

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IMHEO, just because a man chooses to sit to pee does not take away from his masculinity and makes him a "sissy"--if that were the case, every man who needed to poo first , (which we all know cannot be accomplished standing) and who then needed to pee, (which happens due to pressure on the bladder after)---would be considered non-masculine or a sissy because he is still seated----dear gawd--who the hell cares if one stands or sits to pee--and since when did that become a pre-requisite for masculinity?

oh and btw, when a man sits to pee? he HITS the commode, wipes not shakes, and there are no telltale yellow drops all over the place---the cleanliness factor increases by about 50%.

think out of the box people, out of the box--

I'm glad you said that.

I have a close friend who sits down to pee. I was shocked at first, but he explained to me exactly what you said....that he thought men who peed all over the seat, the floor, etc. were disgusting, and he was doing it out of consideration for the woman in his life. He won't fart in mixed company either. I do suspect that he does have some bodily function issues from his upbringing. But he chooses to sit down to pee.

He's as manly and straight as they come, and a well-educated Dominant, too.

One small tip, though, MH....please don't tell a man he "can't" poo standing up...you know he'll have to try to!

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RE: for the boys - 3/5/2006 8:22:07 AM

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One small tip, though, MH....please don't tell a man he "can't" poo standing up...you know he'll have to try to!

OMG, looks for the Bounty to clean the screen from the spewed coffee! THAT is a scream----

It's funny, I had My child from a donor pregnancy (a single Mom by choice) and did not know the sex of it till birth--the number one question every one asked was: "If its a boy, how will he learn to stand to pee?" Like that was the validation of his manhood!

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RE: for the boys - 3/5/2006 8:31:47 AM

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ok maybe this is for another thread, but why would penile piercings necessitate the need for sitting down to pee? (there are so many days when i feel like i'm a 48 year old virgin) LOL

If the ring is sitting inside the tip of the uretha then goes back out, when you pee, part of the urine stream is interupted by the ring and if you're standing up at a urinal, the spray can go all over the place.. sitting down, no problem. ;)

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RE: for the boys - 3/5/2006 8:33:07 AM

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Sometimes I sit and think and sometimes I just sit.

I've peed standing, sitting and while doing a handstand (had to get the H.O. pointing in the right direction) No Worries

Now girls that stand to pee....that worries me!

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