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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/25/2006 7:27:20 PM   
RiotGirl


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Status: offline 		i've been called a cock tease and i am usually offended. Dependent on who says it and how. i've also been told i'm flirtateous (however you spell it) tho i never seem to notice it. i summed it up to grown up with 4 older brothers (3 non blood) and its just generally how i interact with guys. i find it an insult as i am generally not interested what so ever in their penis' or anything sexual them.. so for them to bring it there. Ug.



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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/25/2006 9:19:58 PM   
truesub4u


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Status: offline 		shrugs.. pours out pitcher of martinis... heads to bed...

interresting post i still think MHOO... enjoy rest of weekend.



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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/25/2006 9:23:06 PM   
TexasMaam


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ORIGINAL: MHOO314
Women: How do you feel when men think you are a cock tease

and ohh Dommes how do you feel when arrogant men say: "She can't get any on Her own so She has to command it"


lolololol MHO!

It's been years since anyone called Me a cock tease. (Prolly onacos anyone who knows Me knows I ain't teasin', I'm havin' their huevos for breakfast!) God I wish I were 20 years younger though and could be accused of that again. ; )

I haven't heard that "....so She has to command it..." line, but once was told by a submissive that I'd just released that "...Dommes are just women who'd do anything to get love", which made me roar with laughter.

Oh yeah, sure, I dress up, tie his ass down, torture his widdle pee pee, then rape him if I want, just to get 'LUVVVVE'...

lololololol

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/25/2006 9:28:11 PM   
IronBear


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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

OK, so this may not be the right place for this, but I'm sure the Mods in their infinite wisdome will move it--I've watched the boards today and many posts have spun back around to men think and react through and guided by their hoohoos and women tease with their hooties ( feel free to fill in the blanks here...)-

When I read that, I personally get offended for Me, My Sisters in the life, My sub, male subs I know, Doms I am friends with---yet there are indeed cock teasers out there and the cock focused--My question is:

Men: how does that make you feel when women state: all men think through their cocks--

Are you offended or is it a badge of manhood?

Women: How do you feel when men think you are a cock tease

and ohh Dommes how do you feel when arrogant men say: "She can't get any on Her own so She has to command it"


Men think through their cocks??? Many men probably do seeing that is the only place where their single braiobn cell resides and their heads are filled with their own self importance.... Men, and I do mean Men, Usually respect women and are oft supportive as well. A good cock tease is priceless, especially watching her work a corwd of males.

Any woman who can command a cock is worth her weight in diamonds.

If I call a woman a prick tease it is a complement to her ability to cast a seductive spell over males.. (I've been called a cunt tease more than a few times so I don't throw stones.... )


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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/26/2006 7:16:10 AM   
cloudboy


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Status: offline 		Well, its a fact that we men do change when we have an erection. Its a fact that we are internally manipulated by what gives us an erection. Its also true that we deeply desire intimacy with a women who embraces this and gets off on it as well.

That said, Smythe is right and Delrey is wrong IMO. Most men aren't posting here with a hard-on or an express angle to "get it up" so we can then "get off." (The dreaded fear of goddessdustygold, which is not to say her fears are baseless.)

That's not to say that you ladies don't turn us on and don't strike us as sexy and attractive. You do and you have a powerful allure for us. Your posts, your profiles, your online personas do capture our imaginations --- and our imaginations are not G-rated. Still, all guys know that at a minimum, they have to put up with the women they've "just bedded" or "served" (for lack of better terms.) Also, as the old poster realist astutely noted, we do in fact live in the real world, which is pretty much 95% non sexual in nature ----- and to say we are not interested in integrating our love interests into that sphere is FALSE.

As for the WANKER REALM, I see it as more pigeonedholed into individual profiles and PMs, not to the posting here.

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/26/2006 8:17:52 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		The reality is that I haven't met a single person who didn't feel controlled by their sexual lusts at some point or other at least occasionally in their life.

So as long as universal statements like that are made IN JEST to hyperbolize on that reality, I just laugh along with it.

My partners and I tease eachother a lot about our sexual desires and lusts- we bring them out in the open and are completely not shy about "OMG I am so horny right now, I could care less about your thoughts on Hume." We find it fun and true.

However, if someone tries to make those universals in TRUTH, and they combine it with a lack of respect for the individual...then that's not so good. I know some people respect me less because of being an active slut, some people will use that as an assumption that I don't understand or can't understand some depth of "true love monogamy" kinda thing. That's sad, but again, reality.

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/26/2006 10:51:13 AM   
Smythe


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KnightofMists


quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314


Men: how does that make you feel when women state: all men think through their cocks--

Are you offended or is it a badge of manhood?




I look at it as just another woman that doesn't know me... and will not know me! I find the generalization as useful as that all women are prudes! I prefer to judge anyone regardless of sex based on the merits of character, beliefs and actions.



Well said, as always, KoM.

My issue, on a separate but related thread, was that males often seem to BRAG about being shallow and lust driven. I just don't get that.
Smythe





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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/26/2006 11:21:58 AM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		When you think about it, sex is the most ridiculas, nonsensicle, laughable act we humans do,, Gees in the animal kingdom the male heads in for quick satisfying fuck without all the hoohar and BS and when it's over he heads off to find another female on heat.. No regrets no qualms and non of this running about like a chook with it's head chopped off because daddy or hubby is heading in the front door and your on the third floor..... When you get older the sex is less frequent but better and... and.. no I wont go with the visuals of Big Hairy and teeth shoved up my arse and eyes painted on my but cheeks.......

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/27/2006 2:02:26 AM   
GoddessDustyGold


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quote:

ORIGINAL: cloudboy

Most men aren't posting here with a hard-on or an express angle to "get it up" so we can then "get off." (The dreaded fear of goddessdustygold, which is not to say her fears are baseless.)



*laffs* Thank you for that bit of info, cloudboy. It is now confirmed. *wink*
I do take issue with your use of the word "fear", however. It is not a fear at all. It is a matter of frustration and even disgust. Perhaps I have been objectified for too long, and I refuse to feed it. So, if I feel it appropriate, I will cut it off at the pass, or not participate at all.
No, I don't think that most men are here (on the boards) with a hard on or an express angle to "get it up", in order to "get off". But there are a few, and they, especially if they are new to the boards, will attempt to misuse the forums. If that makes Me a "net nanny", so be it.
I do feel that a large percentage of the submissive males on this site who never visit the boards are here for exactly that reason. And I am sure they think this is a perfectly appropriate place to troll for cyber kink, regardless of the the contents of a Lady's profile. Perhaps you would like to read My email and figure out a polite way to reply for the next 30 days? It would sure take a lot of pressure off Me. I don't like to be one of those Dominas who does not reply to emails.

< Message edited by GoddessDustyGold -- 2/27/2006 2:03:59 AM >

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/27/2006 2:12:24 AM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		Uhhh...neither. It just makes me think the speaker is a moron.

quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314

Men: how does that make you feel when women state: all men think through their cocks--

Are you offended or is it a badge of manhood?


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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/27/2006 3:59:26 AM   
ExistentialSteel


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Status: offline 		It can work both ways. Men can tease women sexually to the point where they will beg indirectly and directly. Men are more prone to quickie sex, whereas women become comfortable having sex with someone they feel secure, respected and safe with. Once that comfort level is established, I would actually bet the woman is more needy sexually….and certainly in a D/s context.

Disclaimer: This is also generalization and some women love casual sex, etc. Hey, I used to love women who had random sex as most men do, until I settled down. Also, I realize some men don’t want casual sex. I also know some men can be monogamous. The possibilities are endless.


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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/27/2006 4:55:52 AM   
Lashra


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314

OK, so this may not be the right place for this, but I'm sure the Mods in their infinite wisdome will move it--I've watched the boards today and many posts have spun back around to men think and react through and guided by their hoohoos and women tease with their hooties ( feel free to fill in the blanks here...)-

When I read that, I personally get offended for Me, My Sisters in the life, My sub, male subs I know, Doms I am friends with---yet there are indeed cock teasers out there and the cock focused--My question is:

Men: how does that make you feel when women state: all men think through their cocks--

Are you offended or is it a badge of manhood?

Women: How do you feel when men think you are a cock tease

and ohh Dommes how do you feel when arrogant men say: "She can't get any on Her own so She has to command it"



1. Not all men think thru their cocks, some are quite intelligent and actually look at my face when they talk to me instead of at my tits. But when I do get a mindless one talking to my boobs I snap my fingers in front of my face so they will look up and then I smile saying "I dont think they are gonna talk back."

2. I only tease cocks I intend on using otherwise I fail to see the need of giving a guy a boner. Unless its my boy I dont really want to see a guy walking around in the mall with a huge hardon making his pants stick out funny.

3. Yes I command cock for it is mine to do so with and he willingly obeys. I think more men then will admit would love for a woman to demand cock from them.

Lashra

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/27/2006 5:51:36 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		There's a really awesome woman in the local scene who got involved with a man who was highly active in the local scene as well. Part of the reason she got so into him was because he did NOT have sex with her the first few times they met. Unlike all the other guys, he didn't just want to jump her bones and went for more than just sex.

They were together about 8 months, she had the whole wrench locking collar and they were working well. Then she was in a horrible accident and needed a lot of direct attention.

He pulled the "leaving the lifestyle forever" stunt, pulled out of all the local groups, went back to vanilla life with his wife and kids (yes, he had been having an affair with and she was aware of him being married), and left her pretty much in the dust and alone.

Just to show- guys who can act all chivalrous and "above sex" are not necessarily better in character.

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/27/2006 5:56:53 AM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		A very very good point LA-as always, one has to look at all the ingredients, just not the "label".

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/27/2006 2:55:40 PM   
Submotive


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Status: offline 		Hmmm - gee and i just finished cock worship 101.

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/27/2006 3:07:17 PM   
amayos


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314

Men: how does that make you feel when women state: all men think through their cocks--

Are you offended or is it a badge of manhood?



I'd rather humans see reality as it is; we are sexual creatures, propelled often by sexual drive. Of course our sexuality affects our intentions. This is as true for males as it is for females. It is the degree of how much it affects our ability to make sound and rational preferences / decisions that is key.


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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/27/2006 3:08:06 PM   
MHOO314


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ORIGINAL: Submotive

Hmmm - gee and i just finished cock worship 101.



There are three levels dear, basic, immediate and advanced---ooohhh and what's that new piece of jewlery on your neck?

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/27/2006 3:08:46 PM   
amayos


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
Just to show- guys who can act all chivalrous and "above sex" are not necessarily better in character.


Ah, excellent point.

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/27/2006 4:00:27 PM   
Submotive


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There are three levels dear, basic, immediate and advanced---


yes - well onward and upward as they say.

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ooohhh and what's that new piece of jewlery on your neck?

TBA


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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/27/2006 4:34:50 PM   
Arpig


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Status: offline 		All men think with their cocks?....basically true in as much as I believe we all consider any woman we interact with on one level or another as a potential sexual partner (even if unconciously, or just to reject her as such immediatly), and I suspect women do pretty much the same. So no,it doesn't bother me at all to hear somebody say I think with my cock...I figure that there is no point in getting upset about something that is basically just human nature.
As to all women being cock-teasers....definately not. I have been teased, and have had women who followed through after teasing often enough to know that isn't the case.

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