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older or more mature Dommes - 2/17/2006 2:28:30 PM   
blckmlslv


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I am happy to see that this site is the home for many older dommes. Not that there is anything wrong with the younger Dommes, but many of us love the more mature Dommes, the older the better. I would love to hear any comments.

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RE: older or more mature Dommes - 2/17/2006 4:19:54 PM   
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What's that old saying??? Oh yeah...

"The older the violin, the sweeter the music"

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RE: older or more mature Dommes - 2/17/2006 4:37:57 PM   
Cloudz


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quote:

ORIGINAL: blckmlslv

I am happy to see that this site is the home for many older dommes. Not that there is anything wrong with the younger Dommes, but many of us love the more mature Dommes, the older the better. I would love to hear any comments.

Black male slave

Comments? Glad to be appreciated <grin> always!

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RE: older or more mature Dommes - 2/17/2006 4:51:22 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: blckmlslv

I am happy to see that this site is the home for many older dommes. Not that there is anything wrong with the younger Dommes, but many of us love the more mature Dommes, the older the better. I would love to hear any comments.

Black male slave

Well, as an older Domina, thank you. Glad to be here :)
And welcome!


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RE: older or more mature Dommes - 2/17/2006 4:56:28 PM   
MissHarlet


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ok ok ok ...Older Domina I will accept as long as you promise to remember ... OLD is 5 years older than I am on any given day <EG>

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RE: older or more mature Dommes - 2/17/2006 6:42:58 PM   
MHOO314


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quote:

ORIGINAL: blckmlslv

I am happy to see that this site is the home for many older dommes. Not that there is anything wrong with the younger Dommes, but many of us love the more mature Dommes, the older the better. I would love to hear any comments.

Black male slave


OLDER??? shit is My grandmother hanging out on this site???

oh.. oh.. you mean Me??? LMAO silly boy, I am not older, I am PERFECTION--older refers to wines, champagnes, vodkas, Doms!


gotcha Doms!

I am MISTRESS hear Me roar, whisper, command, control, laugh.

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RE: older or more mature Dommes - 2/17/2006 7:18:45 PM   
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To some degree, it is dangerous for me to post on this subject......

However; as with anything else of value and wonderment in the world.....experience, maturity and flair.........(oh, hell to degrade it with age comes wisdom) and looking at women of........ oh, I don't know, primary; matriarchal; focused; intent.....whatever you want to call it.....type of outlook......it is something that we all should certainly behold, (I know I have a person here who will correct my poorly and phonetically spelled french) Jenais se Quios (can you fix this?) .

Bottom line, many of the young and staltwart souls here will become glamourous and forces for us ALL to be reckoned with anon......

But there is that certain undefinable something about a woman who knows where she is going and will take you with her, Ja?

Ron

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RE: older or more mature Dommes - 2/17/2006 7:21:41 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: blckmlslv

I am happy to see that this site is the home for many older dommes.



Well, I LIKE to think that age is only a state of mind...

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RE: older or more mature Dommes - 2/17/2006 8:51:07 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: blckmlslv

I am happy to see that this site is the home for many older dommes. Not that there is anything wrong with the younger Dommes, but many of us love the more mature Dommes, the older the better. I would love to hear any comments.

Black male slave


Thank you for yours is My comment.

LthrdWolf ...Proud Crone ...wisdom of years & spirit of youth ...well ok sometimes I just need a rocker & warm blanket *looks to slave grinning* - LOL!

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RE: older or more mature Dommes - 2/17/2006 9:46:53 PM   
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quote:

(I know I have a person here who will correct my poorly and phonetically spelled french) Jenais se Quios (can you fix this?) .


Je ne sais quoi


And, although I don't yet qualify as aged to perfection...I appreciate the comment as well.


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RE: older or more mature Dommes - 2/18/2006 9:50:00 AM   
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quote:

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......it is something that we all should certainly behold, (I know I have a person here who will correct my poorly and phonetically spelled french) Jenais se Quios (can you fix this?) .
Ron


You almost had it, Ron!

"Je ne sais quois..."

Texas Maam

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RE: older or more mature Dommes - 2/18/2006 2:27:11 PM   
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HI

How about the young Dommes, aren't you happy that we are here?

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RE: older or more mature Dommes - 2/18/2006 11:29:26 PM   
SimplyV


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessAlexia

HI

How about the young Dommes, aren't you happy that we are here?


Hmm.. *looks at the ages represented* Umm.. If they're older.. And you're younger..

Crap.. When did I get to be middle aged? I like totally missed my mid-life crisis.

V

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RE: older or more mature Dommes - 2/19/2006 7:21:05 PM   
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Even though I agree with what Misstoyou said, that age is only a state of mind, I do prefer an older Domme. They have a maturity that the younger Dommes don't have yet.

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RE: older or more mature Dommes - 2/21/2006 9:39:33 AM   
LadySonelle


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As an older Dome I am pleased this thread is here! I am 53 (54 this June!) and have been playing for 25 years. I would never lie about age or try to be any younger than I am (except in appearance! Grin!) and I am pleased that many sweet slaves and subs recognise that with mileage comes wisdom.

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RE: older or more mature Dommes - 2/21/2006 8:34:10 PM   
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I'm 41, some where smack in the middle of old and young. If I live to be 75 I'm past the midway point. :D

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RE: older or more mature Dommes - 2/21/2006 8:46:36 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: fudgeman67

Even though I agree with what Misstoyou said, that age is only a state of mind, I do prefer an older Domme. They have a maturity that the younger Dommes don't have yet.



Please don't lump all "younger Dommes" into the same "don't have maturity yet" catagory.

I'm not trying to be negative here, mostly because I, too, appreciate the insights that people with more experience in the lifestyle have ... but to imply that all younger Dommes are immature is a problem for me.

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RE: older or more mature Dommes - 2/23/2006 7:00:14 AM   
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lucky thinks the nice thing about older dommes (and older subs for that matter) is not so much the greater experience and thus greater realism of approach, not to mention skill, but even more that in general it takes time for people to know who they are and feel certain and comfortable with it. lucky very much prefers a domme who is self-confident in a relaxed this-is-who-I-am way, and thinks dommes also tend to prefer a sub who knows he is submissive at heart and is happy with himself for being so.

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RE: older or more mature Dommes - 2/23/2006 10:28:51 AM   
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Yeah, what does the OP mean but older and more mature.

I'm 36 but I'm been openly involved in BDSM for 13 years now and for a few years before then under a pseudonym and for at least 4 years before then without knowing what I was doing or interested in was called.


In total I've been interested in Ds for 32 years at least, doing BDSM for 20 years, aware of it for 16 years and open and active publically for going on 14 years now.

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RE: older or more mature Dommes - 2/28/2006 7:14:22 PM   
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Older than what? Dirt? Hey I resemble that. But seriously aside from kissing up, what do you mean by older in terms of age? anyone say over 30? 35? 40? 50 and so on? Older is different to different people and I'm just curious as too how ancient I am on your age scale.

Rosa
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