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RE: The correct way to kneel before Mistress ? - 2/23/2006 9:11:53 PM

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I agree that a sub should educate and improve himself so he has more to offer his Domme, when he does find her.

My advice is to practice 3-4 kneeling positions and when you do encounter your Domme, ask her if she'd like you to kneel. If she says 'yes' then do so. If she doesn't like the way you do it, it is HER job to show you a different way.

This educating yourself applies to other things as well, go to the nail salon and watch a pedicure, try to learn to do it. Cook regularly, clean your home thoroughly, learn how to polish boots... basically acquire all the skills you can that make you a more qualified submissive. I would venture to say that this makes your ability to please your Domme (and find her if you're still searching) much greater.

I agree with that and will often give potentials a website to visit,to have them learn some of the basics.Having them look at things I like helps them understand WHO I am.
If they understand Me, they know what to expect.

I'd like to share it but not sure its allowed so I'll refrain...if you still want info I can send it to you.

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RE: The correct way to kneel before Mistress ? - 2/24/2006 4:46:07 PM

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Each fem dom has her own preferences, chuckles. My personal one is with the sub on hia knees, resting back on his calves, palms down on his thighs, back straight, eyes up where I can see them. As has been mentioned, if this is done with feeling, grace and the sub's expression is one of content being at my feet, then it is perfect.

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RE: The correct way to kneel before Mistress ? - 2/24/2006 8:09:44 PM

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Hi slave dave.

I was going to write up a detailed list we always give slaves but actually the best thing is to ask the Mistress your kneeling for because every Mistress is different and it's what She wants that matters. you can go way out of your way to find the right technique and She might not even like it at all. Have you asked the Mistress who owns you?

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RE: The correct way to kneel before Mistress ? - 2/24/2006 8:33:34 PM

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Kneeling is a common word.......we all pretty much understand the general usage of it...know it's significance and all that........There are only a finite number of ways to form a human body for torture in the main..........however, past a survey of pictorial examples found on the net, everyone that I am aware of that is watching those that kneel, require fairly unique circumstance..............

If I was to practice kneeling, without the discerning eye of a M/D (let's let that be sufficient for tonight, folks) I would concentrate on the perfection of the act from standing, facing, back turned in the middle of sex.......yadda, yadda, yadda . However you find yourself poised in the world it is important that it be done gracefully, completely and without self-conciousness........these are the points to ponder......this is the perfection, the placing of body parts, eyes, hands, whatever will be controllled by the person in who's presence you are presenting your will to........the moving between postures is far more important than the final posture. can you go down to kneeling from a 260' foot springboard in the middle of a dive into a 2" pool of water without faultering?

Ja, I am making this implausible, but so are you........if you see a picture of a tilted head with eyes down, and think........this is the act of submission; well...........you are so fuckin' wrong that I can't even eplain it.......

If your end posture is cemented by some stricture, you will find yourself in more trouble than not. If you have a habit of tilting your head (for me) you will have a bruised head...........for others, that is what they desire.......

It is the pleasantry of the aesthetic of the from-to which is the most valuable.

This is probably unintelligible by most, but I am sure someone here can interpret...........

Good Hunting to you all.

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RE: The correct way to kneel before Mistress ? - 2/24/2006 9:36:27 PM

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Quite intelligible here, and a refreshing post, at that

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RE: The correct way to kneel before Mistress ? - 2/25/2006 5:53:23 AM

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