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LadyElizabeth -> fantacy's? (2/15/2006 9:16:50 AM)

When you fantasize, A)is it usually about someone you know?, or, B) is it a total blank image of a unknown person/s(stranger)?, which one ((a)/(b), or both), are the fantany/s more intense?



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: fantacy's? (2/15/2006 9:21:40 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyElizabeth
is it usually about someone you know?, or, b) is it a total blank image of a unknown person/s(stranger)?, which one ((a)/(b), or both), are the fantany/s more intense?

It's rare I have actual story line fantasies, usually it's just flashes of emotion and action.

And it's about 50/50 on whether it's someone I know or a stranger. Both are very common for people to have. I find both fun and intense in their own ways- if I found more intense I'd probably fantasize about it more.



truesub4u -> RE: fantacy's? (2/15/2006 10:38:46 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyElizabeth

When you fantasize, A)is it usually about someone you know?, or, B) is it a total blank image of a unknown person/s(stranger)?, which one ((a)/(b), or both), are the fantany/s more intense?


Fantasies I have always thought of being something you really want to happen... though it may never actually happen. Sense so much wanting to have it happen....having a fantasy of one I actually know... makes for a more realistic fantasy. Though I may start out thinking of one.. I do find that one changing faces.... and becoming someone else completely... those are nice ones too.. LOL



MistressOfGa -> RE: fantacy's? (2/15/2006 10:45:50 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyElizabeth

When you fantasize, A)is it usually about someone you know?, or, B) is it a total blank image of a unknown person/s(stranger)?, which one ((a)/(b), or both), are the fantany/s more intense?


Interesting question. I was married for many years and most times when we were having sex, my mind drifted to other things, bills, pets, household items that needed to be done, ect. (This explains why I am not married to him anymore)
With my pup, his face is always in my mind during scenes. I will think about his laughter, his eyes, his way of speaking, his body movements, his hands, his words. I will think about how when he is happy his face just glows and when he is sad his eyes cast shadows. Does all of this turn me on? No, most of it does, but for the most part I am excited by what is happening here and now, and the rest is just icing on this happy womans cake <s>



IronBear -> RE: fantacy's? (2/15/2006 10:49:36 AM)

I use fantacies toi work through something from all perspectives and to ascertain the probable and possible causes and effects of such fantacies in a reality situation.... I'd probably not call then true fantacies unless they had a BDSM or sexual content. I usually refer to them as Creative Visualisation, which I teach in Pagan/Wiccan/Clan Classes.



OscarHargraves -> RE: fantacy's? (2/15/2006 11:36:26 PM)

Usually about someone I know or have met but then again I also still fantasize about Raquel Welch and those get pretty intense.......



Sirandlittle1 -> RE: fantacy's? (2/16/2006 12:26:08 AM)

Im not really aware of fantasies. I cant for instance think of one right now. Im not sure i know what they are even?
I day dream, and they often have a sexual connotation, depending on how horny i am at the time, and how long my last play was. During those bloody awful denial games [:@] my daydreams go in line with my rising libido. The longer im made to wait, the more intense, detailed, and filthy they become. And that is usally involving the tottie that walked past, remembered sessions, etc not at all Him only by any means, but dont tell him lol.
Generally, i fantasize/daydream about what i want, then get it, eventually.

little1



Petruchio -> RE: fantacy's? (2/16/2006 1:56:26 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyElizabeth

When you fantasize, A)is it usually about someone you know?, or, B) is it a total blank image of a unknown person/s(stranger)?, which one ((a)/(b), or both), are the fantany/s more intense?


It can be both, but at times I have erotic dreams that seem to be a combination of people I know. That combination, unwilled as it is, is the most intense.



slaveladyj -> RE: fantacy's? (2/16/2006 4:27:10 AM)

I'm a writer, and one of my lead male characters has always taken center stage in my fantasies. He can be cruel and demanding, loves to punish his slave for her irresponsible actions, yet is always rescuing and caring for her.



Cloudz -> RE: fantacy's? (2/16/2006 4:33:42 AM)


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ORIGINAL: IronBear

I use fantacies toi work through something from all perspectives and to ascertain the probable and possible causes and effects of such fantacies in a reality situation.... I'd probably not call then true fantacies unless they had a BDSM or sexual content. I usually refer to them as Creative Visualisation, which I teach in Pagan/Wiccan/Clan Classes.


Morning IB,

I am familar with creative visualization...but had to chuckle that you use your fantasies to sort out the details...never a wasted moment?

Be well,



Cloudz -> RE: fantacy's? (2/16/2006 4:39:08 AM)


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ORIGINAL: truesub4u

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyElizabeth

When you fantasize, A)is it usually about someone you know?, or, B) is it a total blank image of a unknown person/s(stranger)?, which one ((a)/(b), or both), are the fantany/s more intense?


Fantasies I have always thought of being something you really want to happen... though it may never actually happen. Sense so much wanting to have it happen....having a fantasy of one I actually know... makes for a more realistic fantasy. Though I may start out thinking of one.. I do find that one changing faces.... and becoming someone else completely... those are nice ones too.. LOL


Hi true,

Don't you think fantaises can be about what you are almost <delicious shivver> afraid to try or something that would be too dangerous to try - sex with a stranger - or multiple strangers on a subway for example?

I sometimes fantasize about a scene that I am planning or one that I have done...sometimes a beautiful stranger catches my eye - makes me smile and if it is a good day keeps my thoughts humming for a day or so. That is the lovely thing about minds, they allow us to play even during a boring meeting <grin>.




truesub4u -> RE: fantacy's? (2/16/2006 9:13:40 AM)

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ORIGINAL: slaveladyj

I'm a writer, and one of my lead male characters has always taken center stage in my fantasies. He can be cruel and demanding, loves to punish his slave for her irresponsible actions, yet is always rescuing and caring for her.



ladyj, damn hope we're not writing about the same character.. LOL

I've got like maybe 2 more meetings with this Dom and his slave to complete this book.. I would love to share some of this with you..



angelic -> RE: fantacy's? (2/16/2006 9:22:12 AM)

i used to fantasize about my 'x'. i realized when i did that (after the split) that i always felt very sad afterward. Now, my fantasy is really weird (and i'm not sharing it for fear of being considered a freak) and it is not one i would ever really consider doing r/l; however, the change has worked in ways i would never have imagined. [8D]



truesub4u -> RE: fantacy's? (2/16/2006 9:22:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Cloudz

Hi true,

Don't you think fantaises can be about what you are almost <delicious shivver> afraid to try or something that would be too dangerous to try - sex with a stranger - or multiple strangers on a subway for example?

I sometimes fantasize about a scene that I am planning or one that I have done...sometimes a beautiful stranger catches my eye - makes me smile and if it is a good day keeps my thoughts humming for a day or so. That is the lovely thing about minds, they allow us to play even during a boring meeting <grin>.





Hi Cloudz,

Yes I do agree with you on this.... this is what I ment about sometimes though you start out with one face in a fantasy... and the faces start changing. Hell, I start a fanasty about Sean Connery... next think I know.. it's ... nope that one remains Sean Connery.. bad example.. LOL... other than maybe Harrison Ford will join him... (grinzzzz)


Let me try again... you mentioned sex with a stranger or multiple ones on a subway.. (don't have subways here so I'll use the Military Base here).... yes, there mere thought of a few Marines, Sailors, I've had the joys of passing, driving by, bumping into ....... have made for some great fantasies... specially if it's been a few that have smiled back.. or spoken to me (not knowing I just got all wet standing there talking to them). Which brings me to the statement..... I start a fantasy about one.. and the face changes to another... or a few others.. one thing about fantasies... they sure as hell can start in one place.. and go to so many more other places, times, people..... (grinzzzz)



Slipstreme -> RE: fantacy's? (2/16/2006 11:32:12 AM)

Mine tend to be more flashes of action without a face attached to the other partner. In my dreams there is a concrete plotline and a face I know, sometimes a complete stranger. Lately though, I have found myself topping myself in dreams, and fantasizing about what it would be like to top and bottom at the same time.




slaveladyj -> RE: fantacy's? (2/16/2006 11:59:44 AM)

truesub4u, drop me a line, I'll be happy to look it over.



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