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humiliation ideas? - 2/12/2006 2:41:53 PM   
Troubleinparadis


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Status: offline 		I am a fairly creative person, ...but even at that sometimes it takes a kick start to get the creative juices flowing...or flowing in a diffrent direction.

I havent practiced humiliation in depth in a while, just some games here and there....but I am about to take my girl down the rabbit hole of long term humiliation/degredation.

I was going to have my girl post pictures of her humiliation scenes on the internet for others to comment on, and perhaps make requests....unfortunatly it seems there is not much demand as I could not find a site to post to.

So due to the lack of humiliation resources on the net....

If anyone wants to share humiliation ideas, I could use a few more for my bag of tricks..

Post here or feel free to Pm me....whatever works for you

Thanks!
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RE: humiliation ideas? - 2/12/2006 2:46:38 PM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		While I am far from expert on any of this, I remember your other thread.

It seems, IMHO, that "long term humiliation/degredation" might not be the best thing to begin considering the troubles you described in your relationship...

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RE: humiliation ideas? - 2/12/2006 2:52:44 PM   
Troubleinparadis


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Status: offline 		I dont want to get into it to much in this thread, (dont want to hijack my own thread lol)......but one of the things that happend early on in our relationship was lots of humiliation and such. Things have been going very well in paradise the last few.....this is mostly her request as in "if things are going to work they need to go back to the way it was before you started getting all worried about me".

Which I should add puts me in a bit of a spot, because I do not want to repeat past experiances, well perhaps a few but I need new material so to speak...


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RE: humiliation ideas? - 2/12/2006 3:00:11 PM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		That ought to do wonders for her self-esteem and mental health. Apparently, he prefers the "pile of goo" mentality.


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RE: humiliation ideas? - 2/12/2006 3:05:31 PM   
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this is mostly her request as in "if things are going to work they need to go back to the way it was before you started getting all worried about me".

Which I should add puts me in a bit of a spot, because I do not want to repeat past experiances
So she's still telling you what to do and how to do it. Nowhere here does it say you have an exhibitionism fetish/a strong desire to make your relationship open for everyone's viewing pleasure, so why are you trying to publicize your pictures?
I can't imagine that given all the problems you were having at the beginning of the week, that this is part of the solution you two have come up with, but hey you're both adults, so if you want to show, create a yahoo profile, add links to your pictures, and make them public. M

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RE: humiliation ideas? - 2/12/2006 3:08:55 PM   
Troubleinparadis


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Status: offline 		why dont we carry this back to the other thread, be happy to discuss it as much as you like....in the mean time I would prefer to leave this thread semi on point.

She has made a request, I am attempting to make happen for her...if it dosent work for us then so be it, but its worth a shot.

Anyway......that said I still need some ideas, anything from mild to extreem as they both have there own uses...

TP

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RE: humiliation ideas? - 2/12/2006 3:09:32 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		I have many pictures...but that's not humiliation..that is wrong! Why would you display your sub in pics?..I wouldn't..and won't, they are many other ways to humiliate, but to do in in public is fucked up!

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RE: humiliation ideas? - 2/12/2006 3:13:24 PM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		Amen to that, too.

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RE: humiliation ideas? - 2/12/2006 3:15:05 PM   
Troubleinparadis


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Status: offline 		Already did the yahoo profile routine did that years ago...would prefer something a bit more I dont know just more lol...but hey good idea and thanks.

As for telling me what to do, its more just the way it is....we were both happy at one point, we both are not now, and we both want to go back to where we were,....and yes it is very much my desire, one which I fed like a fat man at a buffet when we were just starting out.....

I think I am going to change the topic of this post to slave/wife wanted to go nilla, now wants to get freaky....lol might get more suggestions.


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RE: humiliation ideas? - 2/12/2006 3:31:34 PM   
MHOO314


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ORIGINAL: fastlane

I have many pictures...but that's not humiliation..that is wrong! Why would you display your sub in pics?..I wouldn't..and won't, they are many other ways to humiliate, but to do in in public is fucked up!




IMHO I agree completely, to Me this is a private matter, I would never expose the boy publically--but again, this is My opinion only--well and of course---his--smiles

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RE: humiliation ideas? - 2/12/2006 3:34:39 PM   
perverseangelic


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ORIGINAL: fastlane

I have many pictures...but that's not humiliation..that is wrong! Why would you display your sub in pics?..I wouldn't..and won't, they are many other ways to humiliate, but to do in in public is fucked up!


That depends a lot on you.

I don't see it as wrong at all. In fact, I think it's really fun and very hot. About the only way I'm an exhibitionist is in pictures.

Why would he do it? Because his girl wants him to.

Why does my owner let me? Because he likes that it gets me hot, and he enjoys sharing.

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RE: humiliation ideas? - 2/12/2006 3:38:11 PM   
Troubleinparadis


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Status: offline 		You said that much better than I could...err did.

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RE: humiliation ideas? - 2/12/2006 4:06:27 PM   
jamesthehumanrug


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Status: offline 		greetings troubla in paradisio
besides the fact i get nothing out of it....
im so glad im no top ;humiliation is too much responsibility ,and certainly very tricky...what, if they take it to heart;you, just have to have a really good, m,that you know, inside and out first; is all i can say ;ask childhood stories ,by the fireside,on the topic,of humilation, then try to get similar emotive results she had ,for the new ideas, that match her already experienced sucessful humiliation.
good luck;
i wouldnt risk the wrong words for a million dollars;
words you take to the grave;
words mean so much;
its a burning bridge;
let us know what similar pattern you followed from your subjects 'background;she may even tell you a fantasy-humiliation instead ;sort of a wishful thinking stance,especially , if she has nothing to recall from her childhood humiliation sequences ,off hand.

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RE: humiliation ideas? - 2/12/2006 4:17:34 PM   
Sub03


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post any kind of pictures of your sub and have people rate them and comment on them.

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RE: humiliation ideas? - 2/12/2006 4:35:27 PM   
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RE: humiliation ideas? - 2/12/2006 6:46:30 PM   
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RE: humiliation ideas? - 2/12/2006 6:50:54 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: proudsub
I think Lucky Albatross deserves to have my threadjerking title after that post.

LOL Sometimes I think people post JUST to see the links again.

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RE: humiliation ideas? - 2/12/2006 7:51:19 PM   
ownedgirlie


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ORIGINAL: fastlane

I have many pictures...but that's not humiliation..that is wrong! Why would you display your sub in pics?..I wouldn't..and won't, they are many other ways to humiliate, but to do in in public is fucked up!


i have been exposed publicly and did not feel it was fucked up at all. However, it was "in person" publicly and not posting pics on the web. Master finds pictures to be rather sacred to him, and understands my concerns that any photo can be copied by anyone and sent anywhere. The last thing i ever need is my family seeing "those kinds" of pictures of me. Even with webcamming, people can do screen shots. Pictures, once no longer in his control, can end up in anyone's control.

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RE: humiliation ideas? - 2/12/2006 9:16:01 PM   
cloudboy


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ORIGINAL: Troubleinparadis

I was going to have my girl post pictures of her humiliation scenes on the internet for others to comment on, and perhaps make requests....unfortunatly it seems there is not much demand as I could not find a site to post to.


Posting someone's pictures is a stupid idea, as the pictures will get around. Humiliation scenes should be self contained and come an go in a finite way, otherwise you are disrespecting the sub.

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RE: humiliation ideas? - 2/12/2006 9:20:34 PM   
perverseangelic


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ORIGINAL: cloudboy


Posting someone's pictures is a stupid idea, as the pictures will get around. Humiliation scenes should be self contained and come an go in a finite way, otherwise you are disrespecting the sub.


I honestly don't see why disrespect is a problem. In my dynamic, while I expect my owner to respect me as a -person- I have no claim on respect as his property. That is, to belong to him, I needed to know he respected me as an indivudal, but now that I -do- belong to him it doesn't matter that he respect me. However, this is only -my- dynamic. To say that all submissive people don't deserve respect is equally as false as that we all deserve respect.

Sure, pictures -will- get around, but if that's a risk you or your owner is willing to take then there's nothing wrong with this.

Don't get me wrong, I think the OP's not doing soemthing wise, but I think that has to do with the people invovled in his dynamic and not the actions he's taking. Those...well...we all like different things. It's not a good idea to say that an act or behavior is bad for everyone.

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