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slavejali -> RE: BDSM Lifestyle/ Domestic Abuse in News (2/16/2006 5:21:34 PM)
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I agree, its hard to comment, but I do have a story to share, kinda similar:
Master told me about this:
He knew a couple who had met online. Been together online for a long time, playing around with typed words etc. Supposedly sharing their kinks and fantasies and designing their relationship and what they would do when they met etc etc etc.
When they finally met and started playing, The *Dom* did exactly what they had been discussing online for ages, that they had both agreed to. I cant remember what it involved exactly...but anyways..the girl had marks and went to the police and reported him for abuse stating, "she didnt realise it was really going to hurt" (ugh doh)
I'm not typing this out to discuss safety aspects or whatever...but just from the persepective of Doms, we hear so much of the risks for slaves and submissives...but really all it would take is a submissive or slave to not like how things went, or freak out or whatever and go to the police with *marks* to show of their abuse...Doms really take a chance too.
In one way I was glad to see the Judge took the flavour of the relationship into account, although like I said in the beginning, its very difficult to know what really happened unless we were there.
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