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RE: teaching a sub to orgasm on dom's demand - 10/2/2004 12:25:03 PM

cariad

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this slave rarely posts here but found this to be an interesting post....for this slave all Master has to do is say "C__" and she does, it has taken a lot of training for her to be able to hold back including punishments when she would "C__" without permission. there are a few websites this slave has visited on "O Control," a Dom friend of hers from IRC told her about them and now she can't remember the names of them at the moment. if Y/you do a search on google for "O Control" Y/you should be able to find a few sites, this slave will also ask her Friend about the sites He recommended and will post them within the next few days.

this slave has learned that when Master says "Not yet MY cariad," if she takes a few deep breaths and concentrates on His voice she is "Sometimes" able to stop herself from "C_____." heck even just typing the word for her sometimes gets her going, because Master and this slave live 3000 miles apart right now, therefore W/we are restricted to online and the occasional phone call.

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RE: teaching a sub to orgasm on dom's demand - 10/4/2004 12:25:00 PM

slaveofEstring

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Cuming on command has been a totally amazing thing for me. Being in a vanilla relationship for 28 years and then meeting my master and learning so much from Him has blown me away at times.

I think the reason I learned to cum on command so quickly was my complete trust and my complete willingness to give myself to my Master. He has turned my life around and shown me how much more I can be than I ever thought possible. He is a very patient teacher and cares so much about me that it is very easy to do what He wants me to do. My mind and my body wants to please and serve Him. When we are together I want to focus solely on Him and His needs. I will admit sometimes it is hard, depending on what is going on, but I find for the most part my whole being responds to His words and His touch. Pain or pleasure is no different. My body responds to both.

I feel I am very fortunate to be able to respond this way to Him. I have gone from a vanilla relationship with an orgasim maybe twice a month (or even fewer) to several a day because of my Masters training and love for me.

I'm not very good at sharing my feelings but I hope maybe this might help someone a little bit to share my experience.

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RE: teaching a sub to orgasm on dom's demand - 10/4/2004 7:14:30 PM

subbiejenn

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Hi SlaveofEstring

i think you wrote very nicely and it is great to see you posting. *smiles* i am glad you found such a wonderful Dom in which you are so totally happy and content with. It is great to see a couple so in touch with each other!

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~jenn~

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RE: teaching a sub to orgasm on dom's demand - 10/4/2004 8:41:57 PM

Synocense

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I have a terrible time understanding this topic myself. It seems to me to be an impossible feat and I know myself to be a highly sexual creature, so that isn't a factor. I am afraid this is one of those things I will always be skeptical about unless I have seen a "subject" orgasm, hooked up to heart rate monitor and muscle tracker. lol Sorry! It's much too easy to fake...now that I've seen and believe.

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RE: teaching a sub to orgasm on dom's demand - 10/4/2004 9:03:12 PM

EStrict

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One of the first people I ever met in the lifestyle could cum on command.... unfortunately the *command* HAD to be the sound of her dominant saying *cum*....

Of course, HE never took into consideration that he might die,,, and she didn't have an orgasm the first 6 years I knew her. Luckily, she met a new dominant who eventually reprogramed her mind to allow her body to be able to release all on it's own. I guess that's why I have a problem personally with this kind of *teaching*,,, unless the dominant shows the responisible action of a way for the submissive or slave to be able to cum should their relationship ever ends for any reason.....

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