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RE: Femdom demeanor: "Kneel at your PC" - 2/1/2006 9:03:42 PM

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Getting back to the original question when a Femdom come on strong like that I assume first it’s a man or a woman looking for some cyber quick role play.

Sure I like the hard as nails evil Domme approach sometimes when meeting a woman online but I always assume it’s an act and Play along for a bit

Those encounters don’t last long they never move up to the phone call stage even.
Its fun up until the point you realize its not going to go beyond the one handed fantasy talk.
Then just plain creepy if you begin to think it’s a guy. (as soon as they send that too good to be true photo of some model or porn star you know it’s a guy, )

Sometimes it really is a woman testing the waters a bit because that is how she thinks she is supposed to act like a Dominatrix in a porno video.

Mostly though I think its bored horny guys looking for cyber fantasy.

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RE: Femdom demeanor: "Kneel at your PC" - 2/2/2006 7:31:00 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mantis65

Getting back to the original question when a Femdom come on strong like that I assume first it’s a man or a woman looking for some cyber quick role play.

Sure I like the hard as nails evil Domme approach sometimes when meeting a woman online but I always assume it’s an act and Play along for a bit

Those encounters don’t last long they never move up to the phone call stage even.
Its fun up until the point you realize its not going to go beyond the one handed fantasy talk.
Then just plain creepy if you begin to think it’s a guy. (as soon as they send that too good to be true photo of some model or porn star you know it’s a guy, )

Sometimes it really is a woman testing the waters a bit because that is how she thinks she is supposed to act like a Dominatrix in a porno video.

Mostly though I think its bored horny guys looking for cyber fantasy.

Yes on messenger the rules are a little different than here and if they do not have a filled out profile the first thing i fire at them is "you dont have a profile" and see how they respond. many times it is legit but most of the times it is not and i suspect it is guys. So if i continue with them and move forward within the first few minutes of a conversation i tell them since you dont have a profile i need to see you on cam so i know who is talking to me. most disappear by now. the ones that stay either try to talk me into talking about what i like to do in bdsm, and i tell them what i like to do in nilla instead :). and if they tolerate that for a little while then i tell them that if they want to talk with me further i have to see them on cam first. all this in maybe 10-15 minutes inbetween doing other things on the puter. but i agree that at first, that is the first few times it happened to me i also got a nice little rush from an aggressive domme too, but i have not had one of them in a long time on the inet because i have built up so many barriers to it. Now face 2 face up close and in person, well that is another story entirely.

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RE: Femdom demeanor: "Kneel at your PC" - 2/2/2006 6:00:35 PM

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When I was a bit newer to being online back in 98-99 I didn’t know what was “normal” online with an encounter with such Dommes.
What happened to me was the woman I met online (and she sent pictures of a fairly believable Varity). Things were fun but nor serious, yes this was Yahoo messenger.
It went from role play to friendship until her “slave” aka husband she forgot to mention got mad she was playing on the net. Which is exactly all she was doing.
To her the BDSM thing was 100% fantasy just a distraction.

On collarme a profile that A. too good to be true and B. has no photo I don’t even bother with most of the time.

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RE: Femdom demeanor: "Kneel at your PC" - 2/2/2006 6:34:33 PM

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When I hear stories about submissive men being approached online by femdoms

This line really got my attention...

Based on the many online & real time conversations I have had it would seem that a large majority of women are not the ones doing the approaching. This leads me to believe that the three examples you made are very point on since it is not scam artists, men pretending to be women or of the overbearing women that were involved in these conversations.

Does this statement suggest that women do not approach men online? Not at all, but I think it does suggest that most women who are sincere, not scamming & are very confident about their identity as a dominant doesn't initiate contact with that type of rudeness.

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RE: Femdom demeanor: "Kneel at your PC" - 2/3/2006 11:25:07 AM

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can't say this ever happened to me so I cannot place an answer...but I suppose it is possible, why not?

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When I hear stories about submissive men being approached online by femdoms with a huge "you are a slave, I am a femdom" demeanor, I wonder what exactly is going on. Are there women that are believing this to be true? That because she is emailing a submissive (who doesn't know her from Adam), he must immediately submit?

Are there women that are simply using an approach they believe will attract attention?

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RE: Femdom demeanor: "Kneel at your PC" - 2/4/2006 12:19:16 PM

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Curious post.

My experience has been with male subs who tell Me they are 'kneeling before their pc in homage', etc.

Oh, puhleeze. As IF they moved their lardass out of their chairs and got on their knees to type.

It seems I've been chatting with the subs who need to find the Dommes that Aakasha is referring to!

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RE: Femdom demeanor: "Kneel at your PC" - 2/4/2006 1:09:23 PM

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What it truely is, is a perfect example of whats happening to our society. Our culture.

Its turning into a hipocritical, made for tv, male fantasy.

Its absolutely disgusting to watch these people and their antics.

Not to confused them with those that truely value what we're buiding here, and those who take it seriously.
I cant even go into a chat room without getting disgusted and leaving.

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RE: Femdom demeanor: "Kneel at your PC" - 2/4/2006 1:41:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: MstrssPassion
Does this statement suggest that women do not approach men online? Not at all, but I think it does suggest that most women who are sincere, not scamming & are very confident about their identity as a dominant doesn't initiate contact with that type of rudeness.

yes i would agree that most women who are sincere and i would like to add "and not seeking cyber". many women are sincere in seeking cyber relationships

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RE: Femdom demeanor: "Kneel at your PC" - 2/4/2006 1:46:44 PM

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ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

Curious post.

My experience has been with male subs who tell Me they are 'kneeling before their pc in homage', etc.

Oh, puhleeze. As IF they moved their lardass out of their chairs and got on their knees to type.

It seems I've been chatting with the subs who need to find the Dommes that Aakasha is referring to!

TexasMaam

i had to laugh at this image, i stopped for a brief moment to see just how this felt like and i must say, this floor is hard...LOL...and the carpet doesn't help much either. not to mention, it's damn difficult to type while kneeling...LOL

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RE: Femdom demeanor: "Kneel at your PC" - 2/4/2006 9:47:03 PM

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You mean everytime I write to Mistresses online, I don't have to be on my knees? Shit!!! I'm pulling up chair.....ahhhhhhhhhh, boy, that is better. Wow, you've really changed my life!!! Thank you sooooooooooooooooo much!

<laughing out loud...funny! TM

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