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RE: Low Income Dominants. - 2/13/2006 11:21:31 PM   
DragonNphoenix


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Status: offline 		My Master is on disability. He was injured in a car wreck 10 years ago. I work.. I make rather good money... I am pleased with what I make. I support us both, alone with our joint sub. Does it make him any less worthwhile because I support the home? No.... it is just that he cant... does that make him less of a Dom? NO...

Anyway... that is my 2 cents.

1st Girl Phoenix

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RE: Low Income Dominants. - 2/13/2006 11:32:33 PM   
slave4Darby3d


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Status: offline 		I don't care one cent about what my loving Master has or has not. It is the man, the who he is, that is the true wealth. And, that has nothing at all to do with money or his dominance. Just who he is.

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RE: Low Income Dominants. - 2/13/2006 11:39:31 PM   
DragonNphoenix


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ORIGINAL: slave4Darby3d

I don't care one cent about what my loving Master has or has not. It is the man, the who he is, that is the true wealth. And, that has nothing at all to do with money or his dominance. Just who he is.



Very well said...

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RE: Low Income Dominants. - 2/14/2006 4:26:18 AM   
humblesurrenders


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ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion

If you can't even take care of yourself hardly making it or moments away from destitution you shouldn't take another person's care on.

quote:

If you can't even take care of yourself hardly making it or moments away from destitution you shouldn't take another person's care on.


Ah but should They be "taking care of us" or should they be mastering us.... i hope They are mastering us and we are taking care of ourselves.

Just my opinion.
hs

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RE: Low Income Dominants. - 2/14/2006 7:19:12 AM   
Driver1961


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Status: offline 		Enters, waves to all...............

Wow what an interesting thread. Some people have money, some don't- just like ethics. Some people are on the net realtime, others in fantasyland, wow again!!! I haven't even got to the Dom and money debate!

Even online here at CollarMe the issue of money and peoples' openess, veiled openess, or downright judgementalism is so smacking (oh, how can I fit THAT word in again?) of the general tolerance, intolerance of modern society. But has society ever changed with regards to the MONEY QUESTION?

ps. I dont have alot of money- so I make my floggers out of braided strips from my empty 'wheeties packets' then dip them in beeswax from the native bee hive out back.

Can we start a thread on how to be a 'Worthy Dom/me ' on a government subsidy/ income? The 'haves' may learn some tips on how to 'HAVE' more!

Smiles and laughs to all, sorry gotta go and turn the possum/squirrel 'on the spit' (I wish I could afford a little motor for it)

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RE: Low Income Dominants. - 2/14/2006 7:55:04 AM   
ownedgirlie


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ORIGINAL: humblesurrenders


quote:

ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion

If you can't even take care of yourself hardly making it or moments away from destitution you shouldn't take another person's care on.

quote:

If you can't even take care of yourself hardly making it or moments away from destitution you shouldn't take another person's care on.


Ah but should They be "taking care of us" or should they be mastering us.... i hope They are mastering us and we are taking care of ourselves.

Just my opinion.
hs


Great question. "Taking care of us" can have varying meanings to different people. For some, being Mastered IS being taken care of. For others, it is being financially supported, etc. And "should," as we have learned in this wonderful BDSM community, depends on the dynamics of the two in the relationship. If you ask 100 what "should" occur, you will get about 90 different answers.

i remember when begging my Master to train me, asking him, if i give myself over to him, will he take care of me? He wanted to know what i meant. For me, i just didn't want to be abused again. "Taking care of me" meant looking out for my best interest while training me to his liking.

Going back to what i think the poster meant....i guess it all goes back to that saying, if one can not master him/herself, how can he/she master another?

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RE: Low Income Dominants. - 2/14/2006 2:57:54 PM   
MrDiscipline44


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ORIGINAL: humblesurrenders

Ah but should They be "taking care of us" or should they be mastering us.... i hope They are mastering us and we are taking care of ourselves.

Just my opinion.
hs

Well said and I can agree with it.

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RE: Low Income Dominants. - 2/14/2006 5:01:25 PM   
MstrTiger


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Status: offline 		Like with most other lifestyles having money helps, though I don’t think it is too important to how a person chooses to live there life.

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