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slivy -> blackmail on-line (1/26/2006 9:30:28 AM)
Hello, a friend and i (we met eachother at collarme.com) like to play out our online fantasies and sometimes he gives me tasks that i have to do for real. But in most fantasies i have, i am really forced (kidnapped, raped, blackmailed, etc...) and we would like to try it in our online chats to. So now we're looking for a safe way wherein he can blackmail me, but i have to feel safe to. He was thinking about me sending him a compromising picture of myself that he could send to someone i know (friend, colleague, familiy,...) but i think that's to dangerous for myself. I know blackmail is black or white: there's nothing in between, you're blackmailed or not. Still, i want to know if anyone has an idea about how he could get me a little more under his control, but there has to be little danger for me too? Thanks for your advice anyway bye now slivy xxx

MistressSassy66 -> RE: blackmail on-line (1/26/2006 9:45:27 AM)
I have a sub I blackmail,I threaten to tell on him to his gf,he sends a small amount 10.00 a month(money orders works great),its not about the money its about the control,to My P.O.Box. You can use a post office not in your neighborhood to mail the payment from if you dont want to be to open about it.Or do it from one close by to get that rush. I make him put his address on the envelope so I can say I will write to him and of course the gf has access to the mailbox. I send offline notes asking what day is it.I posted here reminding him. When I see him in person I threaten to tellblank. I should say I would never tell....but I dont want harriet knowing that...lol

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: blackmail on-line (1/26/2006 9:49:47 AM)
Emotional Blackmail Consensual Blackmail and Third Parties Blackmail/Forced Servitude Fantasy?

Lordandmaster -> RE: blackmail on-line (1/26/2006 9:59:36 AM)
You're probably not going to like this answer, but if it's blackmail, it's not safe--and if it's safe, it's not blackmail. Personally, I don't think I'd ever get involved in a blackmail situation because the risk to the blackmailer (NOT the one who is being blackmailed) is too great. But that's because if I ever were going to blackmail someone, I'd do it for real. And it wouldn't be safe. quote: ORIGINAL: slivy So now we're looking for a safe way wherein he can blackmail me, but i have to feel safe to.

Petruchio -> RE: blackmail on-line (1/26/2006 12:28:20 PM)
I'm with L&M on this one. What you could do is pick another photograph off the internet and send it. That fits in with your play fantasy and still remains safe. You don't even have to tell him. Pick a photograph of, say, LadyAlbatross. Yeah, that should do it.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: blackmail on-line (1/26/2006 12:30:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Petruchio I'm with L&M on this one. What you could do is pick another photograph off the internet and send it. That fits in with your play fantasy and still remains safe. You don't even have to tell him. Pick a photograph of, say, LadyAlbatross. Yeah, that should do it. As long as they don't live in MD/DC/VA or near Boston, you should be fairly safe :) One of the best suggestions I ever read online was "Don't bother asking for a pic, just print out a naked pic of your favorite female naked and imagine that's me"

cloudboy -> RE: blackmail on-line (1/27/2006 3:57:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slivy we're looking for a safe way wherein he can blackmail me, but i have to feel safe to. I thought the point of blackmail was to be IRREVOCABLY COMPELLED or else. What the hell does "feeling safe" have to do with it? If you're feeling safe, it ain't even blackmail.

cloudboy -> RE: blackmail on-line (1/27/2006 3:58:57 PM)
Seems you beat me to the punch.

ZodiacLeo -> RE: blackmail on-line (2/5/2006 10:49:01 AM)
Hey your picture, profile is already online on collarme.com, same for your forumposts. All he has to do is treaten to reveal that to someone you know who is not supposed to know about your fantasies. Nu weet ik niet hoe 'compromising' dit is maar ik neem aan dat sommige vrienden, collega's, ouders toch wel geshockeerd zouden zijn.

Carameldomme -> RE: blackmail on-line (2/5/2006 4:00:33 PM)
Blackmail usually is a person threatening to tell someone something that you don't want told. The attractive part of it is that you are 'forced' to do things you don't want to do. your inhibitions, morals, wants etc take a back seat to the person who now pulls your strings. If you want someone else to forcible control you without the risk of being exposed hanging over your head as a primary motivator, don't let that be the force he uses to motivate you. Find another way in which you can be compromised. I won't say this will work for you, but here's my thoughts... give the blackmailer the title to your car, or a valuable ($ or sentimentally) item, a key to your house. Allow that person access to something you want or need, like your bed, or your home. This creates a scenario like this... "I want you to do XYZ, if you don't you can not come home tonight." or "you can not wear a different outfit from the one you wore today" "you will sleep on the floor in the bathroom" "you can't use your car"

SirKenin -> RE: blackmail on-line (2/5/2006 5:42:43 PM)
Here is My bet... He asked for a compromising picture. My bet is he has not seen one of you and is obviously attracted to you, or at the very least to what is underneath the clothes. I doubt very highly he will accept another form of "blackmail", no matter what form of blackmail you suggest. The reason is simple. Unless he is completely out in left field somewhere, he knows that true blackmail is not nice, it is not consensual and it is done as manipulation. You do not go up to someone and say "Hi, I would like to blackmail you. Can I see your boobs"? Preposterous. What he really wants, and I will bet My dollars to your donuts, is that picture for himself. He is trying to manipulate you into giving him one. Trick you. Whatever. Same thing. In other words, he is playing games to see what lies underneath your clothes. To test this theory, suggest any other form of blackmail. I will bet on it that he says no, or at the very least he will humor you a few times, while he keeps on bringing up the picture.

ExistentialSteel -> RE: blackmail on-line (2/6/2006 2:41:56 AM)
As L&M said, the blackmailer would be in more danger in a play blackmail situation than the person being blackmailed. What is to keep the person from going to the police and saying he/she is being blackmailed? The person would have ample evidence. That threat, alone, would be anxiety producing and give the submissive power over the blackmailer.

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