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RE: I'm a new Domme seeking advice - 1/25/2006 9:36:24 PM

Real0ne

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ORIGINAL: veronicaofML

with ALL due respect? what do YOU call the difference?

seems in MY mind here...that it is one and the same..
bear with me a minute.
domineering..in my mind;
someone that is overbearing and demanding?
dominant;
someone that calls ALL the shots..
so?

what's the difference?

in THIS household it is the same thing.

so PLEASE......

YOUR definition?

thanks

well i am pretty sure what i posted as the definition is the dictionary definition or very close in meaning anyway. if you look at it, the definition of domineering is based on the perception of the one being dominated.

So what that means regarding your question is: if that is the way life is for you at home and you are satisfied with it then it is not domineering but being dominated. If you are not satisfied because it is to much for you to handle then you could say it was overbearing or domineering. Its a matter of your perception.

Oh yeh i just want to add that being dominant implies a welcome passive sense in which someone follows and being domineering impies an aggressive sense where someone is pushing themselves onto another in an unwanted manner.

rgds

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RE: I'm a new Domme seeking advice - 1/26/2006 11:46:27 AM

MistressSassy66

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I'm both Dominant and Domineering.

IMO,You do learn from subs,not meaning they have to actually teach You.

Conducting sessions can be a learning experience each and every time.

A laid-back experienced sub and a new Domme can make an awesome first Domming session.

Even if You know what You want,what harm can it do to read about a specific fetish?
I read as much as I can about things that intrest Myself and/or My subs/slave.
Can You ever really know too much?

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RE: I'm a new Domme seeking advice - 1/28/2006 9:41:51 PM

veronicaofML

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Can You ever really know too much?

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lol
i could point to a few here that think they know it all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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