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RE: demented? - 1/18/2006 10:43:11 PM

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The op did not separate fantasy from reality, that sanitation sweep was provided by blushes.

its very hard to assess what the dilema is, if its a fantasy,
and therefor, this is kinda raising a red flag for me. As a woman.

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RE: demented? - 1/19/2006 12:50:03 AM

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That is a deliciously intellectual response with deeper meaning than I expected to receive. Thank you ever so much. If those of you dont agree with my respons to this commentary on my question, that is your perrogative. It is my perceptions, and after all my perception of my reality is most important

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RE: demented? - 1/19/2006 2:37:50 AM

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Well to shield my self from incrimination I would rather not divludge my sexual deviancies in exact explanations of the kinds of acts of violence that arouse me but I will explain that I am uncontrollably sexually aroused by hearing about or experience acts of violence, especially against women (hint) which leads me to believe I may be demented. Disclaimer: acts of violence against women for the most part I do not support and absolutely no acts of violence against children

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If those of you dont agree with my respons to this commentary on my question, that is your perrogative. It is my perceptions, and after all my perception of my reality is most important

Red flags abound. You need to shield yourself from incrimination.. on a message board to which you post anonymously? You are 'uncontrollably' sexually aroused by even hearing about acts of violence? For the 'most' part you don't support violence against women? It is your perception of your reality which is most important?

I'm not into blind acceptance just because this happens to be a BDSM based message board. None of this sounds like fantasy to me. My advice... seek out a therapist and get some help before you either get seriously hurt or are an accomplice in someone else getting seriously hurt. I wonder if your perceived reality might have ever concluded you could be a sociopath? Only a trained therapist can tell you for sure. You asked if you are demented.. aka mad, insane, and you asked it for a reason.

Flame away and call me judgemental, but nothing in these postings leads me to believe this is your run of the mill rape fantasy.

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RE: demented? - 1/19/2006 2:42:26 AM

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Of course if you asked a psychiatrist this question, he would ask you to tell him why you thought you felt that way. He would listen attentively and relate to you as a human while you expressed your thoughts and emotions. You would feel better, pay him and go home.

Okay, seriously, many have the same thoughts and wonder about them or feel guilty that they are attracted to such things. These desires and questions are what bring many to BDSM.

We all begin with primal feelings of violent conquest from a dominant or submissive view as puberty begins, yet, as we learn to function in society, suppress this innate drive usually to the point of denial. We deny that we every felt that way. We go to great extremes to say we do not feel that way or never have.

Many who find BDSM have worked through guilt feelings with rationalizations of various kinds or understandings that the desires are not abnormal. Controlling desires in channeled, metaphorical roles is how we live our fantasies safely.

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RE: demented? - 1/19/2006 7:33:17 AM

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ORIGINAL: Mauigurrlxxx

That is a deliciously intellectual response with deeper meaning than I expected to receive. Thank you ever so much. If those of you dont agree with my respons to this commentary on my question, that is your perrogative. It is my perceptions, and after all my perception of my reality is most important

Thank you. I fully understand your proclivities toward enjoying cruelty.

Does it make one demented? No. It makes one simply honest. There is a price for that honesty in public forums such as these, however (as you have noticed). ;)

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RE: demented? - 1/19/2006 8:36:15 AM

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I'm not sure what this has to do with beating a woman to death while she screams for her life and pleads to see her loved ones again.

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RE: demented? - 1/19/2006 9:35:38 AM

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I'm not sure what this has to do with beating a woman to death while she screams for her life and pleads to see her loved ones again.

Stop it, you're turing me on.

(Joking, cloudboy)

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RE: demented? - 1/19/2006 12:12:58 PM

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So can I sexually molest you then in the name of good kink amyos? hehe sorry, I am feeling a little cheeky today. hell I am always cheeky wheather it manifests itself is another story entirely.

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